Do you hate ur friends sometimes? Bitch about them here!

[eimiie]

even though like my best friend from home is so great, sometimes, i cant help just hating her... omg.. cant stand it anymore.. what to do??

[JianDan[Ai]]

Haha, interesting topic to start on your first post.

Well I'm guessing your still in high school, cuz you mentioned homecoming, and as a teenager your friendships may not be as well thought out as you expect at first. What i mean is that you are still young, and that you, and your friends are all growing up and changing, and sometimes what made you guys friends in the first place may change.

However truly good friends, despite these sorts of things can get over it and understand each other. Im not saying good friends don't have problems or sometimes ever 'hate' each other, but they will realize quickly that if they are really good friends, their friendship is not worth sacrificing over small things.

So I would recommend thinking it over a bit. How good of a friend is she? (on everything besides boys) Are the Boys more important than your friendship with her? I mean, it could just be a mis communication between you and her of which guy is "off-limits" to each other or maybe you shouldnt let guys get in the way of your friendship. Its really up to you to decide.

[danielle86]

well i agree with JianDan[Ai] as we are growing up people change.. i m believe those who stay with you are your true friends.. well when i was in high school i had a very good friend, but soon after one serious thing happen.. we never talk for the whole year, but soon we forget about it and remain as friend.. she is a back- stabber abd keep 'suan' say things sacrasticly to me..
well.. i do hate my best friends as they don't have the initiative to stay contact with me and
i must be the one contacting them.. it makes me feel that they are trying to forget me as a friend.. well to conclude
to find a true and great friend is really difficult..

[sagara0510]

i have a best buddy... but i can't say we always get along...

he's a very extrovert type of person and i'm more introvert... so sometimes he can really bug me.. and vice versa... but we still remain good frens because we understand each other... safe to say he is the only one i really trust 100% with all my affairs.. and if i ever needed help in any way he would be the first one i'd look for... i'd like to think he feels the same way abt me...

[htruc]

I have a best friend. But sometimes I'm just really mad at them, but I can never stay mad at them for a long time. I get a ride from my friends mom every school day, but they always come late and it's not because of her mom, it's herself! Sometimes I tell her to come just a little earlier so I wouldn't have to wait in the rain or the cold but it's like a curse and she just comes even later. I'm a shy person and don't like to be put in the spotlight, but sometimes she gets me to be in the spotlight, those times I feel very mad. But I can only stay mad to anyone for a few hours only. We are still best friends.

[Sha]

I think friends will always annoy you at one stage or another and because you tend to spend more time with your best friend, there are more chances for them to annoy you.

But really, it's only small things and usually when I'm not in a good mood. Other than that, my best friend and I get along soooo well it's wierd. She's Australian and I'm Thai but even though we don't have that many common tastes (music, clothes, food - everything) we share similar values and even when we disagree, she knows where I'm coming from. And she's the best listener ever - that's something I really appreciate in a friend. But she's gone to England for 6 months now so I won't see her again until next year *sigh*

But don't you guys think it's hard to be best friends with a guy?

In my experience, either you or him gets feelings for the other person and it's no longer just platonic. Like, last year, I met a Japanese guy at uni and we became the bestest friends in the shortest amount of time - we talked everyday and saw each other at school all the time, we had mutual friends and it was really cool but then he asked me out. I was so shocked and when I said no, he couldn't understand it and doesn't talk to me anymore. I know people like that shouldn't be worth your time but there are moments when I miss him so much.

[BluLotus]

And that is why you shouldn't associate your potential gf/bf with your friends, not until you two have acutally become a couple. People can't choose who they like, so you can't really blame your friends for stealing them away, unless that friend was trying to steal the person away or caused the breakup; whoever does that is an a$$hole.

I don't ever associate someone who might have potential to end up as a couple to my friends. It's not that I'm afraid that my friends would steal the persona way from me, I just don't like the two party mixing. It's just that if things don't work out, it'll be awkward for me and the person beacuse we'll have mutual friends and yea...

I trust my friends and none of us ever goes for anyone of our ex. And if one of us like someone, the rest knows to back off. =)

Okay, answer to your question:

If you value your friendship, you'd let it go. True friends are hard to come by, but that is only if she's a true friend, haha...kinda seems weird that she'd keep stealing guys from you. =.=

[charmian]

well yea..cuz the time you spend with them are far more than the time you spend with others. Plus, well, the more you spend time together, the more you would find faults in her. :? I do hate my best friend sometime..cuz she's a single child and very used to having ways to her. Yep, i get annoyed but due to the fact that i don't wanna lose a friend just cuz of her atitude, i kept it into myself.

BUT, there's always an exception. Another best friend of mine who grow up with me for the past 8 years stays in my good books. she totally Rock! though we've seperated for 8 months..we do chat up for long hours and went out on occasions. :-) she's the friend that went through with me thick and thin

hmm..so Yep. thats my answer. Best friends do get up your nerves sometimes..But you know them all inside out to know that they don't mean it in a harmful way! :D

[HaNaBi]

yah...sometimes I do hate my best frenz a bit, like when she/he commented about something which is very sensitive to me, very superficially, and that hurts me, cuz I would think that they would be more sensitive than my other non-best frenz...But still I'll forgive them after that, cuz eventually they're still humans, they'll make silly mistakes sometimes...

I have 1 best frenz (A guy From Secondary School till now) and 1 soul mate (It's a lady, I call her "MAMA" she call mi "PAPA").

It's possible to have a best frenz of the opposite sex. And normally, you'll know it when you kinda feel weird about taking this friendship a step further into a relationship, cuz both of you just know each other way too well, but there are exceptions...oh well...

[mein]

well, i would say yes!!..but i couldn't recall back when was the last time i argued and hated her...even though i've known her for 5 years, i didn't get to know her well...i found out that we are quite intimate and we become best fren in the last of my high school...since then, we chat almost every single day...sharing my feelings and problems with her...and i'm quite close to her family as well..and so does she...well,i just hope that our friendship will last a day more than forever..of course there will be some arguments because of our different opinions over something...but we just can blame them cuz we are all the same..

[MonkeyKing]

i think u should talk things over with ur mate... lay down wat u feel like how u sed it above cos it appears to me that u guys are lacking communication and understanding between one another. If she does all this with full knowledge of ur feelings towards those guys then she's not worth the trouble of being friends with, but make sure u talk it over with her and get things sorted b4 anything.

Let her know how u feel http://instagiber.net/smiliesdotcom/kao/otn/pblob3.gif

[kasic_fantasy]

yea...sometimes...shes like crazy or what...sometimes when we went out or in school she may just suddenly ignore me or just be cold towards me..like showing me attitude...i dont really like it...but anyway....i dont have much friends so i guess i should just bear with it..... :dry:
emijie...i guess next time when you know some guys or what,just dont let that friend of yours know...i mean...just dont let her know the guys around you if you feel that shes snatching your friends...maybe you should just talk to her...like tell her how you feel....else she might continue with her habit and you will continue to suffer!

[xoxbb]

aww...me...>< ! ive a best friend.were like sister u know. one day i told her to not say to everybody the guy i ''love''....u know ...she didnt listen to me... after i forgive her ...and after...she go out with him...i was like...damn her man i gonna find anohter ''sister''. : (

[xiezhi_renfu]

yeap.. i totally agree with you girl. Sometimes your friends might be great but they really can be irritating another moment. They poke fun at you when they finds out your weakness. but then i think i
'm pretty used to them now. and i also play pranks on my other friends using their weaknesses. they hate me too sometimes.. heh!

