other side of jay

[cystaltears]

wellz...u guys might be shocked when u hear this..but my friend's freind's freind's etc. is friends with jay...she said that when ever jay is singing and if someone joins in jay would stop singing and glare @ that person until the person stops singing..(stare them down) and once he was on the phone with his mom..he started swearing @ his mom and those stuff...
i dunnoz if it is true..but even it is i am not shocked..because jay is normal like everyone..he has a bad side too...i sometimes bitch @ mom..and i give additude...so i am not disappointed in jay at all...what do you guys all think??

[en_en]

um...wow i dont know what to say. i mean, its not like im going to declare my hate for jay after hearing this cause like you said i guess people have those days but if its true...wow im kinda surprised. im not going to not like him, but staring people down when someone sings along with him? that sounds pretty extreme. oh well, jay is a person afterall.

[Jess]

but my friend's freind's freind's etc. is friends with jay...

Wow. Friend's friend's friend's aunt's nephew twice removed?

[faustine_yap]

wow.... it is really extreme... really... :shock: but, there is a bad side of anyone... so it is ok... i suppose...:shock:

[xian186]

Well, thats really diao of him to do that....

[fireman2a]

My friend's sister is friends with Jay's sister. . .

My bastard friend even got a call from Jay wishing him a happy birthday for his 21st

Some people get all the luck :oops:

[muzikanjel]

My friend's sister is friends with Jay's sister. . .

My bastard friend even got a call from Jay wishing him a happy birthday for his 21st

Some people get all the luck :oops:

ummm...jay doesnt have a sister.... :?

[nunchakus]

My friend's sister is friends with Jay's sister. . .

My bastard friend even got a call from Jay wishing him a happy birthday for his 21st

Some people get all the luck :oops:

ummm...jay doesnt have a sister.... :?

Yeah, exactly...Jay doesn't have a sister...or a brother, for that matter. Was your friend drunk on his 21st birthday? :yeah:

As for the initial discussion...I mean, we can't be sure about it even, because the "friend's friend's friend's" link is too weak. I honestly think that Jay is not such a person...Admittedly, I don't know the personal side of the guy...but I really can't imagine him being like that. I think he loves his mother too much to yell at her and he is probably too shy to stare someone down. Besides, people who join Jay in singing are probably his close friends...why would he stare them down?...

So my conclusion: I don't think this is true. (personal opinion, that is) :wink2:

[june]

well, i think that jay isnt that kind of person which will swear at his mom.
he's the only child and he doesnt live with his dad.
i would think that jay love his mom alot and he wouldnt hurt his mom.

if jay is really this kind of person as what you had stated there.
i think it's normal, everyone is not perfect as well as jay.

but i still dont believe he will swear at his mom!!!
to me, scolding or swearing at your parents is a big big mistake.

[choo min]

sorry, but i don't really believe that your friend's friend's... is friends with jay. i think some people like to spread 'rumours' to attract attention, and who wouldnt claim to be jay's friend? and maybe the message got distorted from friend to friend... sorry, i'm not condemning you or your friend, but i believe in jay's character, that he is a good mummy's boy and would not stare down anyone.

[reissee]

well, the source dun seem really realiable :dry: .. and when the info is passed thru so many mouths, im quite sure the fact will be exaggerated and twisted right?? i mean, we do talk a bit loud to parents sometimes .. who doesn't?? he may just talked a bit loud and people start spreading rumours that he swears at his mum.

[GuArDiAn AnGeL]

wow....didn't think jay was that kind of person...but things do appear different in real life behind the screen...he is normal..lots of my guy friend and cousins....like...has a bad attitude sometimes...thats just pple..i do that sometimes too.....i guess jay is no diffrent

[azndreamer88]

i dont think is too believable cause theres no real, umm article or anything approved to let ppl know this is true....the friend's friend's friend's thing isnt too trustable to believe at all, so im just not going to believe Jay is this type of person.... what i will believe is that Jay is human and has his down days but staring someone down when they join in singing with Jay?? wouldnt u think Jay would be happy that someone wants to sing along with Jay?? and Jay using swear words at his mother??? thats just odd...cause Jay said he loves his mom, dad, grandma the most, also since jay is such a filial son...i dun believe Jay would have this type of attitude.......but i do believe Jay has argued with his mom or dad just like any normal person would.....

