will jay be a good dad to his kids?

[une_topaze]

mods, pls feel free to lock or move this topic if it's already been created somewhere in the forum or simply going nowhere. i've searched the forum but found none on this topic (maybe i missed it).

there are already topics on jay as a husband, boyfriend, friend and neighbour (the what if question). seeing him performing with snoopy in the GMA make me want to know what is ur opinion about jay as a father with his children (little Zhous..)

i don't know if he can be a great father (seeing how much he is married to his music now anyway) but he does seems to like children, and looks comfortable being with them. that is one of the signs of a good father, right?

knowing jL, maybe his songs will be more personal like adding the sound his baby makes (baby laughter or gurgle), we know how jL love to record sounds and use it in his songs or when they're old enough he gonna let them do the rapping in songs.

and i'm not surprised if all his children will be able to play at least one music instrument n just like what his mom always did so that he practice his piano, it will be him doing it to his kids. ahh...maybe in the future we get to see him n his kids performing in his concert (unless they're also as shy as their father :laughing: ).

[angel_numberone]

sure, i think he can be a good daddy for his kids. but probably he'll be a bit strick :whip: to them (heard he wants 2 kids-- 1 boy 1 girl ) he said he wants his kids to be good at music and a girl must be a quiet, good manner person. i doubt he will have enough to stay with his kids because he seems to have loads of works all the times. maybe in the future he might work less or maybe stay at backstage so that he'll have more time and more private life. anyway.....he's not even found his ideal gf...... so i think he's not gonna have baby soon. :bleh:

[panda_shine]

Yeah I think he would be a good father to his kids and his wife :wink2: And since he came from a single family background, maybe he'll be an even more better? :D

[ddooll]

i think Jay will be a good dad too... :wink:... since he luv kids, right?... but i think if he do have kids, he'll probably have more than 1 since from his experience, being the only child is soo lonely... :)...
for the real answer, we'll have to wait..............

[ichigo fairy]

yup, like others have said, i think jay chou will be a good daddy. ^-^ but i think he will be a strict father. he seems to want a perfect family life.

[GuArDiAn AnGeL]

jay loves kids..thats right..and he will probably be patient with them to raise them under his passion for music.....and making them just as talented as he is.....so i think he will be a realy responsible father...even tho he seems like addicted to music...i think when he has children...he will take time out of his music working tie to spend time wid his kids....thats wut i think

[~strawberri~]

I think Jay will be a good Daddy too cause I've seen him talk to kids backstage and he seems to enjoy being with them... No doubt that he will teach his kids to at least play one musical instrument... One of his kids may actually become a singer when they grow up... like Jay... cause Jay will definately teach them how to sing and be as talented as him. In the future we may just see his kids rapping their own songs and making their own music...

[jaychous_girl_4ever]

Oh my une_topaze...that would be sooo darn cute if he did make like special effects in his songs with the sounds of his kids....how adorable could DAT be?!? :) I think Jay would be a superb dad because he's so righeous, talented, and healthy. I mean...he doesn't drink, smoke, cuss (at least not in public)...blah blah blah...he even wrote "Dad I Am Back" to express the bad treatment of parents on their kids....he would definitely treat and teach them well...at least in my opinion....

As with time..I think in the future Jay will retire from the music business as a singer..and maybe he'll just focus on writing and producing songs...or maybe only for a couple of years....at that time, he could have kids! But I guess he has to find a wife first huh?

Yah...he DOES want to have a perfect family eh? But I think he just sets high expectations...he seems really considerate and understanding...and he's really into individuality right? So like...if his son really likes (random thoughts) soccer....I'm sure he would let him focus on that....ooo...what if his daughter was really LOUD? Like very outgoing and stuff....hehe...that would be funny...

[Zell]

Wow!!I really not sure about this one...As he says he will get marry after 30,so maybe he is not prepare to become a dad.But anyway,if he is a dad,I really hope that he is a good dad then.

[jAysTerZ]

Guess Who Will Be The Lucky Girl That Can Marry Jay .. And Be Wif Jay For The Rest Of Her Life...
Then All The Friend Of Jay Wife Will Take The Chance To Get To Noe Abt Jay ...

[une_topaze]

it is no secret that he wants to marry when he hit thirty. i myself not sure if i will still like him when i'm that age. the other day, i was thinking, will it not be weird that mom (dats us ladies) likes daddy zhou and daughter/son (our daughter/son) idolises little zhou when he/she follow their father footsteps? then the home wil be filled with the zhous songs 24-7. :D i hope my future husband is a jL fan too..

i can't help smiling though everytime i imagine jL giving love advice 2 his children about courting woman. imagine him saying "speak clearly". :laughing:

[roberta]

i totally agree to having a husband who also likes jay. and ofcourse! jay will be a good father! i dont find anything wrong with him being a dad!