[Yuki]

Ive been thru too many hardships with different kinda friends.... but Im really totally sure I have one darn true friend after all these years... She's called Rachel... and I met her in primary2 when I just moved to whr I am now.... and we spent alot of time 2gether... but altho the next year we were in different classes we still stayed close.... then when Secondary skool came ALOT of things changed but our friendship dint. We went to different skool's but stayed really close.... I even had a 6 month(Im NOT kidding) fight.... and since we had no other ways of talking.... since we werent talking .... it was 6 months without her and just one day I got so sick of not having her around.... I went to her house after skool one day and I bought her fave chocolates and we just started talking like nothing happened. After that eventho we still seem to NOT agree on loadsa things... I learnt to take it easy... it isnt easy to keep a friend like her... its been 9 years since I met her and she's the best thr is.....

But I do have other friends who broke my trust but overall I thought.... life wouldnt be how it was now if she wasnt thr for me..... and thr are other friendships that grow outta time. Not evryone can be ur best friend for years.... and dont ever hate ur friends.... Not if they have been thr for you... cause if they werent thr.... god knows whr u'll be now.

Last year I had quite a bad time with another one of my best friends.... cause she said some really hurtful words that eventually came to my ears.... but after that I dint really speak to her until one day she came to me telling me she broke up with the loser(that made our friendship crack) and I just felt I couldnt ignore her or throw away a longtime friendship after all she did standby me thru the primary years.... and I just found myself forgetting all the things that she did to hurt me and Im still best bud's with her now. Friendship isnt about recieving... u gotta give!

And another best bud(I seem to have lots a prob's with them) We both were jealous of each other over one guy.... that was so bad news I should have realised it in the 1st place... but somehow its really surprising wat jealousy and envy can do to ur mind no matter how mature u are.... So in the end we both ended our friendship with that loser and we confessed to each other about how we actually NEARLY hated each other.... and now thr's no guy that can come between us...(Since I chose another guy who she wont like...but she agree's that he's meant 4 me....ahhaha)

So for me I learnt not to fuss so much over breaking friendships... cause thru life we make alot of friends and LOSE alot more.... So dont hate ur friends.... if u dont get along.... get another friend... ppl grow up and u grow into different roads in life.... accept it and move on....

[SimpleBlackHumor89]

well.. not HATE (thats a strong word) but i think more like annoyed, but im only annoyed fer awhile. like one of my friends, whenever one of our other friends, bring something for lunch from home, she goes up to em and ask loudly ' WHATS THAT!' . and like the ppl are kinda embarassed. she does that to me too, when i brought spagetti or a sandwhcih. both food are easy to identify, but she asked me neways... GRR!!

[JaY's HoNeY~BuNNy]

i dun hate my friends...i mean if u hate ur friends then they wouldn't be called friends rite? it'll be more like enemies. anyway, i have a group of close friends that i have known since primary 1...and no, they are not my best friends...my best friend(i've always believed in having ONE best friend only bcuz when that person is best, u can't find another best-ter friend than that best friend right?)...ahahaha...anyway, back to that group of close friends which consists of 3 ppl excluding me of course...the 3 of them has totally different characters...one girl-H2O, is the patient type who won't get angry easily....another girl-Bubbles, she is very very talkative,very sociable, has great persuading skills but she likes to twist the truth...anything to prove that what she said was right...when things are not right for her, she will deny that she ever made such comments...everything just to prove that she is in the right(get what i mean?)...and the last girl-devil,(by her name u know that i dun like her much), she is the serious type, ambitious, always the leader of the pack,very confused about her feelings n very unpredictable(as in she hates a person a lot but suddenly treats her very very well indeed).

H2O is the only one that i dun hav problems with even after near 10 years of friendship....Bubbles n i sumtimes get into argument(not the serious type) bcuz of all the truths she twisted...but she is also very caring and understanding...she cares a lot about my welfare n well-being n i can always go to her if i have problems....n Devil, i didn't want to be her friend, it's all bcuz she's is close to Bubbles....and when i'm also close to bubbles we will tend to mix 2geda too....Devil has created a lot of problems for me...including guys(let's just say she is beyond average looks-wise and well-sighted guys hardly fall for her...and plus the fact that she is rotten in the inside)...she likes 2 revenge n keep everything inside of her...and suddenly burst out like a volcano. there was once when a guy she had a crush on liked me instead n she made my life a living hell when she found out...so i just hate her...so much so much bcuz i just hate her for who she is n what she did to me...she is backstabbing me all the time n i'm tired of all those confrontations that we had, just to have another problem after that. so yeah, i dun treat her as a friend since i hate her so much...i just wish that she isn't close to Bubbles so that i can distance myself from her....till now, i dun hav a clue on what to do......

luckily, i have my own best friend-Kelly....we've known each other for quite a short time only....since form 1 but we only got close in form3.....so it's like 2 years of friendship for us....but we really clicked and went thru a lot of hardships that tested the strength of our friendship in this short period of 2 years time....many many things had happened that would break a lot of friendships but ours remain strong....n if u guys are interested to know u can reply to this message....and to this day i still wonder how our friendship has managed to be so strong after everything...maybe it's becuz we really treasure each other and not willing to give up on our friendship...i'm truly happy that i found my own best friend........:D

[13abygirl]

i have like 2 friends that i kinda dislike but dun hate them like eimiie does 2wards his/her friend. dey both have very similiar qualities...but one of them is more crazier or more flirtatious than the other. i dun mind her being flirtatious since it doesnt realli concern me.. but she keeps misleading guys by hinting that she likes them while she doesnt, so dey would fall 4 her.. after dey admit 2 likin her, she jsut says sawee & moves on 2 another guy... a couple of mai guyf riends already fallen in her trap. i dun want her hurtin ppl like tat... i just realli dun like her personality now... i keep wonderin y i am her friend... & da worse is tat, she keeps hittin on mai boyfriend claiming that dey are soulmates..

[Yuki]

Whoa.... that isnt a friend I'd say.... I mean she can hit on all the guys in the whole world..... and it really wouldnt be much(It would I guess>"<) BUT once she hits on ur guy..... she's crossed the line.... u've gotta tell her off.... does ur bf noe about wat she;s done b4? If he doesnt.... tell him ASAP..... but if he actually believes her then(Sorry to say) he isnt much of a bf rite? How close are you....?

[hellokitty]

before, in primary school, i had alot of good friends...after that, we all went to the same high school but at high school, we all split up, some of them still hang around each other...i have completely new friends at high school now

i agree, people just change over time...i'm sure i'm not the one who changed...they are...but who is to blame? I can't even talk or say anything to them anymore...everyone's found their place in the school...I wish that if i could go back a few years, i would maintain my friendship with them :cry:

wow, i didn't know my friendship life is that tragic...haha...whenever i'm sad, i just think of happy things

and no, i don't hate my friends or ppl that were my friends, but yes, i can get really annoyed at my friends sometimes...friendships in high/primary school are just not stable i guess

[akane_chou]

i would say yea... i hate it when they're so much better than me n they rub it in. i dont like it when they ditch me on purpose or they whisper... it makes me feel so... left out... wont it be so much better if i could be whispering in Jay's ear..saying sweet things...?

[Po1aris]

well yeah, i hate some of my friends sometimes. usually over jealously issues

[amethyst]

There will be times when they just really piss you off. But isn't that what friendships about accepting all of the person, the good and the bad (even though they can be annoying at times) but just deal. If your friend is just too good it makes you want to hate them sometimes because there's not much to hate about them. I have friends like this but it's better than having unrealiable friends right?

[Hanzo]

I hate the ones that like to gossip... they are annoying! and i hate the cheap ones too, but i gotta live with it cauz most of my friends are super cheap!