[GaryDAI]

sry but I find it hard to believe this. considering the source is so.....out there

I'm sure Jay is no angel. No one is.

[09]

yea... he doesn't seem that type of guy... and the source isn't too reliable... sounds like a rumour "frd's frd's frd's...."

[[mUsHrOoM]]

we oso dunno whether this information is true or really fake.. we got no prove either, but we oso got no prove to sae that jay is not this kind of person.. and furthermore, this info is passed down by dunno how many friends.. friends.. friends.. aaa.. wadeva izzit.. im suppose most of us noes wad is "tian you jia chu" - add oil, add vinegar(my way of saying it in english. heeex) and.. yeah, hu noes? in e 1st place, dat person haf already started to hate or dislike jay.. to spoil his reputat|on.. and plus, u said ur fren fren fren is frenz wif jay rite? wad for he or she trying to spoil his reputation.. i dun think any1 would do dis to his or her frenz, am i rite? juz think about dis lor.. and i dun really see jay stops singing when sum1 joins him.. or even he would glare at him..

[wenhope]

i totally agree wit mushroom, we really have no clue whether ur friend's friends'...etc, is totally true.
we shouldn't really believe in anything...and jay glaring at sumone or yelling at his mom...i dunno if he would do that. but we all get in bad moods sumtimes...no reason to judge rite?

[xiaotianshi]

hmz.. if he reli stared a person down like that cuz that person sings when he is singing.. don't you think that it will be reported? i mean.. if it's dis kinda thing and this kinda response from artistes, most probably there will be bad reports about it wad. moreover.. jay is so famous. if he reli did that.. and swear at his mum or wadeva.. i think it will be reported. so.. the fren's fren's fren's thing the link is too weak and you can't be sure that it's true rite? maybe he did something like that but not so extreme? den as it pass down pple just add stuff to it? yeah... just my two cents worth of thoughts =)

[cystaltears]

wellz...at first when i told sugarcookie i was going to post this she said NO u'll ruin his reputation....u should of seen her...she was crying when my friend told her that..lol...but neways...i don't believe itz true either..but even if it is..i'll still love jay..wellz..think about it..jay has been living for 24 years..do you guys think that for these 24 years jay has NEVER swore to his mom before? lol..jus my opinons~ ^___^

[ankh]

i don't believe that jay would swear to his mum, he loves her too much to do that! he doesn't seem like one who swears anyway.

abt the glaring @ someone who sings along, i personally don't think so unless he's doing it to his friends like some kind of a joke. so won't he have to glare at fans all the time during concerts?

[azndreamer88]

hmm my sis is a year younger than Jay and she never swore at her/my mom before....it realy depends on the person itself.....now how many years a person has been living....maybe Jay has argued with his mom before but i dont believe he would actually use "swear" words at her......but i dunno..in my opinion....i think this is a pretty unbelievable rumor....

[Zell]

Really?Haha cool!!Well Jay's is a normal human too and sometimes will get bad mood,so I think it's acceptable for me if above rea,but I hope it's not ^_^

[xJayChoux]

I don't believe it. I think it's just another rumor makes up from a person. Besides Jay is not such a person, although I don't know him personally...he loves his mom too much to do that.

