would u dump ur boyfriend for jay?

[choo min]

yeah, if jay saw you, decided that he likes you and started chasing you, would you dump your boyfriend and accept jay? or maybe two-time them for a while to see who's better...

i think i would accept jay immediately and dump my boyfriend, but i dunno, as i've never been in a relationship before :cry:

please think about what you will really do, or i think everyone will be screaming to be with jay :dry:

[ker_ai_teresa]

well actually i think it would be a bit rash to immediately dump your bf just bcoz J is chasing u. i mean, i know we all love J as an artist and musician but in real life would he be suitable for you and vice versa? i mean suitable as in to live with, marry, spend the rest of your life with?

i suppose it's fun to imagine being his gf and what not, but you have to admit that none of us actually knows what kind of person J really is. i'm not trying put J down (heck i'd never do that!) but i'm just trying to be realistic. oh well! whatever! i don't have a bf right now so if he did chase after me, i'd give him a go...why not huh?

[steiffelephant]

JAY! um, actually i'm not sure. i mean it would depend on what jay is really like, and my boyfriend. and i think it's really mean if you two time, and no matter who it is, even jay, i really don't think two timing is the way to choose the one you want to be with.

and on the other hand, what if you're really not suitable for jay and you dump your boyfriend just cuz JAY is after you. then you'll have no one at all when jay finds out that you two don't actually click.

and obviously, if i was single, i definitely definitely choose JAY!!

[illusionanqel]

it depends on how much i like my boyfriend ;] haha. truthfully though i haven't had too many boyfriends so like steiffelephant said, if i was single, OBVIOUSLY JAY~! :D

[xJayChoux]

Well, at this moment I haven't got a boyfriend, so yes I definitely will choose for Jay...but if I had a boyfriend, I think I will choose for my boyfriend, I mean, if it brokes up with Jay, than you've nobody!!! hahah

[-dream-]

well...yes Jay is a wonderful guy, but i wouldn't accept him just like that, an idol is very different from a lover, my boyfriend(if i had one that is), would be someone i actually care deeply about, someone that i chose out of everyone else, i should know him much deeper than i know Jay, so if you can actually dump him immediately, he was probably never of much importance to you to begin with. I would seriously think it over, saying something is different from doing something, i will only break it off with him, if i find Jay truly more worthy than him.

[mandy]

this is really difficult
well i dont have a bf right now
but if i think about it.... if i have a bf...
first i won't two timing....

this is really difficult
it really depends the relationship i have with my bf
but i may not chose jay.... MAY not... becoz he's a really busy person and i don't think he will have much time being with me
and the biggest problem is... i speak cantonese hahahahah so we will have a language problem anyway haha
which is a shame..... sigh~~~

[min]

well.. really unless if i know jay really well i won't! the feeling is not that deep

[linny]

Well, it really depends on how well you know Jay, how much you like Jay, how much he likes you, and how much you care about your boyfriend, doesn't it?

Just because Jay's chasing after you doesn't necessarily mean that he'll actually get with you. And what if you're not compatible with him? Then what? I think ...if Jay asked me out and I could talk with him and if I wasn't serious with my boyfriend (if I have one), then I'd go with Jay. But if I was serious about my boyfriend, then probably not.

Either way, don't two time the two guys. That's unfair and just ...wrong.

[minimin]

Come on guys I know what you guys think now might not end up to be what you do. In situations like this how can you resist Jay's cuteness and charm. I mean we all love him so much at the first place so if hecome and chase after you I think I will give him a CHANCE because I'm not like married yet so I have the right to choose besides I don't have a boyfriend yet. You all might say how can you actually just dump your boyfriend for Jay just like that if you don't know Jay in person, but why did you girls like Jay then? I mean be real how many of you can resist if Jay ask you out. I don't mean to dump your boyfriend immediately, but you should tell your boyfriend that Jay is chasing you and if your boyfriend really loves you then he'll do a fair battle with Jay. Hey I sure that you girls aren't married yet right? So we always have freedom to choose.

[babyxv]

i guess i'd hang out with jay (as a friend, of course) and if i start liking him romantically, i guess i'd break up with my boyfriend. it's tempting but i wouldn't break up with my boyfriend immediately just because jay is jay. you also have to think about jay's status and what comes with being in a relationship with him. his travelling.. the paparazzi.

[janicehui9]

Hmm...if I knew Jay extremely well, and know that he's like the man of every girl's dream, I would probably go by that and say I would dump my boyfriend for Jay, but not immediately, as it may cause a commotion, saying that I'm a player. But at the same time, dating an idol isn't easy at all, because he wouldn't have enough time to see you. And if you were to go out to places, there would probably be a mob of fans surrounding him, and you wouldn't be able to go anywhere. On top of that, long distances relationships are VERY hard to keep, since he will be travelling a lot. If I had to go through all of these traumas, I would probably stay with my boyfriend!!

[en_en]

Ehh...tough choice...

I think Id see how things went and who I like better, because honestly my boyfriend now is somewhat like Jay, minus the musical talent, but the shyness is def. there and hes pretty cute too.
^-^

But I dont know...I really admire Jay! But like dream said, I dont know him as a person, I just fell in love with his music, hes probably a great guy, but I wouldnt know until I know Jay better, and if Jay really likes me (yeah like thatll ever happen), or is anyone really liked me, theyd understand.

[Angels on clouds]

tt's a toughie..hehe.
but i'll prob be friends wif him 1st, and if he's really wat i'm looking for in a partner, den why not? :wink:
but if i'm single, i suppose i'll have to tink if i like jay as a person and not jay as a superstar/music genius...coz stars haf reservations about dating their fans as they're afraid tt he/she is in love with their onscreen persona or image and not the real them...

[jAy is a s h y_ b o i]

lol that's a horrible thing to do to immediately dump your bf for jay.

it depends if i'm happy with my bf or not.
i'll admit that i will seriously consider having one wild night with jay lol and leave it at that... you know, just to satisfy my fantasy..hahaha

but to really dump my bf?? eh..... it depends....

[*SkyLark*]

Interesting thread!

For me, I wouldn't choose to dump my bf immediately. But of course, if Jay treats me nicer I'd run to his arms. I believe the bonds between a gf and bf are not very easily tempered with, if both of them truly loved each other. And I think Jay would dump me immediately if he saw how fickle I am by choosing him straight away.

Shrug

[cystaltears]

wellz..i dun have a bf @ the moment...but if i truely loved my bf i wouldnt dump him for jay...even if jay is the most wonderful guy..lol..but if my bf was a jerk then OF CORUSE JAY!! hehez

[ker_ai_teresa]

Come on guys I know what you guys think now might not end up to be what you do. In situations like this how can you resist Jay's cuteness and charm. I mean we all love him so much at the first place so if hecome and chase after you I think I will give him a CHANCE because I'm not like married yet so I have the right to choose besides I don't have a boyfriend yet. You all might say how can you actually just dump your boyfriend for Jay just like that if you don't know Jay in person, but why did you girls like Jay then? I mean be real how many of you can resist if Jay ask you out. I don't mean to dump your boyfriend immediately, but you should tell your boyfriend that Jay is chasing you and if your boyfriend really loves you then he'll do a fair battle with Jay. Hey I sure that you girls aren't married yet right? So we always have freedom to choose.

personally, to date a guy i would go beyond the outward apperance. personality, inward beauty and compatibilty are more important than cuteness and charm. furthermore, idolising J doesn't necessarily equate to wanting to date him, marry him etc. personally i idolise him for his music and talents. yes, i agree to give him a chance (if the opportunity ever arises!) but it doesn't mean i'll drool at his feet just because he's interested in me.

[xoxo]

hmm...this is really thought-provoking.

in the first place, my boyfriend is my boyfriend because there is something that makes me stick to him, now if Jay is suddenly to come into the picture, i would immediatle dump my bf for him. i mean, it could be a big mistake since i've only known Jay as the way the media makes him out to be. now, if Jay turns out to be really good and if i can see myself still being with him in the future and if i find myself happier with him than with my bf, that's the only time i'd go for Jay. but if there aren't romantic sparks, i won't be with Jay just for the sake of being with JAY. got it? sometimes i tend to talk in circles. :blush:

[evenstar_sc]

LOL. What a topic. (starts dreaming...)I definitely wouldn't jump into it with both feet without testing the waters first. And that's only if I don't have a boyfriend. If I already have a bf and really like being with him then I wouldn't jump at the chance. We'd probably just be friends. Jay is an infatuation, what we know of him is just preconceptions we get from watching his interviews and listening to his music. I mean we don't know him, it might go well or not. So, it depends on how compatible you are with Jay or your bf right?

[lovegreengreen]

oh yeah ....i sure will dump my bf......hey... u all might think its silly? but i like jay so much even in the end i might not end up long with him at least i was once with him!!

Being with him isnt all of ur;s dream? what is there to consider??? how many of us in our life can get together with someone u admire and desire so much??

yeah!! and definitly i wont 2 timing!! haha coz i will only have heart for jay if we are to be together!! yeah

Green

[AsianHotgirl]

I don't have a bf now, so I'd definitely go for him! But if I did have a bf, I'd really have to think about it! It would depend on how serious we were and whether I see a future with my bf! If we were having problems and were going nowhere then I'd definitely go for Jay! This is something you'd really have to think about! I mean, most people would just jump for Jay b/c how often do you get a chance to date a superstar like Jay! But I'd really have to think about it! You all make good points about not really knowing Jay, just knowing the image that he is as an artist, but not knowing him personally!

[-dream-]

personally, to date a guy i would go beyond the outward apperance. personality, inward beauty and compatibilty are more important than cuteness and charm. furthermore, idolising J doesn't necessarily equate to wanting to date him, marry him etc. personally i idolise him for his music and talents. yes, i agree to give him a chance (if the opportunity ever arises!) but it doesn't mean i'll drool at his feet just because he's interested in me.