[judes]

uh, you're cheap too. haha.
so maybe you'd like to dish out some money for food and stuff, then your friends would treat you nicer!

if i hated someone they wouldn't be my friend anymore.
so i guess i don't hate my friends, i only get annoyed by them when they do stupid things.

[pamujung]

hmm.. I think I sometimes hate those who are general friends but not the close friends, they are not always understand me and know what I hate, then they will make the silly thing.

yah annoying can grow up to be hate.. and sometimes I want them to change the habits haha so self-contained..

[shiroyume]

my friends and i have come to terms that the word "hate" is a strong word..
but the answer is yes..(change the word "hate" to strongly dislike"!) i DO find that i sometimes strongly dislike my friends...
i think its because as others have said "change"? but i also think that it can be jealousy...
i used to get really aggravated at one of my friends... becuase hse got this boyfriend whom she became attached to, and everything seemed to revolve around him. it was as if she didnt need me as s a friend anymore now that she had a boyfriend...
and i geuss i got jealous? but now that im used to it its all cool...
sometimes i "hate" my other friend just because they do it on purpose..piss me off that is..
there are also times where i just cant stand it and i just dont talk to them for a while, because i guess im not one for confrontations...so i tend to just "avoid situations" and the other person, being as stubborn as i am, wont really appologise, or make attempts to settling hte dispute...
but being friends, you get over it! its only a temporary thing.... so its all good!

[friends_pt]

I guess not to the extent hate... it's jus tat i'll get annoyed by my friend at times cos of the things they did or maybe cos of some misunderstanding between my friend n me... well, it did happened quite lotsa times this yr but thinking back abt it, i think it's kinda childish but it somehow bring our friendship closer...

[ClicketyClam]

most of the times i don't hate my friends. hate is too strong a word and if i hate them then they are probably not my friends. i usually just get irked by the things they do sometimes like breaking promises or blowing me off when their bf/gf is around. i usually forgive them quickly but the one thing that really bothers me is if my friends lie to me. i hate that. that and when they talk about you behind your back. its even worse when you ask them about it but they totally deny it. i think the only time that i ever hated one of my friends is when she lied and blamed something on me to get herself out of trouble. she was doing some things that her parents didn't want her to and alot of people knew about it and covered up for her but then she got caught and dumped it all on me (and i later found out from somebody else that it was because she thought that our 'friendship' was over because i was moving away) yea then i tried to tell everybody the truth but nobody belived me and so i got in major trouble for something i didn't even do. i hated her for about two years and then i thought it over and realized that it was stupid to keep hating something from the past. i saw her a few months ago when i moved again and we talked but we will never be friends again.

[Smonkkey]

Well i don't really hate my friends. Just some can be really annoying at times. There are a few people that hang out with my group of friends, but aren't really my friends... those people i can hate sometimes. They can be real jerks sometimes, and they never know when to stop fooling around.

The closest thing to hate that i have with one of my friends is kinda a rivialry. Its kinda hard to explain, but practically he thinks he's better than at most things even when he sucks. If you've watched/read Naruto, its like.... i'm naruto and he's sasuke (except he's not a child genius or super skilled). When we do something competitive he never thinks he's bad at anything and tries to give advice like he's a professional. Bleh, i guess i just hate how he doesn't recognize me, but looks down on me and everyone instead. O well :bleh:

[yukiko]

sometimes i hate them... but they r still my frens rite?? so i'll try my best to 4get all the hateness in my heart n my brain.

[jtayk]

Me, too. I don't just hate my friends but I feel annoyed by them and not in a mood to talk with them sometimes. Arguement is also one of the reason.

Since I am working now. I see that old high school friends are the most special and most understanding of all friends. My uni friends are so so, let alone my collegues. Since there are many older colleguages in my office, I am so sick and really wanna kick their asses when they suddenly get moodly and order you to do things or gossip about your clothes or attitudes.

[tearstained7987]

yeah i do. sometimes they get on your nerves. but they are your friends right? although @ my age a lot of ppl change...

[yukiko]

jtayk : yeah.. sometime they r bad friend to argue with. ^^
i have one friend i actually dislike. but we used to hang out 2gether with other 2 frenz. if there's no others there.. maybe i wont be her frenz anymore. i hate her. ^^ she always want to be no 1. n frankly.. she's ugly. she's oredy 30up.. n she has a marriage b4.
like when she asking me about a shirt or anything... i have to said YES to anything. if i answer NO, she'll angry with me. so y should she ask me? dun ask me lor.. arghhh.. i hate her.
like someday ago.. when hanging out to one of mall here. she pick a shirt, then she ask me... "how bout this" n im just wanna be honest with ev.thing i said...then i answer "actually it's not bad. but it dun suit with u." frankly.. it wont suit her. then she angry so easily.. im just trying to be a good friend rite. a good friend wont lie you by saying "yeah.. it looks good on you".

[aZn_tears]

yeah i hate my friends sometimes as well it just that they annoying but well we have to fight sometimes don't we it jsut the ways things go but even if we fight as along as we can become friends again then i'm fine with it .....and i do know the reason why i fight with my friends plus is a part of growing up at my age .......... but no matter how bad our fights are we stiil friends

[jes!]

that's common i guess.. i have a lot of patience hen it comes to my friends but recently ive been feeling a bit bad on my friend.. she's becoming a bit illogical with this other friend of ours...

[chingyan]

yea.. for sure i would... just becoz they are doing things to me that i dun like... as they do know that i dun like it... but i will forget about it very quickly.. like after a sleep and i will fine again..usually~

[fourteen]

Yes!!!! i can get real mad at them at times, especially when someone lied to me.. i will curse them behind their backs but i won't do anything to hurt them though. but somehow after all the cursing and swearing, we still remain as friends and i will still get mad at them many a times..

[akane_chou]

yukiko: honestly, if she asks, tell her it[the tee] looks fabulous. just dont add ' on you'.
haha.. im teaching you to be nasty...

i forgot to add something [i didnt want to edit my post in case it disrupted anything].
i HATE it when my friends criticise Jay n his eyes. especially when they havent heard ANY of his songs. that really gets to me...

[eimiie]

i forgot to add something [i didnt want to edit my post in case it disrupted anything].
i HATE it when my friends criticise Jay n his eyes. especially when they havent heard ANY of his songs. that really gets to me...


i hate that too!!! and how they call him ugly, no talent, etc. they have no respect for what i think? it`s also like that one time when i said i supported bush and one of my friends goes out, finds a video that makes fun of bush and asks me why and how can i be so dumb to support a dumb monkey bush. :chair:

and also i have a friend for calcbased who i work with. i thought she was all great and everything, especially also cuase i roomed with her last year. now that i'm slacking in calbcased physics, she completely ignores me or just blows me off when i try to talk to her. :realmad: grrrr. it frustrates me so much.

i don't understand girls sometimes, even tho i am a girl. maybe it's cause they act like how i would act.. according to some people. but i guess i can trust guys more just cause they've never used me for homework and such. and i'm not talking about those guys who talks to lots of other girls. but like those geeky guys. :bleh: they're so much easier to get along with, work with and talk to. no genderthings involved. we're all on an equal level?

[sean-eka]

Yes. Haha. I'd actually would. He is sooooooo talkative. And then he always makes me feel so badd , cause i don't have a mobile phone. O wells. We'd actually started off as enemies... but after that... we became friends! Hah!

[jiali]

Yess i do!! I've a friend who is really irritating and insensitive!!! :oops: Also, whenever she apologises, you can tell that she doesn't mean it at all. Sometimes my other friends and I try to hint to her, but she just doesn't get it. She is such a blockhead??? Aargh, but what to do, she's my friend? Haizz..