[Ice]

Are you sure? :dry:
It's doesn't really bothers me as what I like are his songs.
ANd these things cannot be always true as it is passed down from one to another and another.
But if it's true, I think he should change as what he wants to do is to set a good example for "we" to learn or follow, Isn't it? :wacko: :wink2:

[LiLxAmMiE]

i don't think this is true! *plugs ears and stars singing merry had a little lamb* NOT TRUE, NOT TRUE! jay chou wouldn't GLARE! he's even too shy to even stare at the person, how would he GLARE? *keeps on singing*

[**=Crayon Shin-Chan=**]

oh my. This sounds like a serious and shocking accusation to make! we dont even know whether it's true ya? i mean, if some drunk guy can mistake Jay calling him to wish him happy bday, then we cant really trust just ANYONE right? maybe when tt particular "someone" who cuts into the singing of Jay and thinks tt Jay glared at him, it might just be a mistaken perception! i mean Jay's eyes r pretty small and u cant really tell whether he's really glaring or not. his small eyes plus his as-usual cool look, someone might just mistake his respectful glance as a glare! who knows? :laughing:

and the part bt him scolding his mum...a lil bit unlikely cos we all know how much he loves his mum and he even dedicated his new album to his mum! besides, he doesnt seem to be a violent person cos it shows in his songs. we can tell tt Eminem's not exactly gentle by listening to the amount of anger in his songs ya? :wink2:

but we can only be sure of the fact tt we like the Jay which his company packages him to be. as for whether he's really tt shy and filial in real life, we'll nv know! he might have many deep dark secrets! he might even be married to Jolin already -secretly tt is. haha. :bleh: who knows?? sometimes it's best not to know so much...love his songs and his image. period. some things are best left unknown...it would break my heart if i find out tt i've been believing in a lie. :oops:

[jaychous_girl_4ever]

Wow...that really IS shocking news...but I don't believe it...he seems soo sweet and I KNOW that celebrities always have their "bad" side and are different from their public appearence BUT STILL....well for the first thing, I don't believe he would do that...he's individualistic and a GOOD kind of arrogant in his music...but he's not like SELF-CENTERED....he wouldn't do that to someone... :oops:

For the second thing...I seriously don't think he would swear and yell at his Mom...with the exception that they were in a BIG FIGHT...but on the phone? In public? I don't think so....plus he really cares about his Mom...YAH and like crayon shin said...he dedicated the album name to her... :yeah:

True, crayon shin...its better to not know some of the things about Jay..even if he DID do "bad" or rude things...he's a human being too...he should have the right to act like everybody else...we just find it shocking because we - believe it or not - worship him to the highest degree cuz we're his FANS!!! Its not bad to do that...but its just that...sometimes we take away some of his "rights" by automatically believing he's the most perfect person in the world....but whether or not he did do those things...we'll still love him!!!! :excited:

[viruskangta]

:dry: ..5 words....I REFUSE TO BELIEVE THAT!!!!!
..lolz neways...Jay seems too nice to be doing those kinda things..
and if he did do any of that,..im not saying thats good but i guess its just human,...cuz everyone has their bad days..
..but still, i dont believe.. :) :)


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[skybebe]

There is a difference between swearing at your parents and raising your voice at your parents. I believe Jay may have done the latter but not the former. I have never sworn at my parents though when I'm back in my room, I have ever muttered some choice words.

Knowing he needs the 100% concentration when he's working, he may get abit irritated when his mum/ friends/ colleagues "disturb" him and may have spoken abit loudly to them to leave him alone to focus on his work.

As for staring down at someone when that person sings along, well, if he was recording his songs or trying to rehearse a tune and someone tries to sing along, don't talk about Jay, if I was a singer, I will be VERY irritated and maybe even ask the person to leave the studio. But like some have already said in the previous posts, if others were to sing to his songs, he'll surely be deliriously happy cos we've read before how others acceptance of his talents and songs are important to him.

Depending on the context of how certain things happen, it may not be as severe as we think it is and definitely understandable and something we can relate to. So, no worries yah........ :) :angel:

p.s. Jay is no angel (like all of us are not) and definitely not the devil that the first post may have suggested he was.... :angel: :)

[x_tina]

i agree with everyone else.. i don't believe he did any of that. ever heard of this little game called broken telephone? it's where you whisper something is someone's ear and then they whisper it to someone else. then when it gets to the final person, he/she has to say it out loud and by then whatever you said would have been completely distorted.

but if he did do those things, i honestly don't think i would classify that as "bad" with the exception of swearing at your mom. big no no.