I agree wholeheartedly, a lover is very different from an idol.

[linny]

Ya know, as cool and awesome as it would be to be able to go out with Jay, I think I idolise him too much to actually be a good girlfriend. I admire his musical talents and I love his music. I even like his personality, the little bit that I can see from interviews and the like. But... idolising and admiring someone is very different from liking them personally.

Er, anyway, I basically agree with everything ker_ai_teresa said. ^^

[stephie]

dump my bf for Jay ?!?! NEVER!!! even though i am sorta a player......i would never dump my bf for jay.........so tempting.........but currently, i love my boyfriend too much........too much to even think about breaking up with him......ever!! and i'm sure he feels the same way too kuz i'm just too hot LOL!!!!!!!!!! i'm joking!! i'm joking!! yah....... if this was a diff bf........i would.....but......anyone but eric

[jay's_beibee]

Funny that I find this posting here...I swear I was just wondering about this topic the other day. I know it may sound shallow, but I would test the waters with Jay and if we were compatible (starting as friends), I'd dump my boyfriend to be with Jay in a second. But I would definitely not cheat...that's the worst thing you could ever do to yourself and the other two parties. As lovegreengreen says, just the chance/opportunity to date Jay is my fantasy and dream come true (and I'm sure this is also true for the majority of you!!). I would risk losing my current relationship (which is stable, healthy and strong) with my boyfriend because I feel that being with Jay is a once in a lifetime chance!! And honestly speaking, although my boyfriend does not idolise any female celebrity to the extent that I'm crazy about Jay, if he had a chance with that female celeb, I would want him to leave me to follow his fantasy/dream. Really! Honestly!!

[J-chan]

If I had never been in love before, I'd say "Of course! Jay Chou my man!!!"

I love my boyfriend too much to let him go for ANYONE, let alone Jay.

...Although, one of my favorite fantasies is if both David and Jay Chou were my loving and devoted husbands.

^^ Aww, yea. Is it getting hot here?

[minimin]

Well I did not say that I would dump my byfriend IMMEDIATELY for Jay( thought I don't have one).I don't think Jay is extremely handsome, but because I ADMIRE him so much I have to think he's cute and charming and I don't think that I like Jay for his outward appearances; I do really at the beginning only like his music and now it's his talents so I accepted his looks too.
Yeah IF I HAVE A BYFRIEND of course I won't dump him for Jay......though having a chance to got out with Jay is tempting. Anyways if I do meet up with jay and he ask me out (well maybe not as a date) I'll go out with him because if your byfriend really trust you then he'll accept to the fact that he won't be mad at you but think that u only went out with jay because ur are Jay's fan and only will admire him not LOVE him.[/b]

[fantasiekisz]

hmmmmm yes i do LOVE jay to death but like err i haven't even met him much less know him..so i guess i would stay with my boyfriend and be FRIENDS with jay and if the sparks fly than maybe consider dumping my boyfriend..i dunno..it's not likely this would even happen to me tho haha!

J-chan!!!!!! hahahahaha david and jay!!! hahaa i love david and jay too!

[OLive_aNN]

hummm
since i have no bf, and i dont want to have a bf, of course i wont dump anyone for jay hahhahaa...
but if someday i have a bf, i wont dump him for jay lha ^^

[cici bebe]

My theory is..

Guys are everywhere.

There's only one Jay.

[J-chan]

hmmmmm yes i do LOVE jay to death but like err i haven't even met him much less know him..so i guess i would stay with my boyfriend and be FRIENDS with jay and if the sparks fly than maybe consider dumping my boyfriend..i dunno..it's not likely this would even happen to me tho haha!

J-chan!!!!!! hahahahaha david and jay!!! hahaa i love david and jay too!
=^_^= Derf. You mean David Tao, eh?

I meant David Wong. That's my boyfriend's name! lol

[choo min]

My theory is..

Guys are everywhere.

There's only one Jay.

yeah i agree! it's like i know that i will feel regretful for the rest of my life if i lose the chance to be with jay, and i will be unhappy with my bf for making me miss my dream. so i think that although jay may not be exactly how we imagine him to be, but i'm sure we will regret that we missed the chance cos we will still have the good image of him in mind... make sense?

[girl_next_door]

hehe good question....

well if i was ever in that situation, i would have to see how it goes really...i certainly wouldn't dump my b/f immediately cos i do love him a lot - i mean although i do like jay - i don't actually know what he's REALLY like so i reckon the best thing to do would just be to hang out with him and see if anything develops.

[lovegreengreen]

yeah yeah jay's_beibee and cici bebe...there is only one and only JAY.......and chance like this are really a dream to us! yup.

Seriously i think majority here are very devoted to their bfs......i dont know......

thats very good in a way but if for Jay......i dont know i would still give it a go man......most probably when any guys see what i type here they sure dont want me as their gf....but i dont care coz only if i can be with jay even just one week im like the happiest gal in the world! yeah

green

[nino]

i don't think i would dump my boyfreind for jay becuase he is someone i would rather fantasize about than to have as a real boyfirend...stars and celebrities are for fantazing about right? anyways, he has a higher status than i do, he could walk up to anybody and ask them out on a date with out being turned down....i would not have this advantage if i were to dump my boyfriend for him and the relationship did not work out.

[ilu163]

HECK YA!!!, i would dump my bf(if i had one) 2b w/ jay in a sec! i know that sounds shallow. but seriously, its a once-in-a-lifetime chance. even if its just 1 day(or nite!) w/ him, i would die a VERY happy girl. that is every girl's dream n i wouldnt give it up for any1! guys r a dime a dozen but theres only 1 Jay!!! so ya, no doubt about it!!!

[An9el**]

like cici bebe said ....
there's only ONE Jay .

[sUm^MeR]

I would date Jay once, but dumping my boyfriend???? Hm... I would have second thought. B'coz if I'm dating my b-f to be my husband. Therefore, if I have to choose Jay over him, Jay must be my husband-to-be type of guy. And... reading of the Jay's ideal girlfriend thread, make me think twice. So... I wouldn't dump my boyfriend for Jay. He's just a fantasy, not a reality. He might not be as awesome as I always fatasize as a boyfriend/husband. Besides, I never know him, never know whether we could "click" and have that "chemistry" towards each other, you know. :wink2:

Hm... does it sound like a total denial???? Well, I hope it doesn't. :happy:

[bytme]

No.

First let me fantasize about being in a serious relationship with a mutual emotionally responsive partner.

Honestly, I don't think that Jay could ever be that person, at least towards me. In a perfect world maybe...but then I would have to share him with millions of other girls wouldn't I? :-x

Would Jay be the type of guy to persue a girl when he is aware that she has a significant other?

[jessca]

anyways, he has a higher status than i do, he could walk up to anybody and ask them out on a date with out being turned down.

Thats a good point. If I was single, I would probably date him but wait a while before progressing because I would have to know whether he was gonna be true to me or whether it was just Jay being the idol of millions of fans. If I had a boyfriend, I would have to stay with him but Id hate to miss the chance of being with Jay if I end up splitting with the guy I had turned Jay down for. Make sense? So im kinda glad Ill never be put into that sort of position!

It would be really hard having to share the one you love with millions of other people, thats why celebrity couples find it so hard to stay together. But thats why Jay put the emphasis on a gf/wife who would be willing to drop everything and travel around the world with him cos he would hate for it to happen. He knows the hurt it can cause both sides by separating.

[Liliann]

if i dont'' have a bf ...of coz'' i'd go for Jay.......:love: :whistle: :usd: :kisschee:
:roll: :laughing: :usd: :love:
but if i do!!....den'' i should reallii'' think carefullii
bout'' diz'' situation upon my bf and Jay!!.....
i wouldnt'' dump my bf just to be wid'' Jay ...
(even my dream and wish is to be his gf :usd:) hehe onlii in my dream......:sleeping: ZZZZZzzzzz
i would still love Jay and his songs no matter wut!!
but dat does not mean i love my bf anii less if he treats me gud'' and care for me........:kisschee:

[Emjay]

I've never been in a relationship before cos I'm only 14? But since this question is asked, I think I would go for JAy. Jay IS the kind of guy I like in the first place. Yeah~I think I would. this is such a difficult question!

[liztsumi]

omG you people are kinda helping me out of my obsession for jay. I am so in love with him, and I definitely like him, as I like guys in real life.
But true, there's a difference between idolizing people, and liking people in real life. There's an enormous distance between idol love, and bf love.

And besides, If i were to leave my bf for Jay , then I would first have to erase all prejudice on Jay-like how he's a talented, rich famous artist-, if I had liked JAY since BEFOREhe was even famous then i would go for him. Not now, that I've beenblinded by media.

Ironic, i m in love with him but i would not go with him....
hehe

[une_topaze]

i will be thanking my lucky star, guardian angel for giving me a chance to be this close with him. i'm in a relationship but honestly saying, i probably will not dump him for jay. but jay have soooo many good qualities dat a girl will be sooo stoo-peed 2 say no 2 him rite? just be his best fren laa...friendship is much more everlasting than lovers relationship most of the time.

u can c dat he's very much in love with his music. and the fact that he aledi have had 8 gf shows dat something is not rite(2 busy etc..) i hv 2 admit dat i have major problems with jealousy n being possesive so dating jay is not a good idea. i'll probably spend more time crying n fighting wit him wenever he's away o rumours bout he's with other girls turn up. yap...can not la...

sometimes being too realistic is well, a disapointment but dats y we dream n fantasize, rite? but u never know...dreams can come true... :wink2:

[ker_ai_teresa]

omG you people are kinda helping me out of my obsession for jay. I am so in love with him, and I definitely like him, as I like guys in real life.
But true, there's a difference between idolizing people, and liking people in real life. There's an enormous distance between idol love, and bf love.

And besides, If i were to leave my bf for Jay , then I would first have to erase all prejudice on Jay-like how he's a talented, rich famous artist-, if I had liked JAY since BEFOREhe was even famous then i would go for him. Not now, that I've beenblinded by media.