[GaryDAI]

jay will make a good daddy :P

hope his wife isn't crazy though haha

[b1tt3r-svv33t]

hm.. i cant really imagine jay having kids. haha ^__^ n of course.. a husband who likes jay..=]

[wackycashew]

jay will probably be a good dad seeing how he gets along well with children and appreciate their talents and the special ways they can contribute. i think he would follow his own advice of supporting his children's dreams though he may not agree with them totally. he'll probably be very loving and considerate, sensitive to their needs. probably teach them music and nourish the potential in them. (they'll all probably be musical in some way. =P) and he probably won't pressure his kids into anything and offer wise advice to keep them open-minded about different perspectives. =D

[Mashi Maro]

Most likely, he seems to really like kids and most people will try to spend as much time with kids especially if it was Jay. I'm sure he'd be willing to put his career on hold for the sake of his kids, to be there when they first walk, talk etc.

[SW33T_S3NSAT10N_D3S1R3]

I'm pretty sure Jay will be a good daddy, wonder who his wife will be?? He's great wid kids, his goal was to get kids to like go in the rapping biz or something, I forget!! Ah I can't help but imagine what his life will be like wid kids crying n sreaming n all that stuff!!! I'm positive that his kidz will love his death n suppoort him all the way!!!!!!!! They'll probably grow up n go in the music biz too just like Jay, n then we'll have someone to remember him by just incase he quits....

[shai^cello]

the only thing that comes in my mind .... Jay teaching his children how to work with a nunchaku and end up nursing his kid's head....ya~ha

[Odium: De_Vangelis]

I think he will. Last time I read to one article where Jay said that he wants to have 3 children, One would be taught on how to play Cello, one would be taught on how to play Violin, and one more would be taught on how to play Flute. But jay insists that all of them have to learn Piano. For him, it is a must. Then he hopes that his children could make a musical band. So, I think he will become a good father for them all and I notice that Jay has a high hope that his children would be musicians, which is cool. :happy:

[pinkypat_6]

Yes, jay gets along good with kids, but i think it's that he's childish too, i mean mabey he thinks to those kids as a big bro and lil bro or sis, for now.
We'll have to wait in the future till his more matured,more than now cuz can't imagine him as a dad from his looks now.
He'll be a totally great dady cus his a perfectism, perfect in every way. he's gonna care for his kids more than the people around him which he really cares for people around him. Mabey he won't get along with his kids well cus he'll be really strict, why not compare it to you and those who have strict dads, do you get along well?
Oh well the future is the future, no body knows..

[blue_blury]

I think he will.. of cause.. be a good daddy. I don't think he will be very strict.. as i see.. he is not bad tempered . But, he will of cause put in a lots of effort on his children. As he said he wants his children to know at least 1 musical instrument.
But,may be he will not be a tradisional Asia kind of father since he is going ot keep long hair n tie it into a pony tail..( as i read in a magazine ).Besides that, he don't stress too much on his children's studies if compare to music. He wish his children can be all right in education but have to be great in music... See,most daddy won't wish that (i guess).

[jielunjay]

erm.....i think he would be a great father.....but instead of thinkin whether he would be a great father....y not think of hu would be his wife-to-be??? :excited:

[moonsilk]

Yo une_topaze,i think jay will be a very good and strict father...i think he will have high expections of his children bt his kids will b under lots of stress.
I think he wans his family to b "Xing Fu" and nt a broken family like his. He will oso give the best to his family.I think he is considerate and gentle...

He can b a POTENTIAL father....

[gr8t_gal]

I don't see why Jay would be a bad father to his kids... o.0
Any guys would/should be a good father. Even strict fathers. Though i do think Jay would become like a strict father- but also a decent father who would show support to his kids as well.
Ahhh but that's my opinion. ^_^

[NikeSwooshIn]

um... i heard somewhere that jay wants enough kids to start his own basketball team..?

[moonsilk]

Really?!?!?!Woah...jay is very ambitious then...

[yukiko]

im so sure he'll be a good dad for his kids. y?? coz he has feell bad from his parents. so maybe he thought he dun wanna do da same things to his kids in future.