[Seltsi]

Hmm...wow it's shocking, but all the same it is nice to know Jay is not all that different from everyone else, and also it just helps us to know and understand him more because now we now more about him

[cici bebe]

I don't think we should take this too seriously. After all the sources are a bit.. well.. shady. Besides, didn't Jay say he liked it when the crowds joined in when he sings? Or how much he respects his parents? Either the rumor is just a rumor or he's a complete hypocrite. I guess whatever you want to believe.

[Kate_Chou]

I think his friend's, friend's and etc. Is laying to make him mad. The way he sings and talk is like a shy way. I think he migth swear, but not bad swearing.

[getsu_04]

Even if this is true,it's not such a big deal...I'm sure even Mr.Jay Chou fights with his mom,that doesn't mean he's some horribly disrespectful son.The part about him glaring at people singing along with him...I can't really imagine him being so tight a**ed...but everyone has their faults,right?

[anant]

umm after i have been around jay's website now seem like bad side of jay is more open i mean ppl get to know him in the other side i dunno,i think maybe sum ain't true

[SW33T_S3NSAT10N_D3S1R3]

I wonder if that happen or not :hmm: , I don't really care though cause I agree I do fight wid my mom a lot over stupid things :profanit: , n then we don't really talk wid eachother 4 awhile. This news isn't that surprising to me, I mean u can't really expect someone to not have this angry/bad side to them, it's normal. :wink2:

[~strawberri~]

Some people fight with their mom alot... it doesn't mean that you hate ur mom or anything... I mean everybody has a bad side to them, just like everyone said. So it's not really a big deal. It's just kinda suprised me that stares people down when they sing along with him. But that's normal... we're all human aren't we?

[Mushimushi]

well.i still don't think that JAY really did that.......he doesn't seem to be that
sort of person..... :ohmy:

even if i only mean ...... if Jay really did that........maybe he was just too
frustrated over something or whatever it could be... :worry:

---Support Jay Wherever yoU aRe!!---

[vivien]

erm i really dun see wat's the big deal about? i used to stare at my friends who join in my singing when they are purposely spoiling the song, or making fun of me singing so much. also, it's kind of rude to just join in singing someone else song if you have a terrible voice. if the person happen to have a good voice, i would stop singing to listen to the person's voice. i'm not trying to defend his behaviour or anything, i just thing that he's not a saint, and every one have their faults, as sung in Yi Fu Zhi Ming, (wo men mei ge ren dou you zui) everyone of us has sinned.

as for swearing at his mom, i really dun see why he wouldn't do that, he is a normal person, and normal ppl make mistakes too. as long as his mom forgives him and he knows he's wrong, wat's the problem?

[Emjay]

sorrie, but i...dont really think that what your friend's friend's friend's news is really reliable..i mean, the news might get intepreted wronglyafter getting passed down..er..3 pple?

but if that is true..erm..well, he's a person too. we cant expect him to be perfect, yeah?

[topghurl]

Besides the fact that its not really reliable
your source wouldnt be jays true "friend" cz true friends dont gossip about you and tell people very personal stuff

but IF EVER its true.. its very acceptable..i act sooo bitchy sometimes but im still a good person
sometimes you would just crack up without thinking cz your furious

and besides...i would do the same thing if someone was butting in while im singing
that sucks

still got luv 4 him!

[cherily]

Yep the source is abit suspicious. :? i mean its like ur friend's friend's friend. Who knows maybe its just another rumour created bout him to ruin his reputation or something. Don't think he will really swear on the phone at his mom since he loves her so much as to name his latest album after her right? Arguing with his mom is likely cuz alot of us argue with our parents all the time at home too..nothing abnormal. He's just a normal person too like anyone of us so its no big deal if he quarrels with his mom like once in a long time.
:wink2:

[bla]

wow. this is shocking. but u know, eveyone has a bad side too. but i wouldnt picture jay swearing at his mom. thats just really disrespectful. but no one is perfect. everyone has to let their anger out.