Ironic, i m in love with him but i would not go with him....
hehe

you're very sensible and clear-headed liztsumi! :thumbsup: we all love J, but we've got to be realistic, as i've said in previous posts, so i won't repeat myself again.

[nyemie]

O my god i would definitely dump anyone if jay "chased" after me !!! .... i mean, i don't think we'll become husband and wife ..but for the time being ..what the heck right?!

[wenhope]

Hmm since we all know that Jay wanting to go out with anyone of us is about as likely as an alien coming to earth and abducting me to it's home planet to make me queen over all the realm....i guess we could all dream lol...anywayz i would totally dump my b/f. anyone who knows me knows about my dream of being with Jay, so they'd probably understand, even if he get's hurt.

[sam123]

No! I mean, if I had a boyfriend... like that'll happen anytime soon. Anyways, I am too young for Jay anyway

[Hyde]

um... considering my life goal (with a few plans in progress) is to marry Jay...... YAH!

[GuArDiAn AnGeL]

hmmmmmm hard question..it depends...like...if my bf and i are doing okay....cuz if we are doing okay i think i'll reconsider...lol :laughing: even though ITS JAY!!....but if im not doing well wid my bf..then i will DEFINATELY go wid jay lol...... :yeah: neways.... i still think i will go wid jay though...but i don't want to put up wid all the fans going like...ahhh they don't match and so on so on..... :wink2: so...being wid someone famous...can be a problem :happy:

[JiE_LuN'z_BabE]

mm...depends on the relationship... is my boyfriend worth dumping or not...hhahaha.. but if jay was really sincere i'd prolly think about it... ^^ but then i dont think being a celeb's gf feels good..i mean the fans..the publicity n stuffs...i prolly sou bu liao...heheheheh

[Mandy-Lee]

Hmmm if Jay likes me and is going after me...... THAT would be the end of the world... neva eva eva eva gonna happen... ANyways, even if it happened, I dun think I'll dump my boyfie... heeheeeh...

[viruskangta]

er..as much as i like jay n'everthing...i will not dump my bf 4 him.
i mean he's like my idol and i like him ALOT!!~..but..how can i dump my bf 4 him? :glug:
unless of course if i had a bad bf...but then..if that happened..he wouldn't be my bf nemore newayz :)
but i didn't have a bf..then..kekeke..i wouldn't even need to think about it :bleh: !

[Fontane1212]

well actually i think it would be a bit rash to immediately dump your bf just bcoz J is chasing u. i mean, i know we all love J as an artist and musician but in real life would he be suitable for you and vice versa? i mean suitable as in to live with, marry, spend the rest of your life with?

i suppose it's fun to imagine being his gf and what not, but you have to admit that none of us actually knows what kind of person J really is. i'm not trying put J down (heck i'd never do that!) but i'm just trying to be realistic. oh well! whatever! i don't have a bf right now so if he did chase after me, i'd give him a go...why not huh?

Actually, I don't think it would be fun to be his girlfriend at all. I mean think about it, he's so busy with work, you'll hardly ever get to see him. Plus, you would have to be discreet everytime you go out with him and you won't be able to do all the 'nomal' things that bf and gf do...such as holding hands or hugging in public..Also, if fans find out that you're his gf, they'll start stalking you and send hate mail to you! Arrrghhhh...having a celebrity bf is definately not my idea of fun...although in my fantasy I would love to be his gf. :)

[vunsin]

Well, if I'm already thinking of dumping my bf because it just isn't working out with him, then Jay's advances would certainly be very welcomed! On the other hand, if I'm perfectly happy with my bf, it doesn't matter if Jay, or any other guy, pursues me. I'd still stay with my bf. I'll just let Jay knows that I love my boyfriend and I can only be his friend. If he doesn't respect my decision, well, then I'd know that I've made the right choice!

But either way, I won't choose Jay JUST BECAUSE of his celebrity status. Who knows maybe after getting to know him I might find that we're not compatible or that he's not the person I thought he was? It's true what some of you have said: it's stressful being the gf or bf of a celebrity, especially for us "normal" people. All of the sudden, you're in the limelight and you're a "wanted" person. You just can't be "normal" anymore. There'd be so much pressure. All of the sudden, everyone wants to know what you're doing and how you're doing it. You lost your privacy. And girls hate you. Or worse, it'd cause Jay to lose his fans. It might be career suicide for him.

However, if, after getting to know Jay, I find out that he's really a nice person and that we're very compatible, I might be more tempted... Of course I won't consciously try to fall out of love with my bf to fall in love with Jay, but if it happens, then it just won't work with my bf anymore, right? In that case, I'd have to prepare myself to be in the situation I've mentioned above. If we really love each other, we'll make things work.

Anyhow, the bottom line is, although I think he's a very talented artist and I really admire him, that doesn't necessarily mean that I'd want to be WITH him. It might be nice to fantasize about being pursued by a celebrity (that'd be a great boost to my self-esteem), but I don't think this will happen in reality, so it might as well just stay a fantasy.

[Venus21]

I know that I would not dump my boyfriend for Jay. If I was in a relationship where I don't really care about my boyfriend...then yes. But right now I'm in love :blush: and we are going to be married someday so if I do find myself in a situation where Jay likes me...then we can be friends. Of course there's such a thing as harmless flirting...but I would tell Jay that there is NO chance, just so I don't lead him on.

This is along the lines of what Vunsin said:
Idolizing someone and loving someone are two completely different things. If I can get to know Jay for who he really is minus the fame and fortune and still have feelings...then it's different. A person's attractiveness is immensely increased by their fame and social status...take that away and you might find yourself feeling differently for the person.

Also I don't believe in dumping anyone just because something better comes along....it's just not good karma.

[faithlykeachld]

Naw. his songs are nice and all but then I wouldn't know him at all. If he asked me out that would be wonderful! :love:

[Seltsi]

Nope, because Jay's cute and all, but first of all hes bit too old, lol, and secondly, I admire him for his talent, not just his looks~

[princess`bobo]

never ~ i only like jay for his talent and its not like i know much about his personality or anything like that....

[HeY_JaYz]

no...
as i don noe his personality....
but i knoe it jus wont happen...

[specizhen]

This will nv happen but i dont think i wil dump my boyfriend just like tt.

[blue_blury]

If i dum my boy fren, it's really unfair for him... May be i willl two time them? mayb juz let them to fight equally? ? Mayb i will consider how much i luv my bf or how much he luv me?who knows? It all depends on the situation.

[Pink]

If Jay were to woo me, I'd fly :excited: If I can think calmly, I'd give all of us time to see who's more suitable, but if I can't think calmly, I'd sure choose Jay coz I love him so much :love:

[simple_gal]

Hmm....Before this I dun think I will, but now i surely will!Coz my boyfriend has dumped me!Haha!It's really sad u noe!He never love me!I loved him so much but now i think that he's not worth to get my love.Actually my ex-boyfriend looks like Jay!They're alike!But now I only love Jay!Yeah! :bleh: :love:

[jtayk]

:excited: Argh!!! It would b a dream come true for everone who likes Jay , and don't have a boyfriend. This is a very difficult question ( but u know what, I used to ask myself that question before this is posted.) Two timing is not bad, but if any of them find out it would not b good and I might end up loosing both of them. Ha ha. Am i being too serious here??
But if I'm don't have a bf at the mo, I won't give a second thought. I 'll say " OK !" :D

[xian186]

Well, depend on charactor. See who would suit U the most. Who u r happier with. As simple as that.

[di`jay]

well..i'll try to know jay better 1st..see what type of a guy he is..
then..if i feel that he suits me more then my bf does..
i'll tell my bf to go find a better girl who will make him happier than i will..
yeaup..
so i guess i'll break off a relationship if jay is really my type of guy.

[w4t3r_lily]

Definitely no..cos i don't know his personality.. I loke Jay for his music..his talent and also his face..but i don't think it's enough to make me really fall in love with him in my heart..as boyfriend..no i don't think so..unless we already know for ages..i know his personality andi like it..maybe..who knows?

[chichirui]

That would be a horrible thing to do unless I wasn't happy with my boyfriend... in that case, drop him in a heartbeat. lol... maybe not.. ^^;; It really depends on who treats me better and who I love more.. Jay's just a celebrity who I really don't know at all... but if he really is that sweet to me and my boyfriend isn't, then of course I'd go for Jay.

[pepper_salt]

i think i probably be wif jay chou cuz my current bf is not my ideal guy... i admire jay alot n also kinda like him too... so it will be gd if one day jay become my bf... sooo nice..(drooling!) but in reality, this will never happen...Haiz...

[gr8t_gal]

LOL
I wouldn't dump my bf (not that i have one) but i wouldn't wanna reject jayyyyyy, i'd wish that i could be jay's friend so i could get to know him better, then we'll see who's better out of those two :-D (He...he...he...)

[vunsin]

i think i probably be wif jay chou cuz my current bf is not my ideal guy... i admire jay alot n also kinda like him too... so it will be gd if one day jay become my bf... sooo nice..(drooling!) but in reality, this will never happen...Haiz...

I'm just wondering if your current bf isn't your ideal guy, WHY are you still with him? Does he even know that? Are you just waiting for someone better to come along, e.g. Jay?

[fungi]

can i two time both of them???? lol!!!!! hahaha. but no way will i ever give up my dear darling for anyone! haha. jay would never know me anyway.

[~niteangel]

yeah I probably would not because Jay's all famous and cool etc but I think we would have a lot of common interest and i like his shy peronality so i reckon we'll make a good couple LOL! :laughing:

But it'll still depend on my current bf ~ if he becomes jealous of Jay and starting giving me roses I might change my mind :bleh:

[honeybees]

It depends on how much I like my boyfriend. :yeah: I would not accept Jay immediately cos we don't really know the character of him very well...