[archimedes]

being a good dad is important to a family since dad is a central point...i guess he would try to be a good dad..strict, of course but maybe that just a mask so his children would have some respect. it could be funny to see him when he was strict in teaching his child...remembering him when he was child...

[topghurl]

no question about that...

he'd be the hottest, coolest, most responsible dada

and he'd be the perfect hubby also *4 me*

[`wishes_]

Hmm...i can't imagine Jay being a father..but i guess he wld be a great father since he came from a broken family...i wld think he understands that his child would need love and care...

[denise88]

i do believe that he'll be a great father. i mean why make children if you're not gonna intend on taking care of it? and, as i have seen jay with children, i think he'll be one shuai
and responsible father. :laughing:

[twinklez]

He will... Guys who are shy are the gentle type one rite? i believe jay will be a cute and caring husband :laughing:

[archimedes]

but he will be too busy for his family right?! Or he will take his wife and child to his tour? hope his wife is a nicest one!! hope jay will be a good daddy!

[i1215]

yes it seems like jay will be a good dad to his kids..but it seems like all jay cares about is if they can play music..he said not doing academically well is ok...i think he said that cuz he's not academically good..i am not trying to offend jay tho..just saying..i think if he is like both talented and smart..then he would care for both..but since he's more to the talented side that's why he want his kids to be like him...but overall..i think he will be good to the kids...doing whatever he can to make them happy.

[msv]

of course Jay will be a good papa for his kids... and yeah i agree... he'll probably be strict and maybe a control freak in the family but Jay is Jay. hahah... I'd love to see how Jay would look like when he's snapping at his kids!!!!! :]

[JAY_LUVER]

Of course Jay will be a good father to his kids. He will teach his kids everything they need to know...from singing to acting. I can imagine Jay playin basketball with his kids. :happy: He will also teach his kids to play the piano and they will become just like Jay! :love: But he would be very busy... :oops:

[groovalicious]

OF COURSE!
i can picture him, see him as a daddy type. by that time he getz married n settlez down, he'll prolly look MATURER, like an adult. i bet he would look SEXY in an old, mature way too. maybe grow some beard...hmmm...n hez facial features would change, his eyes too...
bcoz jayz has his boyish/playful side, i think he'd be an AWESOME daddy to his kids. agreeing wit angel_numberone, i bet he'll be strict to his kids too...u know, wanting whatz best for them n all...
SIGH~how i wish i could AT LEAST know him in person, if not his grlfriend. HAHAHA...such a sweet daydream
wonder how his kids would feel if they're old enough to learn that their daddy is a superstar, a hot music icon that is loved by fans all over Asia? Even so, a NAME that is KNOWN all over ASIA? hmmm...wonder how his mom feels...i bet his mom is proud of him...
and jAysTerZ, got a good insight of that!! SIGH...that grl, is just hell one LUCKY one...

[sera]

I think Jay will definitely try to be a good dad. But as he is quite the perfectionist, his expectations on his child/children may be quite high. Hopefully in this sense, his offspring/s will inherit his talented genes!

[joeacid]

hmm.... Jay's a good daddy i think. He's so caring and he loves kid so much^^ Although he might be a little strict to them, it'll be for their own good keke.
hmm... thinking of Jay's childrens... i can imagine how handsome/beautiful and cute they would be!! i know they will be fortunate with a daddy like Jay^^
And of course they would be as talented as JAy!! Jay has soo.. good genes carried over to them, keke.
(Dreaming of being born many years later and becomes Jay's child.... WOW lol....wang xiang lol)

[S]

i think jay will be a good dad for his kids. but, i don't think he will be a good husband for his wife, he so busy...

[Dong Feng Puo]

going with what S said... i think jay will have trouble committing to his family because he's so busy. but if he isn't busy, i'm sure he'll make a great dad. he seems pretty patient. i can just picture him teaching his kids piano and children's songs!

but then again, i donno if he likes kids at all.

[christinetang]

i think jay will be a fantastic dad to his kids in the future but i know for sure that he won't settle down sooo soon as he is busy building up his career now (sorry kinda off topic here)

jay would be a role model for his children i think and think how spoilt his children will be? :bleh:

[tearstained7987]

i think in the future he would be but im not sure that he would even get married! dont slam me for this but music is jay's #1 properity. i think that his kids would have to be his #1. i dunno if he could change his priorities. hahaha who noes....:p

-amie

[czavender]

if he is not that busy yeah! i think he will be a good father to his kids and im sure they eill also be a great musician.. :)

[feixuan]

oh...OMG..i am sure he ll be a good dad........but i dont know he ll married or not :dry: ......but this topic is upon the choice --his wife--if his family be happy..i think that could make jay happy and the rest ll be good too....by person jay is a good man(i think) :cloud9: ..and can be a good dad too :brows:

[gurl_in_4jay]

i think hell be a quite good one....lovin one ..protective......and da main thing hell teach his children will be piano........dress his children up in hip hop.....hehe and make dem look diao......but i dun think hell really care bout their education though cuz he wasnt clever in skool anyway so...he'll prob think do good in music n become a singer lyk him....and rites song etc..