[friends_pt]

Not to the extend really hate them to the core but just that whenever we meet to go out, they will always be late. it seems to be an usual practice of them to be consistently late and i'll be waiting for them. When they reach they wont feel embarrass or even apologise for being late. I just find it so annoying but i've to accept this shortcoming of them. i cant possibly give up these friends just because they are always late for appointment right?

[beyOnd aLL reasOn]

oh my goodnes...ALL THE TIME. hah just kidding. but i have this one friend who is REALLY annoying sometimes.

usually, i love her, we're really close. but at times...i just want to strangle her. such as this week...she keeps on saying really obnoxious and mean things like "you didn't do your homework AGAIN!?" in this really annoying way and i just want to SLAP her!!!!

and sometimes...it gets really easy to feel excluded with my friends. don't know why...it's kind of sad. and sometimes i just have like nothing to do with them and nothing to say with them...and then i wonder if i'm actually as close to them as i think. ((sigh))

[jiali]

Not to the extend really hate them to the core but just that whenever we meet to go out, they will always be late. it seems to be an usual practice of them to be consistently late and i'll be waiting for them. When they reach they wont feel embarrass or even apologise for being late. I just find it so annoying but i've to accept this shortcoming of them. i cant possibly give up these friends just because they are always late for appointment right?
Oh my! If i were really your friend, you'd be pissed at me! :tongue: I'm usually late when i meet up with friends, but i do apologise to them..

[xin0829]

i hate it when my friends are late.. a few minutes is fine.. but i hv a friend who always made me wait for 30mins to 2 hrs.. she did apologise everytime, but she never change. I think there is also a problem with me, i don't know how to show my anger on my friends when i'm angry with them on certain things. I don't know, mayb i'm afraid it would break our friendship. For example this friend who is always late, i never once tell her off. Strange huh, i guess any other people would hv scream their lungs out.

[JennEmma]

Well, I must say that I'm 95% nice and 5% evil and so..I hardly 'hate' someone,heh! :bleh:
But, I do have a friend and we are in a same class and to sum it up, she sits beside me(luckily not most of the time!). Sometimes, she annoys me, she is a type of girl that like to talk a lots! Oh my god, :whistle: the way she talks is killing me because she talks to 'detail'

I'm sorry mate, I'm evil :angel:

[Sweet_Monkey]

Umm...I cant hate my best friend...she is really great and I know her sooo long...but sometimes she is really getting on my nervs...she is always talking about her bf...What they did yesterday in the cinema and so on...after a time it`s so uninteresting what they did!! :oops:

[tiffany_x]

I think being around the same people way too much (such as your friends), can cause you to find them maybe annoying sometimes and little things they do might get on you're nerves. I don't hate my friends, but sometimes I do get irated by their actions after I'm with them for a very long period of time. But then again, I'm just that type of person who can't be around someone too often because then I start to get annoyed with them. Sometimes I just need to take a break from them. :dry:

[mysadworld]

i guess its inevitable not to hate your friends sometimes.maybe not hate,but dislike especially someone who is pretty close to you i feel.not everyone has the same feelings towards things.when views gets different,there will bound to have quarrels.but i think after a while,it should be alright.after all,she is still your friend =)

[lina_chasez]

LOL.... i read a few posts and i can not agree more... we all have hated our friends maybe for a second or a little more... :worry: and it is normal or can i say natural and healthy? :wacko:

i think that especially for teenagers is easy to have problems with friends... as they said before you are changing and all that kind of stuff... we can even change friends several times before meeting the ones who are real and loyal and... you know what i meant... :shy:

but the important thing is to know why you guys fight... was it worth? ihate to know about girls messing up over a guy! in fact, i learned to know that some friends of mine torn apart forever because of that.... that's a pity, i swear that :cry:

hate her or him for while but let hate take you over... love is better than that :rolleyes:

[xiao*LyN]

yups! I too hate my friends sometime and can't help but bitch about them!!!!!! I've got a close friend who loves to brag about almost everything under the sun. When I 1st gotta know her, it was ok then I started to get tired of what she have to say since almost all topic we discussed, she would always start her stories and put everyone in listening mode. My other friends tried to stop her by cutting her off half way and telling their stories YET it was of no use cuz' she would always cut back and add on more stories!! So after awhile, we just shut up and hear what she have gotta say! Can't help but get irritated sometimes!! =X

[spax]

I can say that I sometimes hate my friends. Let me give you an example. There was once I did some project with my friends. We are all supposed to be good friends but we all lived to slack. And throughout the project, none of us was that cooperative and our project was delayed. And we all blamed one another for not putting in our best in our project. That ended up with arguments and we even threatened to break apart and not be friends anymore.

However, after our teacher talked to us about our troubles us, we became friends again. I think this is really normal. This is part of our life and through experience, we will become better persons.

[dagamezmasta]

well sometimes i can hate some of my friends..

but my two best friends? no way not once have i actually truly hated them in all the time i've known them. of course, i've proclaimed "i hate you" sometimes but i didn't mean it. and i only said it because say.. they got a higher test than me. but i never really meant such stuff.

i don't think truly best friends can really hate each other.

[j@y_roCks]

yes I do hate, or say, just dislike, my friend only sometimes...

A few years ago, when Im in my grade 6, that was when we know each other and very soon, we become the best friend of each other. During this stage... We chatted a lot on line, (phone line) Very soon, I get bored of it, and I feel very sick answering her phone calls.. Everytime she phone me to tell me her stories.. Which, at all, I am not interested... a year past, we're still on the phone, I do not dare to tell her that my feeling about answering her calls because I was afraid she will be upset over about it... However there's a period of time, I don't know why, we had a dispute, over whatever, I'm not sure.. But.. we ended communications... which I am extremely relieved, lol! However, it was me who call her, and apologise to her.. (I don't know who's at fault), but I just apologise in order to have a friend more, rather than an enemy more. After that incident, here she go again.. talk talk talk talk talk non stop... I can't help too... That's why I hate to chat on the phone... Sometimes i give factual excuse that my father's phone bill is bursting into millions... And that's how I ended the conversation.. Moreover, she always request me to call her, as she said she's the one who always do the calling.. In my mind I was thinking, it's she's the one who is willing to do so, without my forcing... And it's not my business.. I remembered telling this to her, but I don't think she even care about it...

Until a few months ago, when her computer works, she stopped calling my number, and we chat online, and I realise, she still likes to tell her stories..... Sigh... It's like a torture to me...

However, after a period of time.. (NOW) Her computer spoiled again.. she stopped chatting online with me, due to her faulty computer, and surprisingly, she did not phone me anymore... That's a relieve!!

However, i wonder how she does now.. I afraid to call her, as she might just call and call and call non stop again.

[deedee]

Yessss!!! I sometimes hate my friends..i'm rite now in the period of hating/disliking my v.good fren & my housemate..Aaaagh..i know i shouldn't hate/dislike my v. good fren but i feel so b'coz she would just keep scolding me for small things that i do for example, when i asked to exchange seats with her in the bus, she would go "u shud have told me earlier" in a scolding manner..aaaah..don't want to see her for a while..my housemate is nice but she can be annoyingly 'manja', i am so irritated by her & she's so wanting to have all the attention she can get..

Yikes, i shouldn't bitch about my frens but i can't help it..

I thought i was the only one who sometimes hate/dislike their frens..

Phew, letting all the steam out..