If I really know him very very well, I will accept him straight away.If my boyfriend is also that good, I will not out with a decision. I will test them who understands me that well and I will be with him. :love:

[rosiean86]

HAHAHA! I don't even have a bf...so my answer ot this question would be an automatic YES. :D

But if I did..hmm..I wouldn't if I really loved him. But if he was just someone I was dating, then heck yea! Mmm...a one-night stand with Jay..night of passion, lol! I mean, how often are you gonna get that kind of chance? Might as well take it, you live only once, right?

[Jerria]

It depends on how much I like my boyfriend. :yeah: I would not accept Jay immediately cos we don't really know the character of him very well...

If I really know him very very well, I will accept him straight away.If my boyfriend is also that good, I will not out with a decision. I will test them who understands me that well and I will be with him. :love:

I agree.... :happy: i cant just dump my bf(if i have one :laughing: ) for Jay, it depends on how my bf is....or Jay is...umm is this makes sense??? :? .. wat i mean is jus like honyebees said....i totally agree on that...hehehe but am free now though Jay can come anytime...hehehe i will say YES!!! :excited:

[Merriana]

yes i would dump my bf if jay ask me nicely to become his gf... :oops:
and if he shows me some good magic trick ...
plus a smile from jay wud ease my mind... :cry:
and he sings Jian Dan Ai just for me... :love:
otherwise... i should think for a very long time...

[pepper_salt]

hmm.. my currently bf is NOT YET my ideal man... jus a bit more to go... i like jay cuz he's talented... i like his music too...

[starry_man]

hehe... i think i will choose jay...if his character is as good as my bf...then sum more jay is so talented and cute...(",) :love:

[meldevilish]

well... guess it depends... i mean u wouldn't be with that guy if u dun love him rite? haha but any girl will jump for that chance... yea... to be with jay!!

[katon]

i think i would choose neither
b/c im not gay :yeah:

but u shouldnt dump ure bf for jay chou
that is evil and wrong and inconsiderate

[zhy378]

i say no, cuz first he's a bit old for me, but not that old. plus i don't have a bf now, so what else is there to lose. though one exception, i'll drop my bf if jay drop his gf, hehe. then i know, but mostly no.

[wey_zsho]

it would definitely depend...

if my boyfriend is xiao tian... maybe... :dry:

if it's wei bo, i'll think about it twice... :?

if it's lee hom, i'll have to think about it a hundred times! :blush:

but if it's just an ordinary guy, of course i would pick jay... :love:

i dunno... probably it will still depend upon my feelings towards the two of them... :)

[o0o0lala]

from my point of view, i would certaintly choose Jay. personally, i feel Jay is the kind of guys ive been looking for. but it is somehow very much impossible.

i like guys who are shy and gentle. in his case, i feel he's everything i look for in a guy. no doubt i would say yes if he asks me. well, im single currently. haha. :bleh:

its true that we dont know his character well but love is when you see an imperfect person perfectly rite? his emotions when he sings his songs and stuff like that are what is exposed to us. somehow, we can judge his character by his song too.

age wise, nothing is impossible. if a guy can marry a woman 10 older den him, why cant a woman like a guy who's 8 yrs older than her? :happy:

get what i mean? :)

[yukiko]

off course i will. absolutely will

[van91]

well it depends who is better = jay/ my bf :wink2:

[ZanZan]

well,i guess the gals out there wil stil look at the situation....hm.....tt;s veri right of them indeed....they wil consider abt their bf 1st...and most choose their bf....i'm glad 2 c this....hahaz...anyway,personalli,i feel tt jay is a great guy(in music)...and he is quiet(cos he is diao)....most impt,he is qoo(cos ppl like him n he's an idol).....lol...erm....if i'm a gal,i wil stil follow the majority....choose my bf!!

[cherily]

it would definitely be a tough choice but i wouldn't know how its like cuz i have always been single. :laughing:

maybe i would get to know jay better before deciding..i mean its okay to have him as ur idol but a bf is a different thing altogether..if u really decide to be with jay it would mean that u would have to face the media and all the reporters that are tailing u all the time..not to forget crazy fans who are obviously jealous that jay likes u

but if i have a bf i don't think i would really dump him for jay..would prefer jay to stay as my idol instead..it would be pretty rash if i were to leave him for jay cuz there is no certainty that jay and i would remain together with so much pressure from the media

[samlovepiglets]

DEFINITELY :bleh: !!!! if jay wans mi, i'll immediately break up wif my bf!!!! n provided he realli loves mi... but mayb i'm a little too young 4 jay :blush: ...

[MoUsEy]

I won't break up with my boyfriend for Jay. They're totally two different people. Jay is the kind of guy that don't belong to my world. He's so talented, he live in the rich man's world. He may be so cool and all that, but he's just not the kind of guy I can live with for the rest of my life :happy:

[Jisushika]

I won't dump my boyfriend for Jay~ Although i admire Jay a lot...but that's totally different from the relationship I'm havin with my boy friend~ But if i really had the chance...i would probably hang out with Jay for 1 day!That would be cool enough.. *_* HEhe...dreamIng~

[topghurl]

funny...my bf always asks me this question coz he knows im crazy bout jay :dry:
he even asks me "who's cuter me or jay??" hehe

i mean he looks good but hello!!!! jay is like $#@*+!!!
hmmm... would i dump him 4 jay??? i guess not..

JAY's admirers are lined up longer than the great wall of china 4 jippers sake!!
not realistic at all...

[kei]

it really depends on how much i love my boyfriend. but if jay wants me, i would most likely dump my boyfriend for JAY! :love: :love: :love: but.. i think i'm too young too! :laughing:

[lilmizzaudi]

well...it depends. i mean jay is very busy being a pop star and all, we probably wouldn't have a lot of time to ourselves to get to know each other as well as a relationship recquires. there would probably be alot of bad rumors and such going around. i wouldn't want bad things to happen to jay :cry: but if he was really really serious about it i would DEFINATELY go for jay! :D

[love_angel_hotgirl]

well it depends 4 me, cuz i gotta think bout it~ hes 2 old 4 me, hes 11 years old than me!!! plus he'll b busy everyday, no time with me at all, after sayin all dis, i guess i'll just keep my bf~
well im sure it'll b nice 2 have jay as a bf *daydreamin mode*

[SugarTink]

No i wouldn't. I love my boyfriend so much and some celbertiy could never replace him. And I think girls who would are so stupid.

[xfrozenx]

I think it is a ?? and a ?! Very hard to decide leh! But something I am very sure about it! I will not be a two-timer! It makes me feel bad.

[supawan]

I think Id see how things went and who I like better, because honestly my boyfriend now is somewhat like Jay, minus the musical talent, but the shyness is def. there and hes pretty cute too

[E-Ping]

I dont think i'll dump my boyfriend for Jay.I really really like Jay..and i admire him a lot but dumping my bf for Jay --is a different story.Um..i'll dump my bf if he betrays me--not for some celebrities.Oh no...i still like Jay every much..just becoz i wont dump my bf for him..that doesn't mean i dont like him.

[denise88]

it depends actually. i've got to get to know jay better of course and see if he's a real gentleman and stuff. and if i see that he is, then bye bye boyfriend, hello jay! lolz :bleh: but if i see that he's not all that, i'd rather stay friends with him :)

[jmin13]

if my bf n I are having a shaky relationship n Jay comes in n show mi love n concern..I will go for Jay..cos i love him the same as my bf..heez..

[tortilla_chips]

heheh....i dun even have a bf 2 begin with, but wat the heck. actually i dun think i will, cos jay's so busy and everything, so even if i get 2 be his gf, i would barely see him once a month, and long-distance relationships seldom work out....but if my bf's a real jerk or one of those idiot MCPs i would definitely dump him, with or without jay :D

[joeacid]

hmm... if Jay really do... i'll have to treat him like every other guy^^ i may like his song, love his look, diao, cool, etc. But, compare it to my bf's love, it's still not enough. Unless Jay can prove it to me.. how much he loves and and how he can make me fall in love with him more than i do with my current bf^^ it might be a dream though and i think i'm still not good enough for Jay yet^^

Hmm.... having the same interest... like piano...basketball...singing..well... i think i can be Jay's best friend or 'zhi xin peng you' but not a couple^^

[msv]

:love: Who can resisit Jay?... that would be my first impression, but then I think I'd be a little mad at Jay b/c if I had a boyfriend and he still chased after me, I think that would just turn me off b/c I don't really like "homewreckers".... but luckily :excited: I don't have a boyfriend so if Jay asked me out... hahah... (u can guess where this is leading :) )

[bee]

hmm...if i was convinced jay was THE ONE, then i would maybe dump my bf. but if jay wasnt THE ONE, then i would just be jay's buddy. yeah...i wouldnt want jay to chase after me when i like someone else better--msv. :angel: ah who knows, he prolly wouldnt look at me anyways, he is like 10 years older. you can always dream! zuo meng, hehe :blush:

[KaiLien]

I prolly sound really shallow saying this but YES! hands down. lol.

[XxcrystaltearzxX]

well...i wouldn't dump my bf for him, just b/c he famous doesn't mean he have a nice heart...i would not like jay chasing me around just b/c he like me. i won't change my heart that fast b/c of jay. i love his voice and his song but it doesn't mean if he has a nice personality.