[Melvin]

Yes I think Jay would make a great dad. He can teach his child music, teach him rap and all that. He's responsible and I'm sure he would take good care of his kids.

However, Jay might be too busy writing music and releasing albums that he might not have time for his kid. And that might not be too good. Which is why he is now concentrating on his music first, and then only planning to start a family after 30. Good family planning, I say. :)

[oneluv4jay]

As people had mentioned before... I believe Jay will be a good dad IF he doesn't spend so much time in the entertainment circle... I mean, i know it's a set back on his career... but I hope Jay will be a good dad.... I believe he will be since he had mentioned that if he wasn't famous... he would teach little kids piano, because he likes music AND little kids... so hahhaa...

ps... can u guys imagine someone calling Jay 'daddy'?
:D

[Vicluva]

yeah! look at how well he treats his mother and grandma and u've got a pretty good idea of how he'll treat his offspring (did i just use that word? urgh! i'm getting so old!). i hope they'll learn an instrument, wait i'll b their mother so they WILL learn an instrument! he he he... but i heard somewhere that his mum held a stick when he was practising piano! (to hit him?) i would never do that to my kids! anyway, he will b a good dad!

[sakikora]

jay will be a prefect dad for my kids.....he'll be a prefect dad for any lucky kid....since he knows the pain of divorce from his childhood....he will not divorce the mother(me) ...so i guess it is happily ever after for the family....

[ekyec]

yea..of course he will be a good dad.......if he can find enough time....
jay seems to hav a nice perosnality....and hispassionate when he sings and everything and does everything to the best that he can...so i guess he'll be really caring to his kids once he has em...
i think if he wants kids..he'll have them when his around 40 or more.....coz he wont really have much time to look after them until then......and i think now his career is more important....
but it would be soo cute to see little jaylings and jay teaching them piano...or seeing jay holding baby and feeding them milk and change diapers..haha...that would be a funny site...

[lilaznboy121088]

i don't really see jay as a father yet. he seems be really young right now and not really a father figure.if he did have kids, i would think he would be a good father, but he wouldn't have much time with his kids. he would have to sing and do movies and don't really have time for his kids.

[tvbaddict]

i think if jay has a few kids, it'll drive him nuts! lol he'll be composing his songs and his wife will scream "JAY! JAY JR. NEEDS A DIAPER CHANGE!" haha..that'll kill him! lol but i think he'll be a wonderful father though, he'll play with his kids, help them with homework etc. awww<3 hehe

[-zhoujielunrocks]

wow, interesting topic.

however, i cannot imagine jielun as a daddy yet! haha.

BUT if i was to really think hard, i think he would be a good dad.
i think he will love his child alot and rlly put his heart to take care of him, commit into it.
i was thinking of this because jielun is a single-parent child and i think he knws what it is like when parents divorce and make a big fuss out of everything, so i think jielun would really treasure his child alot. (: haha i think he will rlly be a great daddy!

[JaYzAnGel4eva]

of course he will, he grow up in a good family. er like, good teaching ways er.. positive look on life! he shows his talent out and is special. ok..its hard to say i tink. i tink he would be a great dad! :angel: :tongue: :happy:
i wonder if that would b soon...LOL :oops: hope not, yet, hes kew being child-less. cooler that way lol :tongue:

[esther]

I think Jay will be a wonderful dad. Just look at how he treats his parents, grandma etc and you can see that he treasures family ties a great deal. Although he might be abit too busy for them, i am sure by the age that he is a dad, he might give up some of what he is doing now to spend more time with the kids. Hmm.. :?

[Beryl-Luv-Jay]

Jay is such a responsible guy 4 me...so i'm sure he'll be a good dad to his kids...and be a role model to his kids...and of course he'll give nething tht he could to his kids !

[chemisiq]

Um...think Jay will be a good father....because he had an experience of how dad shouldn't be from his childhood...We can see the reflect of his feeling in 'ba, wo hui lai le'.....