[lovestruck]

I did hate my friends.But that's just a part of friendship. And I'm glad because whenever we have misunderstandings and quarrels,we never gave up our friendship. I hate some of my friends for being very keen observants. They always notice my actions and criticise me for some things I did. But we always end up having a reconciliation and restoring our sweet friendship. I believe that if our friendship is meant to last,we will overcome any trouble and surpass any problems. And that's what happened to us. I know that our fiendship will last... for a lifetime.

[princessKitty]

if you didn't hate your friends, then she/he is not really your friends. in all friends relationship, there will be arguements, there will be hate but at the same time, there will also be love and care. you only argue or hate your freinds because really, you care about them. if you didn't care, you wouldn't be bothered to talk to them or get things straight.

i have hated my friends for the things she has done but then again, i'm sure i have done something for her to hate me.

[-rain-]

well, me and 3 best friend has been friend for a long time....althought we hav been friend for long but sometimes i still feel that one of them is so annoying.....she change so much and i can receive that change...i want my friend just like what she is before.....is that so selfish?!?! well but i like her very much, and i care for her so much so that i don't wanna see her being a girl that not her anymore..........
ciayo........

[-zhoujielunrocks]

yess! i totally agree with alot of the posts here. i am quite close with one of my friend. but i just cant help hating/disliking her at times!! i guess this cant be helped?? cos maybe that friend hates you too? its like i hate her but i still care for her kinda thing. like what -rain- said. quite true!! maybe we care for that friend thats why we hate her/him?

normally, what i will do is i would tell her? in a nice way though. i would tell her why im very uncomfortable with her and all. and then settle things with her and find out whats the problem and all. then after awhile, i will feel better. i will feel that without her, its like rather impossible cos we are such CLOSE friends already. maybe thats a way to lessen the hatred.

[SimpleBlackHumor89]

i have two friends, that i've known since 1st n 2nd grade. and every mon, tues, wed i giv em a ride to school, cos they live in my neighborhood as well. n they know im a huge fan of tupac shakur (rapper) n, when they mention him... they start talkin about him and mis-pronouncing his name on PURPOS, it's supose to be tu-pawk, but they pronounce it tu-pak... n it pisses me off because they know the proper pronounciation but insist on saying it wrong...

[lilaznboy121088]

yea i hate my friends sometimes when they would agru about something. and i was right in the first place, but they make it seems like they knew that and was trying to teach you. i hate when they do that and they would tell others about it and make you feel really dumb.

[zhy378]

i dont really hate my friends....but lately these days it seems like i have or just at least annoyed by one or two of them. for instance, now i have one summer class with few of my friends and i never like have classes with them since middle school, and now it just seem like being more close to them bring out some flaws that make me dislike them like my friend can be annoying or rude without ever knowing it but thats just her personality.

[wanie_jay]

erm...just had a cold war with my so called best friend. the thing is i just get so fed up of doing things her way all the time. its always what she wants or what she thinks. sometimes i think that i have been putting up with her too much....and i'm so sick of it...

right now, i don't talk to her, and never will unless she come and say sorry....

[tenshi_dew]

Yes...the current state in my group of friends is actually not that good. We talk about each other behind our backs a lot, and there's always people in our group that nobody likes. So everybody knows something has changed in our group, but nobody acknowledges because we don't want to cause a massive fight.

I guess I don't really hate my friends, but there are some things that really annoy me. I remembered meeting my best friend for the first time and we both hated each other so much. We had coaching together and we would glare daggers at each other. Then at high school, we became close and now we're the best of friends.

She gave me this quote 'Love is blind, but friendship closes it's eyes' and I think it's true. I guess friendship is about accepting each other's faults and seeing the good side.

[kenshiro43]

I think it's normal to be annoyed with your friends sometimes. They can do things that really drive you nuts and you feel as if you just can stand them. But I think that in the end, you realize that no matter how weird their little quirks are or how annoying they can be sometimes, they're good friends who are always there for you. And hey, have you ever thought that maybe that they're annoyed with you as well? Sometimes, I get terribly annoyed with my friends but I realize that if they have accepted me for all my faults and annoying habits, then why shouldn't I be able to accept them? And I know that in the end, these are my true friends who will always lend a shoulder for me to cry on and people I can depend on when everything seems to go wrong. Stick with the friendship that you guys have. I know that I would hate to lose a friendship because I got annoyed or hated a friend of mine from time to time. Sometimes, I try to distance myself from my friend if that happens and just wait for the feeling to pass. If you think the friendship you guys have is worth it, then just stand above it. Don't throw what you have away.

[DragonPrince]

Sometimes, people have different views, they provide miscommunication.

Its best to take time to cool down and talk about what you feel about each other later. Don't think that there is nothing to talk about, since its a fight. Not talking to each other will cause deeper misunderstandings. Talk to a middleman, ask the middleman to figure out the common point and convey the message in a kind manner, not like 'scolding' or lecturing you kinda of way.

I don't use the word hate, until I find no common ground and I know seriously, that person keeps hurting me time after time.

[cinnimon~]

it always happens to us. but in the end you would still think that she's the best. there are times of doubt

[keikai]

Its human's nature to have their ups and downs.
And its only normal to have arguements even with your closest ones. This is usually caused by misunderstandings/lack of understanding.
I do 'hate' my friends sometimes. That's a strong word but we use strong languages when our emotions are at their peaks.
I hate it when my friends interfere in my arguements with my family. Simple reason, I know they care, but the thing is, sometimes they never listen to my side of the story and they start putting the blame on me just because I'm not the one in tears.
However, despite all these misunderstandings, I do love my friends. Truly. Even if they may be irritating at times and they aren't always there for me. Friendship is wonderful in times when you don't even see it.

[angelofdevotion]

There are things tht would make u get along... but more things tht make u get along together.. u can;t like a person 100 percrnt to like them forever.
and as long as there are tides in the sea.. there can be tides in any freindship or relationship... there are things that you might not like abaout her.

i felt it sometimes,,,..... but i like her more.. and i think... how important she is to me... how deep our friendship really goes... and we will be better... and like her more than hate her.

[chu_bear]

I hate some "so called friends" who uses me to get to know my girl-friends or to get to know my guy-friends....:dry: gezzzzzzz it's just so hurtful when u find out why they got to know you in the first place.........(sometimes it's for other reasons too...)
I also hate some of my "friends" that dislike people who look like "lower life people" or isn't "good enough to be their friends"....

So i'm pretty picky with friends i guess....or maybe i lack trust...sighz
but they need to grow up!

[mrazfan4ever]

I love and hate her, but sometimes despite the love...I come to hate her, even though I know how awful the word sounds.

I hate you (speaking to her) for telling him and making the situation between him and I so awkward and unbearable. I hate how you hang around him in front of him when you KNOW I want him. Did you know he liked me? Now you made me look desperate. I hate you for having a boyfriend and still messing with him and the other guys in camp. I hate how I still forgive you everytime and put on a fake smile for you. I hate you for ruining camp.

Ah! Much better now that that's out.

[wanie_jay]

nice topic...just when i need it the most

i hate my best friend when she make me do stuff that i hate. i hate her when she keep showing off her new hp,and keep asking me to change mine(i don't have the damn money, FGS!!!)...

erm, that's just about it....for the moment

[Iceblade24]

I strongly dislike my friend when he has changed himself so much. He is no longer the friend that I knew, but someone completely different, an incredibly egotistical asshole who has the head about as large as the world. He believes he is some pimp and acts so differently around girls and such, and his cockiness seeps through his writing. Why couldn't he just be true to himself and remain the nerd that he is; no matter what he does I know there is still a part of him that I was friends with to begin with, but right now I wouldn't mind never seeing him again.

God I hate people who think so highly of themselves they forget who their real friends are.