[jennia_lulu]

it depends really

if i like my bf or not.......also how much Jay likes me

I think if Jay chase me one day.....i would pretend i'm not interested and make him chase me even more........until he tell me that he is crazy about me and love me. then i would dump my bf and run away with Jay

but i guess that would never happen anyway

Just dreaming off

[wackome]

hmmm...this is interesting....i've read all the pages and i've came to a conclusion here...the majority of girls who are between the ages of 14-16 say yes...is it because young girls are more simple minded? no offense to anyone tho....and gal between 17-25..especially 23-25 has a better analysis...but i see that girls here mostly have the same answer..either they say yes or no..when they say no then they would reckon well....it depends on my bf...and they would experience around...but hey..there are way more factors to it...cuz we live in a different country...and we speak a different language...and even if we can tolerate the language barrier we still have to think about how it is like living with him...then that means you cannot bring ur bf out to see ur friends cuz my friends speak english..and no mandarin..and if we go with jay...we have different tastes in things.and then we will end up argueing...hmm...i sometimes thing..the image of celebrities are brain washing us...including me...cuz i always think about this situation..always wondering how it would be with jay..like i always post messages in other topics and stuff asking how he would treat his gf...based on what he want his ideal gf to be..it's more like a pretty maid with big eyes and long hair who sit home everyday to wait for him...with no freedom cuz he prefer you to give up everything...then that mean you will become his slave...you will depend on jay for u financial expenses...whatever u want to buy you have to go through him..and what if jay is a stingy kind of person? since he's been poor himself before...and i like shopping..and can i always ask him for money to buy stuff? and if we do break up one day then i would end up with nothing at an old age while he can still grab any girl he wants from his million of fans...damn...am i thinking too much? oh..and he likes antiques...i think that's gotta go cuz i hate those stuff...he wants to put it all around his house..but then i would order him to toss it or not put it anywhere in my site..so yeah...damn i AM thinking too much...but think about it...u will be stuck with this guy forever? but that's what we what? and we don't have friends to go out with cuz we have to wait for him to be free and be with him...is that too demanding? but if gals only want to experience a day or so or a short period of time with him then it should be fine...but i was wondering why he has so many girlfriends before...i read something from someone at first saying that there must be something wrong...now it can be every girl's fault right? would it be that there's really something wrong about jay? hmm...i wonder....but yeah...i really want to know the REAL him...since no one is sure if the jay we are seeing is really the jay itself..but yeah..maybe two-timing isn't a bad idea when it comes to this situation of jay and ur bf...cuz it would be in a DIFFERENT COUNTRY? WHO WOULD KNOW? haha!!! it's easy to two time...there are no spys in site..hehe...!! well...sorry for this long analysis...hehe...see ya..

[Dong Feng Puo]

lol in a fantasy world of course i would... heck i wouldnt even need to dump my bf for jay because he would already be my bf!!! but in the real world... i donno.. there's the part of me that doesnt wanna miss the golden opportunity but then theres the part of me that doesnt wanna be a superficial b*tch... but i mean... jay in real life can be totally diff from the person i imagine him to be... so i guess i'm gonna havta tell him, if you really want me you'll be willing to be just a good friend FOR NOW at least xP

[wackome]

hmm....wouldn't be so cool having the chance to reject ur idol JAY CHOU???? damn....then everyone will be discussion about how cool i was to reject jay...haha...and then there would be tons of gals saying how stupid i was...damn who would be that stupid to dump jay? hahah....oh yeah oh yeah!!! pleaseeeeeeeee someone pleaseeeeeeeee answer me this!!! ok...everyone's like hella drolling over jay cuz of how glamorous the media made him to be....and then if u were to see the pictures of him before becoming from the gallery of thise website...seeing the picture of him playing the cello and that picture below that is the pic of him wearing that red sleeveless tank....would u have second thoughts about jay???? like would u take ur words back of being with him? i mean...of course he's cute right now..being rich and popular...that tons adore...but like someone said before...he's ugly back then..no normal...sometimes i can't imagine and can't accept that he use to look like that...of offense tho...always gotta say that...but...his image is so great right now....but i have second thoughts seeing some of his old pictures...i am glad he turned into this cute and all...but is it because of the make-up too? even tho the guys are light on the makeup but it does make a difference u know? i once read in another forum from a fan saying..."i wouldn't want to f**k him when he's in high school, he's damn ugly" so yeah....ppl ARE cruel...and realistic...i don't think anyone of use are all that faithful...sorry again..no affense...some are faithful..but then..ppl are so easily to get blinded by the image...and again....jay's voice is so sweet......ah.....i think i am going crazy...i am thinking too much...why am i in the forum 24/7 while i can be studying or something? this is sad....has jay ruined our lifes and brains?? OMG...i am using too much brain cells thinking about jay...i think i am getting dumber and dumber academically...hahah!!! anyways...i hope someone will answer me about the picture thing tho..and tell me what yall think...cuz the jay back then and the jay now are so different..making me have doubts..sorry...just writing what i think..i still love jay!

[czavender]

well! dont have bf to dump.. :laughing: so i guess ill let jay to be my bf... :laughing: :love:

but if ever i have abf i dont think ill dump him for jay.. if my bf also loves everything about jay then we'll definitely dont have to argue.. :laughing:
we'll both love jay..but i hope my bf will not turn into gay.. :laughing:

[me&jay]

Sure will

[freebird_brown]

ok, i seriously am shocked that anyone would just dump their boyfriend for a star. :crazy: first off, you don't know jay personally so are you going to date him just bc his famous? are you that status-obsessed and materialistic?
secondly, if your saying that it depends on your boyfriend, then why are you dating him if you would dump him for jay? i mean you should like ur bf mroe than some guy you've only seen on tv, on stage, and maybe face-to-face a couple times. so if you like jay more than your boyfriend, then your boyfriend deserves something better than you.
so if you are going to dump your bf for jay... that's sick to me. :? i think if ur dating a guy, you should commit yourself to him. unless your just screwing around and playing, but that's just sick too. :oops:
i'm not implying that i think jay is some bland artist. i think he's really good and talented. but no way would i dump my boyfriend for him especially when i don't even know him personally.

[Lain Lang]

Nope...I love Jay but I wouldn't dump my bf to be with him.
I'm so much in love for my bf and Jay's songs kind of help me with that...
And nobody shoud do that..cuz if u said yes then u've a problem, u shouldnt hav a bf that wasnt Jay in the first place!

[gurl_in_4jay]

hmmm....depends how much i lyk ma bf...if i got bored of him...ill dump him n go wid jay......jay looks lyk one of those lovin guys....hoo is quite protective....cuddly type

[*starchild*]

it depends on how long i've been with my boyfriend.. 'cos if it's for 1 year it would be so hard for the boy.. and if it's only a week i think i would get to know Jay better before i dump my boyfriend.. but i think i would go for Jay..

[Vicluva]

depends on how much i was into my b/f. after all, jay is still a human being and being a talented superstar who has a gr8 bod and millions in da bank doesn't mean he's perfect for u. however, if the guy who wanted was vic chou....hmmmmm that would be another story :angel:

[bethie_me]

I'm not going to my bf's feelings by dumping him for someone famous. If my bf is really loyal to me, then I'll keep him.

[sakikora]

ok....

that would be seriously mean...

but...

if jay was truly intersted in me...

i'd say to my bf " i like you...we can still be friends...but i think we are not for each other"....


but considering that jay might be my bf...

how the hell am i supose to dump jay ...for jay???

[friends_pt]

i don think so. the love for jay is admire... love between a idol n fan... tat's all... boyfriend n jay cannot compare... Jay is too high above to even tink of havin him as my boyfriend. haha.

[trishee]

Dump my boyfriend?...probably…nah…I don’t know…this ones hard…
I think it depends on the boyfriend...how much he means to you at the moment, how good he treats you, there are many aspects revolving this and besides you don’t know Jay, it can get real frustrating to choose. But to break your boyfriend’s heart just like that? It can get real cruel, but that’s what you’re here for, to experiment…BOTTOM LINE: I don’t know, it depends on the boyfriend..and of course how hot Jay looks at that moment, Im kiddin…>>

[jay624luv]

i'm not sure it seems that jay would change his mind quickly would u really give up ur relationship for a guy that might change his mind in a *snap* but who cares just to share one kiss with him is good so i guess yeah dump my boyfriend

[msv]

YES I WILL!!! i am willing to... jie lun is the kind of guy i realli admire and luv.... no guyz can be better than him not even by 1% s0 gifing up my boyfren for JIE LUN is totally worth it...and he's t0tally co0l and DIAO!! JIE LUN IS THE BEST...... what more can you ask for from him...??? he's already perfect....c'mon dudez.... whu can be better than jie lun..??? =)

Hitting my baby boy one more time and getting caught in the rain drinking pina colatas and calling for Jesse's girl while asking Nelly if he wants to get a ride with me cause its a hard knock life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

... hmm, I don't think I would dump my BF for Jay. I am going out with my BF because I like him for who he is and what he makes me feel right? If not, why would I waste time in the first place? So no for me.

[azngurlie]

This is a hard question cuz if i really in love with my boyfriend then it will be a hard choice. I mean I love Jay but I wouldn't dump my boyfriend IMMEDIATELY, I love his music and talent and all but ......But I'll think about it though. But now i don't have a boyfriend yet so I'll stick with jay

[JianDan[Ai]]

Man all you girls who said yes are heartless >[ What if your bf REALLY REALLY loved you and you just push him aside for a famous guy he know he cant compete with? esp after you guys are already going out? You just broke his heart and made him severely depressed

I mean, YES it is JAY, but still, thats a heartless thing to do to someone "you love" and someone who "loves you back" -_-

[LPx31]

I wouldn't give up my bf for Jay. But I would if we're haveing a hard time working things out between us. But I don't have a boyfriend. Plus, Jay is 11 years older than me. It wouldn't be good for him if the media found out that he was dating a 14 year old. lol. I wouldn't give up my boyfriend if I loved him. I mean, I'm with the guy because I like him and everything that he does. I know that some people would give up their bf, cuz they love Jay alot. But what if Jay didn't love them back? Think about that and then answer.

[wonnage]

hhheheheheh, the mature ones say no with no doubts, while the less mature (adolescents and teenyboppers) have wavering thoughts...

I think if you're willing to dump a guy for anyone you're in for a (unpleasant) treat, and as a guy I can tell you having one of your exes crawl back is a very fulfilling feeling of...VENGEANCE ^^

besides, middle school/early high school is too early to get attached, the "popular" cliques are really just your own in-school soap opera. You don't have to imitate them.