[i1215]

omg....my heart is slashed...yes..hearing stuff like that would sorta make me have doubts about jay...not doubts about his music..but his personality..cuz that's what ppl like about him too..is his personality...omg!! so is faking his kindness? how can he do that to ppl? and swear at his mom? i thought jay like it when ppl sing along right? didn't he want ppl to do that in the concert? omg!!! swear at his mom? i remember reading something that when his mom read in the news about jay being arrogant..she immediately called jay and questioned him right? and asked him what is this? so it doesn't seem like jay would dare to swear at his mom..no way...but then again..u never know...cuz he can't be perfect...i am sure he was like a bad boy too..i mean he has so many girlfriends in high school...ahhh!! bad rep...i am sad now..

[KeitH]

J jus wont swear at his mom.. bcuz he loves his mom alot.. more than himself.... i don believe al these crap..... :angry:
humph.......

[msv]

Wow... I'm shocked and sadden by this news b/c I always thought Jay was the sweet and shy guy... maybe theres more to Jay than I thought.... but I totally agree though... theres always the dark side to everybody... but Jay will still be number one to me!

[Vicluva]

r u sure? jay doesn't seem like that kind of person, but well, i guess we're all human. i mean, i am seriously a dark angel myself (BAAAD TEMPER) but i just cant imagine jay being mean to his mum. maybe it was when his mum told the world that he doesn't like wearing undies! :blush: i know i'd be mad if my mum ever told anyone that! (dont get me wrong, i like wearing knickers) still, ur friend's friend's friend etc might have been misinformed...or she could've just been makingit up.

[sakikora]

is this information reliable????....cuz although jay his human like us...he wouldn't do such a thing...especially swear at his mum....his loves his mum more than anything for crying out loud.....he even named an album after her.....i am quite out raged that someone would say this :-x :offtopic: :realmad: :profanit:

[Tidus]

Well, thats really diao of him to do that....

uhmm... LOL? diao to do that? hahaa!! i don't know why am i laughing at your sentence when i see it... haha!! diao... lol.. sorry...

Well... its not diao to swear at parents or glare at people when they join in to sing... cuz alot of people already did that.
But sometimes when i'm trying to sing the song myself, and my friends joins in to disturb me and the song by singing nonsense.... and thats really irritating..

[pyre]

he is a filial son u know...staring someone down? maybe...swearing at his mum, never. but hey, his human and it be a big dissapointment if he swore at his mum...

[audrey]

hey..umm..i dont think that he will swear at him mum ler...cause..it is obvious that he loves his mum very very much to swear at her....he name an album n sung a song to her...do you think that this kind of son will swear at his mum???dun think so... :worry: anyway..it is kinda interesting... :-)

[creAtive]

i guess he is juz angry or in a very very bad mood
or maybe his mom have provoke his anger. who noes everyone has a reason to get angry. could it be his bad side ???? :?

[kasic_fantasy]

huh your friend is a friend of jay? :glug: ...ok i hear that kinda stuff alot times already.... :D ....come on everyone has a dark side....yea its rude when someone cuts into someone else whose singing....but for the mom thing...come on he did confess that he was once very rude and rebellious towards his family....
as long as his not doing anything that spoils his healthy image and his music...i see nothing wrong in him....everyone has a dark side...its something we all have....no one is perfect....

[zhangpei]

haha, it sounds alittle to extreme for the gentle jay. But oh well, we might never know what we never know! but even so, what we like is his music, we can't say much about his personality or character since we don't know him in person ya!i feel that you've got to see it to believe it! hee.

[Eternalz]

I don't want to come into the argument automatically shoving the fact in your face that whatever you heard is "BS", but I trust Jay's character integrity, and with him being such a good son, I doubt he would be so disrespecting to his mother.

[nycgirls]

Well, you can't be perfect at all times, can't you? I dun care... it's normal, he has to live, darn... give him a rest... whatever your friend's friend's... billion related friend's wih him said, they must be bored to death... gosh, at least picking up trash and thinking about environmental issues is doing something... what are they? parasites on jay's news??? Jeesh...

I am not trying to offend you, but your friend's friend's whatever is kinda offending me... heh heh.