:happy:

[PaoAiJieLun]

hmmm... yes, i think so! cos he didn't have any siblings... and, because of that, i suppose that he'd be good with kids cos he'd play with them.... he's also very childish so he'll be a cool dad... hehe.. and, on top of that, i also see him as a disciplinarian... because he's a perfectionist in his music, so i think he'd be strict with his kids too.
and also, he's responsible... somehow. hehehe...
i think he'd be a good dad. ^^

[DragonPrince]

I think he will be a good dad. He said he likes kids (I don't think he like naughty ones). But he is not prepare for it, he will not make a good dad.

[liliceprincess]

I think jay would be a really great dad.. from how i know him and all the things he does..and how he is i believe that he will be a great dad..and all he would be is a really responsible and caring father..and would have kids that look up to him for his music and everything else

[pengypeace]

I want him to have 1 boy kid..So he could take on Jays music if he every plans to quit *hopes he doesnt*..I think he would because I think he is kind and wouldnt let anything badd happen to him kids :D...He would teach them how to sing!!!!

[aznjayhunter]

Jay has said that he loved children. He also said that the only reason why he would marry a woman is to have children. This was on an interview on a hong kong station. Lol. And the deejay was like "no, don’t say that. Whoever ur gonna marry is gonna be so hurt." And jay was like "oh right. That’s not good." Haha. And hes done cms for youths or watever…..so I can imagine him as a good father. Besides the fact that he wont be home all the time. =(

[chiyaki]

Jay must be a good dad.'m sure!
What he 've shown ,his characters , his songs tell me that! And I really want to be jay's kids 's mother^^

[mei yen]

:? so hards to say...but.. may b could b a good father n husband too... ha ha ha:D

[jay_88]

sure...he was born in a broken family....so i think he will be a good dad to his kids...and have the responsiblity to take care of his kids...not like jay's dad...hope he really can be a good dad..if it is...i rather reborn to be his kids...haha..

[fRost`gEr]

oh definitely!

look at his personality. im sure he'll be a good daddy. i can even imagine it now! oh gosh. hehe.

[hk-kc-jc]

yeh.. course he'll be a good dad.. in fact he'll be a GREAT dad... teaching his kids how to play the piano and how to sing his songs... well cool!!

[li shan]

i think jay would be a good father, considering all that he's been through, i'm sure he would strive to be one. he wouldn't want his future kids to go through what he's gone through. i think this is why he doesn't want to start a family just yet, because he wants to be really there for his kids. there are a lot of big things going for him right now and he's just busy busy busy.

[cinnimon~]

Yeah I think he would be a good father to his kids and his wife :wink2: And since he came from a single family background, maybe he'll be an even more better? :D

yeah i agree. he will try to make up for his lost childhood and erm,be a good father to his kids. like shower them with love eg. i think he will want them to grow up to be musicians as well. so they will start at a young age.

[Ginuwine]

Yeah i believe he would be a great father, he would teach his children how to play basketball and instruments! He could have a basketball team of mini-jays or a orchestra of mini-jays :D

[jw_16_06_88]

Yeah sure he would be a great daddy, :-)
maybe he would teach his children in music hoping that one day his child can be a good singer :sing:and a good musician just like him and also a great basketball player.:thumbsup:

From his experience in life, Im quite sure that he would be a great father and dont want to repeat the same mistakes like divorcement which can influence child's mentality:cry:

[kimamura]

of course... Jay know how to teach his children in the future...because I know Jay past life style is very dark... His father get broke with his mom....

and of course he know what is the felling..

I promise Jay will be a good father for his children andd of course for his wife

[rosie]

well if jay eventually finds his ideal gf and gets married and hav kids and gets his wish(one girl and one boy) then i reckon he will be a good dad.
i dont think that is being too strict to his kids angel_numberone. his kids would probably turn out like him too!!

[yenny1106]

I believe he will! And I think he would be a very fun dad! Teaching his kids magic tricks, teaching them music, basketball! ooo.. haha

[xx0lovalauraxx]

of course jay would be a good father, i mean, he looks so nice. he would probably teach his kids how to play piano each day. LOL>

[pinkcloudx3]

yea probably, since he's the type of person who really cares about his family members all the times....

[Pao-Pao]

I'm so sure he will be an amazing dad...he's already an amazing son so....The woman who marry him would be so so lucky...he's jus that awsome...I think he'll have like 2 kids...one girl and one boy...and it's not that he's not ready to do this now...he wants to gey marry at 30 because he has to obtein all the things he wants professionaly speaking frist....these days his career is first and I can understand that...he's young anyway!!

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