[aina]

I don't think i will dump my boyfriend for Jay. Because i have known my BF since +/- 4 years ago, and he's too precious to be dumped :love:
If i have to start all over again, get to know Jay from zero...NO NO i don't want to do that....
Better admire Jay and support him from far far away...

What JianDan[ai] has said is true...but if your bf is a jerk then go dump him and go for JAY!!!! :bleh:

[LiLxAmMiE]

i wouldn't immediately dump, i would see who i like better.. eventhough jay would be tempting, but it's not right! :happy:
but somethings a normal boyfriend would have, rather than a star like jay chou, which is, your normal bf would have time for you. Jay chou would always be working! maybe just a few breaks to have time with you, but would he really be by your side when you extremely need it?
also, you would have to think about those girls by jay chou's side! will you really be able to hold your temper while watching a mv with jay in a swimming pool kissing another girl? :happy:

i'd think twice!

[pterodactyl]

probably not.. it's too complicated dating a famous person like jay.

[soapie]

also, you would have to think about those girls by jay chou's side! will you really be able to hold your temper while watching a mv with jay in a swimming pool kissing another girl?
i'd think twice!

hahaha. well said!!

even though Jay is great, i wouldn't date a celebrity. i agree.. time is important and celebrities dont' have much of that because they're so busy entertaining or having their whole life in the public. i wouldnt' want my whole relationship in the media either. plus, I think as you get older, you learn what characteristics, qualities, and priorities you look for in a significant other. for me, I am fortunate that my boyfriend is very caring, giving, compassionate, and understanding..he cares for people who are suffering and sick, and we both want to make a big difference in the world. (so to answer the question, heck no i would not dump my bf to date jay! my bf is my soulmate. ^_^)

Just because jay is a great singer doesn't mean he will match all the qualities you are looking for in a boyfriend. ~_~; and you may regret it later, especially if things don't work out between you two!

[lvso]

I would SOOOOOO dump my bf for Jay simply because everyone else seems to dump Jay for another bf, supposedly. Even if it didnt' last... oh man Jay Chou, oh that'd be such a HOT relationship it'd be worth a one night stand... muahahahah

[zhuangzhi]

Nope. I wouldnt dump my bf because my bf is very similar with Jay. his face, his hair, his style. and we are both crazy about Jay! I just like get Jay's twin :)

[shanshine]

i think i will dump my boyfriend for Jay. it also depends on how much my bf loves me. ive been thinking a lot about Jay and even dream about him at night. thats so nice..

and i believe he will be a good bf. Jay might be a bit too quiet and remain silent most of the time, but i personally think he would love me from the bottom of his heart :excited:

[jaxe]

well..i'm not sure becoz i'm single now and it really depends on how my bf is.
but i'm thinking i might do just that becoz i've liked jay since like when i was in secondary school..that's FIVE whole years..so even if i do get attached now, jay will always be first love =)

[spork]

I wouldn't dump my b/f (if I had one :( )for Jay...and since Jay is such a sensitive and cool guy and all I don't think hea'd want anyone to dump their b/f for him. I would rather be friends, 'cuz then you won't have to hear all the dirty rumors and jealous people and we can just chill :D

[jO11]

hmmm, i'm single now! but i don't think i'll dump my boyfriend for jay, maybe unless he hates jay and keeps talking bad about him and doesn't let me buy stuff by jay!

[jay_ed]

well...it would really depend wouldn't it??i think it would depend on who my bf was right?? see.. if i had only been with my bf for like 1-2 months, i might dump him and get to know jay better..which means that i wouldnt actually accept jay straight away coz i think i would actually want to get to know the "real" jay first..and then judge whether he is my type of guy...well..of course..he would probably be.. whaha ^^

and it would really really depend on who my bf was as i mentioned before..as we are "dreaming/fantisising" here...for the sake of it..lets say that if edison (chen) was my bf....then i would probably have to reconsider my choices...

either option..i would want to be friends with jay first..to get to know him better before commiting... *.*

[JenJensen05]

Unless I was like engaged, of course! I'd dump anyone in a heartbeat. Jay's got it all. He's interesting, adorable, talented, rich, famous, gorgeous, AND he has a nice stomach. Who wouldn't dump a boyfriend for that?

[akane_chou]

not really. i dont speak the same language and it would be very hard to communicate coz his english is not fluent. my boyfriend is good enough for me, even if he isnt perfect and stuff. anyway, there's a large age gap between Jay and i, and he might get bored of me, and... endless things... and i dont love Jie Lun as a lover or someone i wanna marry, have kids with or get into bed with. i look up to him as a smaller sister would to a big brother and nothing more... okay... i do drool over him occasionally, but... well, i wont. really...

unless, my bf really doesnt care much about me and stuff, only then will i dump him for Jay, despite our differences.

[lilgurl9791]

Wow...imagine that...Jay chasing one of us...If I was a really crazed fan, I would jump at the offer no matter what but I'm not a crazed fan, I'm a fan who loves Jay deeply. No, I won't two-time them because that would be wrong. I would just let whatever happens happen, you know. I'll talk to him, get to know him and be his friend. But I'm sure that will be it. I'd actually stay with my boyfriend (if I have one) because I know that I will surely love my boyfriend more than an idol. It would be possible but then it's won't be possible since Jay is like 13 years older than me :tongue: I'd rather be his younger sister, I would love that :wink2:

[adorablequrl]

if i guy can become my boy friend i think he is perfect so i doubt i would dump him

[seaweedpatchkid]

I don't have a BF...so if Jay asked me right now to dump my BF for him, I sure as hell would!!!

[Lizzy]

Dump my Bf for Jay
Now thats a hard one!
I think I would not Dump my BF because I am very picky with guys so the guy who is my Bf wil defenitaly b wt a want,jus perfect for me so i wont dump him for my fave asian singer!

[eimiie]

It seems like most people would choose to dump their bfs for Jay. :happy:
I guess in some aspects I would. But if my bf was all perfect and rich and smart and good looking, I wouldn't. It also depends on his personality. If Jay's funnier, then I would dump my bf. Sense of humor is very important to me.

[juzluv]

it would really depend... cause Jay is like a fantasy for most of us.. and if my bf treats me like im not worth it, i'd definitely dump him for Jay.. but if he's sweet and all, i'll most probably ask Jay if we could be friends first.. ok, it doesnt matter whether my bf is sweet or not, i'd still ask him if we could be friends.. cause i feel if he likes a girl at first sight and wants to date her immediately, its too rash plus he doesnt know how she's really like.. she might be a wolf in a sheep's skin, after his money and not him... not that i'm like that!! anyways.. yeah, friends first.. relationships can develop from there....

[funkaeh]

why don't just give jay a chance? as in we try to know him better but let the boyfriend know about it, and fater some time then make a choice. if jay really likes you, he would wait right? and so would for boyfriend. it wouldn't be too late ofr you to make a choice later.

[missy-independent]

hmm.. i think we shouldn't accept him just because he's jay chou, you get what i'm trying to say? afterall, we don't really know him as a person, and who knows, we may just prefer him as jay chou the singer/celebrity and not jay chou my boyfriend.

though i don't deny, i wish that could happen to me =)

[zaizai rox]

yea I definately see your point missy-independent about how we don't really know Jay , the person. I don't know if I would dump my boyfriend for Jay If I had one..lol o heck what I saying of course! I would dump my boyfriend for Jay! It's Jay! haha

[jielunfan4ever]

Well if I had a b/f, I don't think I would dump him for Jay. It also depends how long I've been with my b/f...if we've only been together for 3 or 4 months...I think I would want JAY MORE...hahah but if I developed a deep relationship say a year or 2 I would defnitly stay with my b/f...(but wish wut it would be like to be with JAY) hah! :-)

[r&bmate]

I'll be under a hell of a lot of pressure being Jay's gf ,if I was that lucky and I dunna if I can cope,honestly!I'll be worrying eveyday how long the relationship can last (wouldn't you too,I mean,with a hot guy like Jay)?
I'd rather be a loyal supporter & stay out of the limelight!

[buru214]

well, although I love jay's music and all, I don't exactly KNOW him in a way that would make me leave anyone for him. Now unless I actually fall in love with him, the real him, and he is actually in love with me, well then thats a completely different story right? I would wait and see if I am real about him and then decide. But the main point to this question is: Do I really love Jay enough to leave the person I am with now, or is this just lust and not real love? Breaking someone elses heart because of a fling is completely harsh and cruel...so I would think about it seriously before letting my hormones decide! :D

[jAYcHOus#1 fAN]

iono...i never had a bf and so iono...i guess it would depend on our relationship. and my feelings for him but that would be soo cool jay fell in love wit me!! omg i would be all like i do if he asked me to marry him..but idont think my parents would really like it..i dont even noe him and he a little old for me (11 and a wk older exactly!) so sigh...hard but it notl ike it gonna happen. sigh

[jessiesoon]

if he is after me,of course i will end my relationship wit my bf n go wit jay..who wouldn't??
haha!!!
this is jz an imagination..i dun hav a bf n jay would nv chase me..haha...

[migotochou]

to be realistic..it would be super cool for a couple of months but after that..if he does not fit you,problems will occur and jay chou will suddenly appear to be another ordinary guy....heck,he is still human.

[jaylover_ryke]

of cos i'll take jay!!!!!
i mean,he's got e charms and coolness plus he's my dream guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!
but it totally wun happen to me--cuz im lyk 11 yrs younger than him and soooo ugly...
y should he wan me ehx?
hahaha..
even if i had a really great bf,i'll still choose jay..
there's really no exact reason why---mayb my love 4 him is unconditional..
haha..