[milkee_glitz]

I really glad that this thread exists.. Coz some really bitchy people like tells the person you hate what you said about them, and the person starts hitting back.. Okay I really super hate this girl in my class.. She really fake in front of male teachers.. And she always acts smart.. Arghh..

[Shortie_J]

hate my friends sometimes?? ya huh, how bout all the time? i wouldnt even consider them my friends anymore cos im sick of how they're always using me. can i just say for example persons A and B are my friends...well im more friends with person A than with person B but they're closer to each other than they are with me. im sick of how when person B isnt around, person A can see me, and vice versa...when person A isnt around, i all of a sudden become good friends with person B, BUT when A and B are around, i don't exist at all...it's like im just the back-up friend when their REAL friend isnt around and they have no one else to hang around with.....HELLO?!?!?! I do have feelings you know....well obviously not.

[sam_ho]

yea, my bestfriend..well, shes just so NEGATIVE SOMETIMES!!!! im too positive. and theres this another friend that considers me as her bestfriend. so now my bestfriend goes all cold to me. >< she has a terrible mood swing

[cute_git]

aahhh... another thread that i need right now... :brows:

hmm... do i hate my friends? not really hate hate but im sooo annoyed and im tired. i have uni friends and we've been friends for only a year... at first everything was great and all but starting this year (last term of last school year and this term), i have been sooo annoyed with them that i didnt want to talk to them and i dont wanna see them. i cant really do anything about the seeing part since we have the same classes (yes everything) but i hang out with some of them less now because i really cant stand being with them. it all started when we had a huge project and whoopee! i had to become the leader (since noone was doing anything) and i really slaved for that project. i had to assign everything and i ended up doing and organizing most of the work, but with the help of some of my friends (from the same group but not THEM). i sacrificed a lot of weekends doing that while all they do is go out and have fun and i did not sleep the weekend before the due date. after everything was done, they were all coming like wow its so nice and stuff. in the end, we got the highest and when it was time for the final grades, i got lower than some of them who didnt even do anything useful. and this didnt happen only once. this term, this happened a lot of times too (hmm... i think in 4 out of the 5 projects we had)... and lo and behold! i find myself having a lower grade than some of them AGAIN. and even if i did most of the work, im not even recognized as the leader. :dry:

its not exactly the grades that im mad/ annoyed about... its the effort that they put in. they never ever asked me if i needed any help and if i would assign them stuff, they would either tell me they cant do it or they would pass me some mediocre crap. what kind of friends are those? gosh i miss my high school friends :cry:

-edit-
i actually felt better now that my feeling's out.. haha.. thanks for this thread! :happy:

[bebyjaystaa]

i love this thread :-)
i have this friend..well i dont know if i should really consider her my friend. but like she's part of the people i hang with. more of like my friends' friend. but anyways...shes so freaking annoying ! :dry: she screams all the time to get attention. shes boy crazy & its so obvious shes trying to get guys attention. shes a good talker..but not a good listener. all she cares for is herself, but she tries to be all innocent yakno..:rolleyes: its RETARDED :tongue:

[chinook]

Haha this is better than a blog.. This friend of mine irritates me to the core! She's so self-pitying that sometimes I can't help but roll my eyes at her. She keeps portraying this "I'm so pathetic and spineless" image that is so unattractive. Also, she's always blowing hot and cold coz of her "mood swings". Like hello, we all have mood swings once in a while, you don't have to have it written all over your face and body language you know. And the worst thing is that she has ZERO EQ. She says the stupidest things without thinking how someone else might feel. Ugh. Totally hate her sometimes. Worst thing is that I have to see her everyday coz we live in the same college. What rotten luck.

[canuck_girl39]

OMG sometimes I really can't stand my friend. She comes to me with the same problems everyday, and she complains and complains over and over again about her life constantly. I'm okay with listening to her, but she never listens to me or the advice I try to give. Sometimes I want to dig a hole and hide from her!

[Onigiri]

I have a friend which I've only known since the beginning of the year and we got off to a really great start because we had so much in common, both with crazy personalities and it was really fun being together :D Though recently we've been growing apart and I find it so hard to talk to her now a days.

Like I'll ask her about something she told me last week or a few weeks ago because I wanted an update on her life as we prolly see each other 1 or 2 times a weel and she'd say something like "that's old news!" and not bother telling me what happened. Or when I tell her that a friend called me about something, I'd start with "Oh yeh Justin called me yesterday about..." She wouldn't let me finish and she'd butt in with "yeh he called me today, and yesterday and the day before that too." Her butting in like that bothers me and breaks my chain of thought so then we don't really talk about anything. So I guess you understand why I find it hard to talk to her now. I don't really want it to be so awkward around her because the short time we spent as really good friends was fun and it makes me kind of sad we've turned like this.

I kinda hope it'll pass soon though because people's relationships seem to have downturns and this is probably ours? XD

[karenyang]

i do hate my friends sometimes...'cause when i'm with this one, she talked sh#t about my other friend to me...and when i'm not there with them, they talk stuff about me.....arg..

[friends_pt]

Perhaps hate is not the word to be used in my case... I dislike the habit of my friend for being late... Everytime when meeting my friends they will always be late and it's late for like half an hour or even one hour. There's this one friend of mine is the worst of the worst. For example, our meeting time is 1pm, she can leave her house at 12.50pm.. There was once where she was late for almost 2 hour, she can happily sit down with us and order her food but not apologise for being late... She made it seems like it's our duty to wait for her and she got all the right to be late. what the hell is this man!! why are there people in this world who neglect the importance of being on time? What's worst about my friend is also that she will be on time for work but not when she's meeting her friend... that's just so irritating!!

[gifted1]

I hate one of my friends that goes out with girls just to mess with them. Just because he's all cute and rich, he thinks he's some big stuff. I fucking hate him to death, he once tried to drag my ex and my lil sis to go out with him. What a dirtbag.

[hui90]

I hate my friend when she keep asking me what homework we have when she got jot it down in her notebook! I don't understand why she didn't bother to flip her notebook. I didn't even jot down what homework we have, and she knew i always forget things easily and she expected me like tell her all the homework we have and if i missed out something, she would not even bother to tell me. And then, she always say she's going flunk her exams and so on but she still did okay. And if i did better than her she's kind of unhappy with my marks. ARGHS! I can't wait to leave this school!

[downloader]

I hate my friend when she keep asking me what homework we have when she got jot it down in her notebook! I don't understand why she didn't bother to flip her notebook. I didn't even jot down what homework we have, and she knew i always forget things easily and she expected me like tell her all the homework we have and if i missed out something, she would not even bother to tell me. And then, she always say she's going flunk her exams and so on but she still did okay. And if i did better than her she's kind of unhappy with my marks. ARGHS! I can't wait to leave this school!

same with my friend.Totally understand ur feeling.But my frend is even worst, he will shout out loudly pointing the fingers at me if something is not right, even it is not my fault( most of the time is group work).

[phoenix_fire]

hate my friends sometimes?? ya huh, how bout all the time? i wouldnt even consider them my friends anymore cos im sick of how they're always using me. can i just say for example persons A and B are my friends...well im more friends with person A than with person B but they're closer to each other than they are with me. im sick of how when person B isnt around, person A can see me, and vice versa...when person A isnt around, i all of a sudden become good friends with person B, BUT when A and B are around, i don't exist at all...it's like im just the back-up friend when their REAL friend isnt around and they have no one else to hang around with.....HELLO?!?!?! I do have feelings you know....well obviously not.
I totally understand what you mean, my friends do it too only theres 6 of us so I get left out more. I mean, the only time they're nice to me is to copy homework or to get sympathy. Yet they still b*tch about me- even when I'm standing right there!:-x

[tenshi_dew]

There's this girl in my group who I really really dislike. My best friend is sort of the 'leader' in the group and everyone likes her. So every time I talk to her or hang out, the girl I don't like gets all angry. First off, my friend hates her in the first place, and 2nd, she's my best friend! Why can't I talk and laugh with her!?

Every time I hang out with my friend, the girl I really don't like will suck up to me and talk with me, but when my friend's not there, she takes every opportunity to give me dirties and glare at me. How two-faced is that!

And gosh, she's such a tryhard and suckup. Once we all went on this school camp, and there was this really popular and pretty girl in our camp group. The person I hate would just suck up to her, laughing at every thing she said, even when she wasn't trying to be funny. Anyway, that really pretty girl I was talking about, she has really nice hair and all these cool hairstyles, and the person I hate would try and copy it. And no offense, but her hair is like disgusting. Once we were in maths, and the girl sitting behind her told my friend 'Ew. Her hair looks like a dick.'

I could just smack her face in. One of her friends has this boyfriend who's leaving school soon, and one morning, I found them both sitting smack bang in the middle of the playground, crying. I can understand her friend for crying, but why on earth is SHE crying?? She's such an attention seeker. She kept trying to look like she was so sad and would make all these really loud sniffing noises and continually wipe her face. And this might sound really bitchy, but no one in our group really went to comfort her. We just hung around laughing about something our friend said.

Everyone in our grade hates her. She's either so slow she doesn't realise, or she just doesn't want to face reality.

[sam_ho]

IT HAPPENS TO ME EVERYTIME!!

Well, we've been "bestfriends" for like...4 years. But lately, I have been hanging out with this other girl so she gets jealous. Actually, I don't even know if she's jealous of my GRADES or my friendship with other girl.

She basically gets really cold with me when I try to talk things out, and in school, she acts like I don't exist. Then, suddenly, she acts like NOTHING has happened. We just got through a huge fight, and I was the one that apologized, even though it wasn't my fault.

I really just think that she's a bitch now and that I feel that I started being friends with her because I felt sorry for her since she is overweight and nobody wanted to get close to her. Well, she only has guy friends. One of my friends told me to leave it for now, and if she continues the weirdness, then my friendship with her is NOT worth it.

And I guess she's right.

**I may sound rude right now, but that's really how I feel deep down, and I have to let it out. I hope that everything turns out okay at the end of this semester...**

[baranamtara]

Two years ago I realized there isn't something like driendship. This stuff in the movies and TV Series.. It's all so wrong. "We are friends since childhood"... Sure... :dry:

Two years a go a really close friend of mine (and I've helped her out whenever she needed me without asking for anything in return) just wanted to hurt me for about half a year until I couldn't stand it anymore...
What's worse is, that in the time afterwards my other friends kind of stopped to think about me. I made a mistake with one frined... one time only... But she enver stopped telling em that she s soooo dissapointed. I apologized a thosand times, but she never cared, just kept on telling me what a bad friend I am.
It was just horrible. I felt like I was really a bad person. That this friend was right to hurt me...

Oh well... Since I stopped to contact soem friends, I realized that they are just not interested in contacting me. They never call. It's just me who lways has to ask. It's stupid and I'm so sick of it.
All I want is a good friend who sometimes calls... And really calls when he says so. I'm waiting for the call, you know. Once I waited two weeks for that stupid call until I gave it up...

[milkified]

OMG I really need to bitch about my college friends here.

I'm not a very sociable person. My course started on June and I got to know my college friends of course. They were okay at first. But after a few weeks, I ound out that I can't mix with them.

First, I'm the only banana in the class while all of them are Chinese educated. I speak English and they only speak Chinese. I always try to speak in Chinese and understand them while they take no initiative to understand English since they're the majority. Fine. When they ask me something, I'll try to explain in Chinese since they do't understand other language. But since my Chinese is very poor. They find it very hard to understand me. And they start scolding me for not explaining clearly to them. Saying that I'm arrogant and all because I know English. I'm like WTF?! I'm trying to help and this is what I get?! I was very surprised by how they react to me.

And there's this girl who likes to brag like she knows everything in the world. I just keep quiet because I don't want to get any trouble. Then, she keeps on bragging about her hometown (she's from another state and is here for studying). Like how cheap the food and stuffs are, how she can get the best of everything there. What does she except? She's from a rural area and now she's here in the city. It wouldn't be the same of course. And why doesn't she stay there when everything is perfect there according to her?

When they found out about my O Level results, which is very good according to them (but it's nothing special considering the fact that I'm from a smart school and basically all of my friends scored better than me), they started asking me why I didn't tell them about it when I know them. I just don't want to make them feel like I'm being proud of my result. They got mad for a few days and weren't talking to me.

I just don't know how to communicate with them. There's like such a big gap between us. They always say I'm acting cool in front of them when I'm not. I just don't understand what they're talking about sometimes because they speak fast and in Chinese but I don't feel like asking them because they would laugh at me like I'm an social idiot.

*end of rants*

Sigh.

[phoenix_fire]

I'm so mad at my friend right now (again!) whoever invented this thread is a genius!:thumbsup:

So, we're sitting in R.E and she starts a discussion about religion, which we generally don't get into because we all know that she is a devout Christian and all. I'm a buddhist, so I'm not involved in this discussion, but I sit behind her and my other friend, so I can hear everything.

First she says that Roman Catholics don't follow the bible and so they are all going to go to Hell. My other friend is like WTF?? and tries to explain that Catholics would follow the bible, probably more so then other people. But does it get through? Of course not. This then becomes a talk on how 'You're agnostic, so you don't even fully believe in God, so thereofre you're going to go to Hell too.' I mean, hello?!! This is probably her best friend she's talking to here, and shes saying how everyone is going to go to Hell unless they convert to Christianity. Nothing against Christianity here by the way, I totally respect it and all other religions but my friend is just waaaay OOT sometimes.

Ahh... thats better now I've ranted and let it all out. :happy: Bu sometimes she is so irritating, condescending and arrogant I just want to punch her in the face :whistle:

[bingcherry]

i know its mean and i'm supposed to be a good person or whatever, but sometimes i just hate them so much. they talk to freaking much and giggle at freaking everything. i mean how the hell is everything so funny. then i look like the bitch 'cause i'm not smiling. what the frick.

[cuteangel]

i have a good friend and sometimes she really bugs. she is a miss perfect and has to have everything her way. it is so annoying. i really hate it when she cries cause then everyone blames everything on me like i was the one who made her cry or something. sometimes she just wants attention. oh and the worst thing about her is that she acts like a mom. she acts like she is better than us and we are people who have to listen to her every word. sometimes i just want to strangle her so she would shut up. it is annoyingit drives me nuts but there are some good points about her.

[rockfaerie]

OMFG. to you who started this thread, i will bow to you and kiss each of your toes! i need to bitch my friend so baddlyyyyyy!

i have this friend, she's one of my close friend i guess. she assumes that we're bestfriends, uh.. yeah right. i just didnt wanna say anything because she doesnt really have a bestfriend. so i cut her some slack. She's not the type of person that i would like to hang ,but oh well. She's been there for me so i guess i have to do the same, right? We've been friends since 8th grade then suddenly she has to migrate to Sudan. Then 2 years after, we started to contact each other via msn, phone calls. my phone bills alone is merely 1k just to contact her alone! it was fun talking to her, i couldn't wait for her to come back to Malaysia and spend some quality time.
Then after she graduate from A levels, she told me she's gonna come back to study in Malaysia. i was excited when she came back. thought she's changed and all.

omg, no lor. SHE'S BECAME WORST! she brags and brags to everybody abt she did her A levels and all. i mean, it's ok to talk abt it and be proud of it but bragging and sucking up to my mother is just too much!! She's so annoying. she BORROWS MY CLOTHES WITHOUT PERMISSION. she flirts with all the guys that looks at her. SHE FLIRTED WITH MY CRUSH WHICH SHE CLEARLY KNOWS THAT I HAVE A MAJOR CRUSH BEFORE. you see, she has a broken family. her dad passed away, suddenly. she's like a runaway child. i pity her, she stayed at my home for merely 4 days. but then it's annoying really. i had no space. she kept on following me around and kept on begging me to go out even though she clearly knows i have a major exam coming that time!