[h3avenzanjel]

i know i definitely would!!!! no doubt about it!
but than again he wouldn't look twice at me coz i have short hair...=(

[punkymeh]

whaoo i dont have a boyfriend..so ofcourse i would definatly give jay a chance...well i wouldnt want to be really desperate for him gosh i might scare him away hahahahaha

[cj0617]

i would dump my bf for jay....
if i were single..then i would jump at the chance..
if i had a bf..then it would depend how my relationship was going..if it was something that was just starting out/getting rocky/or getting worse..then i'd break up with him for jay
but if the relationship is going really well..then i don't think i would....
dunno..this is a hard question...

[ger_jacko]

Of course i will dump my bf if ever jay choose me (Day-Dreaming).... cause i love jay then any other guy out there... haha

[Jie_Lun_Rox]

i haven been in a relationship before, so i decided to b wif Jay!! if i realie had a boyf, i would choose Jay as well.. i doubt i will have a boyf anyways.. the place in my heart only goes to jay.

[esther]

I wouldnt dump my bf for Jay of course. Doesnt seem too logical. Even though Jay is of course the most eligible bachelor in the whole wide world and it seems like who doesnt want to be with him.

But come to think of it, I still wouldnt give up my relationship with my bf to try being together with Jay. There is too much things involved in a relationship. Character differences, cultural differences etc..

However, I seriously think i will want to be with JaY in my dreams.. haha.

~~sweet dreams~~

[wonnage]

I hope those of you who're so willing to dump your boyfriends for random face rich singers (who you know only through really good songs and news articles) understand that it reflects badly on your integrity. Besides, imagine the news articles - "Fan Dumps Boyfriend for Jay, Boyfriend Reportedly Very Disappointed..."

The level of crappiness required to dump your significant other for someone famous is beyond even horrible 'ol me. If i had a girlfriend and hyori waltzed up and tried to take me away (to manly heaven) my brain tells me I would have to refuse. Of course, if this actually happened I'd be thinking more with my "diao" than with my brain, but when I"m actually sane, my woman has to rank higher than my goddess. darn!

[mysadworld]

if guess not..i mean you like jay but not love him right?
love is something sacred and not everyone can easily understand
how can u just dump your bf for someone whom you dont really know?

[countess]

wells...how bout i say that if i was going out with someone..then he would be a guy that has very cute qualities like Jay anyways..so therefore i wouldn't dump him for Jay...but since i am single..then bring him on!!

[nycpinkdiva]

When I was reading the Fanfic "Jay's English Tutor", I was thinking of the same question: Would I dump my boyfriend for Jay?

Well my answer to that is a definite NO because I have the best boyfriend in the whole world. Of course there will be times where I daydream about meeting Jay and possibly wishing that he has some interest in me but other than that I don't think I would ever want to be with Jay.

The reasons are:
1. He's a celebrity. I can't deal with a guy who is always busy with his work. I would like to feel wanted. Plus with all the media up all in your face. I personally can't handle that.
2. I would be so stressed out because of what people think about me and what they say about me.
3. I would feel the pressure of always needing to look my best whenever in public to look like I'm good enough to be with Jay.

Well reasons 2 and 3 are close in that they all have to do with the media.

So for someone who wants to be with Jay must be very understanding and very patient because he is a very busy man and has to deal with the media all the time. If you can handle that then all the power to you if you want to pursue him.

[liwei_jay]

originally by nycpinkdiva
The reasons are:
1. He's a celebrity. I can't deal with a guy who is always busy with his work. I would like to feel wanted. Plus with all the media up all in your face. I personally can't handle that.
2. I would be so stressed out because of what people think about me and what they say about me.
3. I would feel the pressure of always needing to look my best whenever in public to look like I'm good enough to be with Jay.

Well reasons 2 and 3 are close in that they all have to do with the media.

So for someone who wants to be with Jay must be very understanding and very patient because he is a very busy man and has to deal with the media all the time. If you can handle that then all the power to you if you want to pursue him.

nycpinkdiva...
can't agree with u much more... :wink2:
i think for sure these r some of the obstacles that JAY's gf will hav to handle..

i guess.. if i hav the chance i would agree... (jay pursuing me) :dreaming: hahahaha...
of cuz we all knw this wouldn't happen
but then it's all depends on love... :winkz:
oooh .. i think i got out of topic liao.. of cuz if hav bf i would not leave my bf for jay
but if i'm single... Jay would hav to look out.. :wink2:

[thupham]

oh totally so, in like a heartbeat because jay is like the model for what i would want to find in a perfect boyfriend. But i can only dream, i don't think for me that would ever happen in real life

[hazelnut]

Hmm, this is a tough one.... I will date the 2 guys at the same time (with their knowledge) and then make a choice.... Haha, think the courtship will be interesting because the 2 guys know they are competing for my attention.... Oh dear, I better wake up! This is not gonna happen to me!

[aniTa]

i'd go with my bf cuz jay's too old for me
damn, i would if i was lyk round his age!!!
hehe
i'd keep my bf!!
sry jay!
if u were younger it would work!

[go back to the past]

well, first, i haven't got a bf yet.
But if i love my future bf that much, i would still dump him.... Hahahah
Because i know that no one can compare with Jay.
BUt anyway, Jay won't like me.....

[DiNkY-DoNk]

NO QUESTION!!!!!!

of course i will!!!!!!!!!

jay is so perfect. i definitely will pick him over any other person in the world!!!!!

[theoneandonlyjay]

I've never had a bf, but i think would i choose Jay over my bf. After seeing those pics of Jay and Patty, i can see that the gf of Jay is very happy. Jay seems so caring and loving. I read somewhere in the news that Jay and Patty would talk on the phone almost everyday. That's so cute.

[rickisha]

the first thing that popped into my head was OF COURSE! But when I really think about it I don't know if I would if I was really in love with my boyfriend. Hm but that's just me.

[Annabella]

well... i guess ill choose jay for anything... well... that also depend on how my boyfriend is treating me... coz if i liek my bf very much... then there will be nothing that can break the bond between me and him... but if my bf is hurting me very much... then ill choose... plus... to me... jay is like the MAN that i love the MOST

[khiahsu]

Dang, if my boyfriend was alright until Jay came into the scene...then probably not.

......but ah heck, there's a part of me that goes "YES! YES! WHEE!" LOL.

[DragonPrince]

If Jay comes along, I don't know is he is serious or not. I am afraid that I wouldn't know how to face my boyfriend if I had decided to go along with Jay and break up in the end.

If my boyfriend is nice and loving, I don't think I will dump him for Jay.

If I find that my boyfriend is not the person I am looking for, I will dump him for Jay.

[kaye21]

Jay is my boyfriend! why would i dump him?

just kidding...

seriously..if jay is so smitten by me and i want to be with him, then i'll definitely dump my bf...as long as we are not yet engaged or sumthin like that...hahaha...im so bad...and mad...madly in love with jay...

[zhy378]

If Jay comes along, I don't know is he is serious or not. I am afraid that I wouldn't know how to face my boyfriend if I had decided to go along with Jay and break up in the end.
If my boyfriend is nice and loving, I don't think I will dump him for Jay.
If I find that my boyfriend is not the person I am looking for, I will dump him for Jay.

so agree with you dragonprince

but for now, i would not dump by bf, compared to the chances i'll have with jay :rolleyes:

[lil~jo]

well....if i love my boyfriend and we're serious....
I'll stay with my boyfriend...
Because though Jay is ideal and purrrfect...imagine a life of peparazzi and media crowding around you, making up news about you, prying into your business...
sigh...it'll just be tiring, and your children will suffer...
They wouldnt lead a normal life...
And whats worst of all, usually it is the media which kills your relationship with a famous person...
So, I'll keep my boy.

However if my boyfriend is a totall %$$####
I'll be off with jay taking my chances for a life of happily ever afterssss :happy:

[Singerchick]

No.

Jay's music and Jay are two different things.
I like Jay's music but knowing Jay's personality I would NOT be compatible with him.

[andantino]

muahahaha.
if he dumps patty for me!
which is impossible.

i love my boyfriend. ;)

[Onigiri]

I think it all depends on your boyfriend. It would seem too illogical to dump your boyfriend immediately when you find out Jay was chasing you. How is chasing you an indication that you guys are going to be together? And have the relationship work out?

Obviously if your boyfriend was a sweet, caring, funny, generous *insert more attractive personality traits for a cool boyfriend here* then dumping him for Jay would be out of the question. Jay would still sort of be a stranger and his personality in a relationship would most likely be different from his on-stage aura,etc

For me now, I don't have a boyfriend so I'd be with Jay :hugz:

[lenaf4ever]

hum..i am not tat sure..cuz my BF is so sweet i dun tink i can ever live without him --" like what the others said..and idol is different frum a lover..you can admire and obsessed over him buh sometimes when it comes to love ..you'll have to take your time and think deeply into your heart =0

[danieldren]

HOW VAIN!!!!! if you did that i would look down on you for dumping yr boyfriend for another guy even if it is jay

[shinjay]

I'm a boy...if I'm a girl..100% I wont dump my bf for Jay lar... maybe we can treat Jay as our idol..but not our bf right? So we still need our bf's love, and care.
Feel guilty also..if suddenly dump the bf.. must care about others feelings also.
Unless..I dont have gf..then maybe I can start a relationship with Jay.

[fatarli]

jay chou allll the waayyyyy!!!
xD
wooooo!!

[damn]

No because I love my boyfriend. Although it may be nice to have the fame, but it's so not worth it. I actually met jay chou in person, and he was rude and definitely not friendly! Maybe he was in a rush or whatever, but he should at least be more appreciative of his fans!!!

[Moonlight_Huanghou]

I doubt i would if I really liked my bf. I've never been in a relationship either but I think i wouldn't unless I didn't like my bf and jay seemed suitable instead. ^.^ But then again, I really don't know anything about jay (except for his music.)

[cinnimon~]

erm i'm not sure. i'm afraid jay wld dump me after i go out with him. then if i wanna go back to my ex, he has a new stead or smth. it would be horrendous. i'll think i'll just be friends with jay first and find out what he really is like. after all, if he loves me he will wait. no?:shifty:

[fiionahsz__]

it depends. i love jay as a musician and artist but i wouldn't dump my bf to be with him becus of that. if i was to get surious with jay then maybe.. i still love him bf !