She's voluptuous, her boobs are huge and she has a big body. she wears skimpy clothes. all her fats are bulging out. she wears thongs that is sticking up her pants. UBER DISGUSTING OK. And she copies mee! clothes, phones blah!! i once wanted the motorola hot pink and she wanted a new phn, so i told her i've been eyeing that phn. the nest day, she bought it!!

She has a boyfriend. She said she looooves her bf soo much. she says she wanna marry him and whatever bullcrap. she said she's loyal. LOYAL my ass loyal.
I have no idea why alot of guys likes her, really. My friends told me its cuz she's too easy to get thats why they're into her. Even though they cant have her, they can have a little piece of her. and it's true. EVERY GUY THAT IS WITH HER, SHE WOULD EITHER KISS OR HOLDS HAND WITH HIM! i saw it with my own eyes. there was once we went out, she bumped into 3 of her ex each separate time. she hold their hands and kissed them. she told me she have dated 3 princes and 30++ guys.

HAHAHAHAHAHA!
im best friend with a slut. huraay for me.
damn it, i want her out from my life but i dont want to hurt her feelings. wuwuwu.

[cyndi6]

hey everyone

i have one friend.. she is welll.. hot...she got a new hairdo and clothes over the summer
when we go out.. guys don't even look/talk at me cuz they are too busy lookin at her.. ok i admit it i am jealous of the attention. but what really upsets me i how she teases me about how "unattractive " i am compared to her...grrr... i guess the attention is goin to her head...

and my other friend likes to degrade others to make herself feel superior
....yea i need to make new friends

[spidermaster]

i have a good fren..but sumtimes i cant stand at her!she always make me mad..i really dunno how to explain la..but she is kind..i had a fren who irritating at me..feel unhappy..1 month no sms me jor..

[haihan7]

I guess people start to change when they grow up, or they start to see things differently. I started to see that my friend was petty, fake, super vain, etc. She also complains a lot, which everyone does, but it gets to the point where you're like, "Well, why didn't you do this?" or "Please shut your mouth... errrg!" =.= She's nice sometimes, and I know she's got my back, but sometimes I can't stand her.

[kliu117]

So far, no not really. My friends are all the kind and not so bitchy types and they've never let me down before.

[ziai]

Omg i really need to rant.

I am so freakin pissed off by my friend right now. You know those kind of people who asks you to do something at the last minute and they expect you to be god and send the stuff to them by the next day? My friend is not only like that, when I don't understand something and I ask her how to do it, she asked me to co-operate and said that she isnt in a good mood. wtf. As if i am in a really good mood. heck.

And you don't know how arrogant she is. Yea she has been getting perfect grades and top in class every year, but that doesn't give her the right to look down on anybody. Even when my teachers talk to her, she doesn't bother to look at them. She doesn't admit her mistakes and insists that she is correct. Gah.

I don't even feel like talking about her anymore.

Oh, and I can't stand my friends who type like that- Euu noe ii tink he ish lyke sho kwel. And every few words an emoticon pops out. Man.... Can you please type properly?

SIGH. I guess these people will never change.

[li shan]

phoenix_fire: i know what you mean... though i am also a christian, i don't believe in talking like that to other people. i had a friend once who would always initiate a debate w/ other people, even our college professors and it irritates and embarasses me because, yes we admit that we do want to share our beliefs with other people, but doing it that way is just wrong, it gives other people a bad impression about christians. in the end, she did realize her mistake, and really you can't get someone to be open to what you believe in unless you RESPECT his first.

i also had this friend in high school who always had to be better than me. i remember after our quiz papers would be handed out, she'd grab mine from me even before i could look at it, to make sure the checker didn't mistakenly mark a wrong answer correct. since i wasn't really that studious in high school i often let it slide. thinking back, she basically lorded it over us, and i regret that i only stood up to her in our last years in high school. we're still friends now, but i really don't talk that much to her. she moved away when we went to uni, and to be honest i didn't miss her at all. she and our other (and my current) best friend still communicate a lot, but when it comes to the two of us, i don't really text her unless she texts me first... yeah i'm giving her the cold shoulder most of the time nowadays, though i'm not sure if she'd notice, because if i remember correctly, she's quite self-absorbed. i wonder if she ever realized how rotten she was when we were "best friends"...

[jocsim]

Ahem*,finally i found this thread of what i want!!Yes!!Thanks to the person who started creating this thread.

So,hmm....hate my friends sometimes...i would like to say,i'm totally pissed off with them,not sometimes,EVERYTIMES....!!Of course there're reasons of why i hate them,but it's very long,or should i say it's a LONG STORY to tell!!

[kwonsang26]

well i agree with JianDan[Ai] as we are growing up people change.. i m believe those who stay with you are your true friends.. well when i was in high school i had a very good friend, but soon after one serious thing happen.. we never talk for the whole year, but soon we forget about it and remain as friend.. she is a back- stabber abd keep 'suan' say things sacrasticly to me..
well.. i do hate my best friends as they don't have the initiative to stay contact with me and
i must be the one contacting them.. it makes me feel that they are trying to forget me as a friend.. well to conclude
to find a true and great friend is really difficult..

Oh my goodness danielle86 I totally understand what you're talking about.I had a best friend who wasn't really sarcastic,but he would change his mind alot.Even though he's also my 1st cousin.

I can't stand it when we plan a trip 4 months in advance & then he decides he wants to stay.I also have other good friends too & if I don't keep in contact with them.Then we just don't ever talk.Which is pretty lame that I always have to go to them you know.

That also happened to me alot where we would get into a big argument & say things like fine we're not friends anymore.Then don't talk for about a year.Then something bad happens to one of us & we go to the other person for help lol.Weird friends!^^

[wuding]

The problem with many people these days is that they consider everyone that they know/met to be friends. Well, guess what? They're not. For example, I was eating lunch and some guy sat down. I started talking to him and we got into an interesting conversation about lying. 15 minutes later, his friend walks by. He introduces me to him by saying, "This is my friend. She likes to lie." Uhh... we only met 15 minutes ago and we are now friends? I don't even know your name!

I don't hate any of my friends because I can actually count them out by only using one hand. Five fingers on one hand and I don't even have five friends. That is because I consider those who I love and trust the most to be friends and everyone else to either be aquaintances or to be strangers. If I have no problem putting my life stake at their hands, then they are my friends. People think I'm popular because I hang around and get along with many different crowds, but in reality, they are just mere aquaintances or familiar aquaintances.

[sam_ho]

god i hate one of my friends right now.

she practically begged to be bestfriends with me (im not trying to sound show offish but she really did). so i talked to her after my dad's death. and she was a GREAT friend. until....now all she wants is MORE AND MORE friends (who r really shallow) instead of just being bffs with me and her old friends. she used me! she freaking used me to get to other "more popular" girls! and she's freaking MEAN AND BITCHY to my bestfriend.