[crazygiggles13]

well..i dont have a boyfriend currently, so it works out fine for me! :D lol
but if i did, i dont think i would. i dont really know Jay well as a person, even tho i love him as an artist. how'd i know whether we'd be compatible or not?
it also depends on my relationship with my hypothetical boyfriend..
do i really like him? but if i didnt, i think i would dump him anywayz because there's no point going out with someone that you dont really like..

[weemalyn]

I don't think I will dump my boyfriend for Jay. I think they are two different matters. Jay will always be my idol and I will continue to support him. My boyfriend should be the one closest to me besides my family.

[Miss Kineko]

It depends. ^_^; But if I'm single, of course I'll choose Jay. <33

But if I and my boyfriend are both devoted to each other, then I'll just be with my boyfriend.

What if Jay dumps you? ...

But now since I'm single, of course I'll choose Jay. <33

[keikai]

Haha interesting question. I think a simple logical answer for me would be to get to know him better as a person and not a public figure. If we hit it off, why not?
However, there are certain things I have to consider too. I never really wanted to date a public figure if I even had a chance to do so.

[jay_88]

i noe there is no last longer relationship if jay really chasing me...anyway i will try to b vf jay 4 a short time to experience how proud i can b vf a famous artist...haha...

[mei yen]

of course.... not... :bleh: actually, jay only my favorite artist...
i like his voice and he is honnest n give 100% quality whn sing...
so, love and admired are different thing... can't be played with heart n mind...:wave:

[xsnow0yinx]

Nope, I definetly won't.
Seriously, I like jay's music. But I don't know him that well. I mean what the media potrays him as might not be what he truly is. And liking his music is not = loving him.

[judes]

there's actually a discussion like this?
and people actually say "yes"?
fandom overboard much?

but like many people have said before, nobody really "knows" jay even if you've bought all of his cds and listen to them obsessively and watch all of his interviews and all of his concert performances.

unless you've dated a guy you don't really "know" him, and unless you've lived with a guy you don't really "understand" him.

[jAy is a s h y_ b o i]

is it so bad of me to say yes??? or at least a big maybe leaning towards yes??
hahaha thats why my bf hates jay. =XX

[liliceprincess]

For my thoughts on this, It would go either way but it truly depended on me knowing Jay as a person and also to know someone other than just from a distant like a fan. Therefore for right now, i would say "no." Because truly boyfriends and all shouldnt be because of how much you are obsessed over him or anything. I think its more like the chemistry and everything. And personally, i dont know jay and most people dont as for who he is. We all know him for his music etc. But if the boyfriend was bad and all, i would soo dump him for jay right away. but if it was a good boyfriend and i hadnt met jay in person yet, i would not do it. But if i did meet him and all, and i liked him for who he was and i was in a relationship, i might consider it./

[sweep]

That would be nonsense! Jay and if ever my boyfriend would be on each side or the spectrum. Jay is just and idol. Not to be mixed with reality boyfriend. hehe

[snowy1119]

hah i love jay but i love my bf to, ma bf has al jay chou';s albums pluz he myte think of buyin al his songs agen wivout unwrappin his packagin n put it on display tis is how much jay means to him n me pluz jay wont eva be ma bf cuz he has manty leng lui waitin for him lol ^_^

[koala--bear]

well, i don't gotta bf, but if i did, well, i'm ashamed, but i'd probably dump him for jay too!!!!!

[rozmary]

ill dump my bf if I am really that in love with Jay and not my bf. If I love my bf so much, regardless of how many Jay's come my way, Ill stick to my man.

[houyping]

No way!! I like Jay for his music only. Besides, his personality seems boring to me. He's so mellow and quiet. He also appears weak:-) . He doesn't fit my description of my ideal guy.

[.: blacklily :.]

emm have to really think bout this... Coz love is not something you can change in a short amount of time right? Say your in a relationship, and you really love your guy, no matter whose going to suddenly chase after you and say "i love you" to you, you'll definetely still love your guy and be with him right... Even though it's JAY we're talking bout here.

BUT... that's if you're already taken... If you're single (like me!! haha :tongue: ) I'll definitely say yes and be his gf!! :bleh:

[kwonsang26]

Whoa...I don't know what I would do.Because 2 nights ago a best friend of mine came to my workplace drunk & basically professed his love to me.:excited:

I was shocked,but it would be really nice to have 2 guys chasing after you.But I most likely will probably date Jay first to see how he is in real life.:oops:

[jana]

Ummm.... I think I would just dumb my boyfriend and choose to go out with Jay. I think I can learn accept him even though he's not like the person I think he would be and if I go out with him for a while, I would know him more and more. I think I more I know him is the more I will love him!

[diaoness]

well....in my heart i'd be like *OMG...dump that loser..its JAY*, but then, i think i'll probably two-time (noooo....) for a few weeks and see how jay is as a *boyfriend*...if he truly cares about me and love me....i'll break it off with the other guy slowly....id feel terrible though!

[rosie]

well so far im single~~ go the single life:)
well IF i had a boyfriend, i would certainly stay with him, coz after all its like we chose each other.
well jay... one, our age difference, same thing u wouldnt go out with a 40 year old man, im not saying jay is 40 years old, but dont u think the age difference is a bit whoo hooo...
and like xjaychoux had said, what if u broke up with jay, who do u have left to confort u?
so yeh for sure i would stay with my boyfriend if i had one, and jay and i might be great mates if that makes anything better

[rozmary]

definitely ill dump any bf of mine for jay chou! honest to goodness, ive been dreaming and drooling for jay chou for months and months... and surely, ill grab any chance to be Jay Chou's baby!

[joce]

i will dump my boyfriend immediatelly and go for Jay... :D
but that will never happen to me because i never think of moving to Taiwan. if Jay got mad at me what should i do is only say :
"Yes, i love you too...." :tongue:

[dreamycloudz]

i say no` cuz he's way 2 old for me :), besides, his character can be sometime insecure.

[ghettosushi713]

psh this is so obvious
id totally go for jay
i mean jay is amazing
and hes WAY more sensitive/caring


but then again.. he IS super old
for me at least... so no XD lol

[YeQu]

If I was in a situation like that,I don't think I would dump my boyfriend,I love him. But if Jay don't mind I'd stay friends with him hehe. Plus my boyfrined looks like Jay anyways =P So I'm Lucky xD

[mirumodepon]

i will accept him of course because now i don't have boyfriend..hehe... but dump my boy friend for jay?? i don't think so... especially i "love" jay not as a lover...ahhaha.. just a fans. :D

[DulceMexicana]

I WOULD SO DUMP HIM THAT INSTANT:cloud9:
CUZ IDK ITS JAY AND HE HAS THAT SOMETHING THAT I CANT QUIET TELL BUT FEEL:love::blush::blush::blush:

[loveillusion]

wah. this is a difficult choice man! i think i will not choose jay because i know that i am not suitable and good for him. i am just no one and he is such a big idol! haha.

[shez]

=O this is quite an evil question hahaha!!!
1. jay wouldn't like me- he has soooooooo many fans out there!!!!
2. and no :P hehe

[mei yen]

u (jay) dump and i c n think if i want to dump my bf....ha ha ha
but this no matter 4 me coze i don't hv bf...he he he...
still waiting mr.charming find me...
so long time...but it's not impossible...

[crystal_princess]

oh man,Jay just my idol,not my lover,so never i dump my boyfriend for Jay

[Lamer09]

actually it's hard to say..
Because you haven't really get into that situation..
So it's hard to dream about the outcome..
For me..
Maybe no..
As in if me and my boyfriend is getting on fine..
Why should i give up a good realtionship just because i like jay as an artist..
If my boyfriend is good..
Then i will treasure him..
:)

[+peace(^^)+]

i think i would dump jay chou..because if we love somebody,nobody can't prevent it..hehe..you will know if you are in love with somebody..:excited::D:-)..but if i don't have a boyfriend i am surely accept jay as my boyfriend..haha:bleh:

[sam_ho]

Jay? No..I've watched too many movies out there where a normal middle-classed girl dates a hot celebrity and finds out in the end that they're too cocky. I'm sure that Jay isn't like that, or maybe he is. I'm too young for him anyways. Cuz he's like what? 28? Almost turning 29?

[tazhs]

emm.. i wouldnt dump my bf. that would be mean :cry:
i'd be best friends with Jay though!! :D

[HangPHAMee]

Definitely not XD hahaha, because I really care about my boyfriend and I love him and I don't think Jay is very attractive XD

[BabyAngel]

i would not dump my bf for sure cause jay is a idol in my heart ~ that could be so mean to release ur relation with your bf that have been so long ^^v Only hope that jay is my brother ... hehe =p

[LittleMissMishi]

Since I don't have a boyfriend....YES!

Lol but it really all depends on the person I am with. If he treats me right and all that mumbo stuff. If not well then good bye Mr. Now Ex and Helloooooo to Boyfriend Jay! :D

xoxo
-Mishi

[jay_chou_fan]

O.o cant imagine a girl to do such to their boyfriend just for jay. gotta think about how much your boyfriend was there for you.

[alisadorsey@yahoo.co]

If I had a boyfriend I would not dump him for Jay. How would I feel if he dumped me for a superstar(girl)? I would not like that. So I think it is safe to say NO I would'nt.

[adjaycent]

haha these are such ridiculous questions.....of course not!

whoever you pick, stick with one. don't date both at the same time.

[Qinghe]

I would really have to say no, I would not dump my boyfriend for Jay. He's too much like my brothers and it's just weird that way. I wouldn't mind having him as a brother or a friend, but as a lover in a relationship? Hm...it'd be flattering at first, but...I kind of like seeing him as a great inspiration/faraway idol in my mind. I'm really sorry.