Would you choose Jay as your husband?

[xian186]

Hey,jus wanna ask, if you had the chance, would you choose Jay as your husband? :angel:

Do you think you can make a good wife for him? :wacko:

Giving up all the freedom of privacy, even going out on the street
would make you headline on the news paper jus for him? :wink2:

Do you think you can handle the street of having suh a "famous and popular" husband? :rock:

[-dream-]

personally, i dislike having to be with someone who is constantly away, with no privacy, and the fame tying us down. It's a big sacrifice, and i can't answer it really, because i don't know him in real life, and i don't love him in a romantic way, or in an intimate bond so close i'd actually marry him to begin with. I prefer a peaceful, and quiet life, perhaps if he was teaching piano or something, but with him a singer and celebrity..i don't know, i'd have to seriously consider it, it all depends on how intimate we are and how much i love him, to determine the worth of it.

[LiTobLuEsTaR724]

um hummmmm~ no i can't just CHOOSE i gotta get to know the guy...so it all depends on how compaitible we are! Cuz if you just choose the guy, then you might have made a mistake...love hate relationship you know?

[xiAoJie]

no, i wouldn't pick him as my husband becoz he doesn't seem like my type. i dunno why, but he seems like someone who gets can get really anti social and will want personal time to himself all the time. maybe i'm wrong but yeh, jay's not really the person i'm looking for my husband.

and anywho, i'm proly not jay's perfect girl anyway, i'm not quiet enuff i dont think...and i'd proly stand up for myself if he decided to tease me

[sUm^MeR]

Well, it's really hard for me to decide since I don't know the real Jay in person. But... I think I can't have him as my husband. There would be too much pressure for me.

Firstly, because of his fame...., I'm sure his wife would get so much attention from the medias and paparazis. There would be protests from the fans that kept saying that I'm not good enough for him, or I'm too ugly for him, and so on (reminds me of Jolin)

Secondly, I'm a very childlike person. I love to be spoiled and I want all the attention from my husband. With Jay who seemed so serious in music and his career, I doubt that he can always accompany me. Besides, he says he likes to get all the attention from his girlfriend,... so we basically the same person, we can't complete each other.

Thirdly, I like stable life. Like working from 8 to 5, with stable place of living, where I don't have to leave my job and my home to follow my husband for his world tour and stuff. Sure, it sound fun to travel at first, but when it becomes lifestyle.... then I would have to drop that. :dry:

About whether I can be a good wife for him, hahha, I think I can. I like to be at home and doing household stuffs, I don't mind submitting and being dictated by my husband as long as he loves me to death, and I also like and master a little bit of music, but the only thing he will hate about me is that I'm not that feminine type of girl that he looks for. I'm more happy-go-lucky and talkative person and I doubt he would find it attractive. :oops:

[Jam]

Hmm.. i will let fate decide. If i have to choose, why not? :laughing: Who doesn't want rich and talented husband? As his wife, all you need to do is to stay at home, polish his piano and antiques. Cook meals, take care of his mum and be a 'baby machine'? :roll: (joking)

But i'm too outdoor to be he's. And he is too popular to be mine. Just too bad. :rolleyes:

[JiE_LuN'z_BabE]

ummm.. prolly not.. all the publicity and stuffs.. i wouldnt think so.. i could prolly handle being his gf.. but not his wife.. coz im really impatient and emotional.. hahahahahaha :oops:

[An9el**]

why not !?
there's only one jay outthere ...
which is talented ,shy(is he ?..i mean now ),caring,cool =)
is totaly my type ....
i will choose J as my hubby IF i get the chance .....................

[GuArDiAn AnGeL]

hmmm.....hard question..i don't know if i would want to ...tho...yea...the privacy part is kinda..wut i don't want to loose....but jay seems like a nice guy...im not sure about his shyness....i don't like pple that are TOO shy...but maybe if we are in love or something..he'll open up...lol.....the only thing that would stop me for choosing jay as my husband is the lack of privacy i will have after marrying him TToTT.....i think thats it......and oh yes...AGE DIFFERENCE.....10 years -_-;;;; woah thats a lot...but i get along wid my older cousins around that age really well...so....i'll give it a shoot !

[babyxv]

i'd have to get to know him better, then see if the relationship is going anywhere and if he actually loves me. then i have to think about all the sacrifices i'd have to make... i won't say yes just because he's jay.

i don't think i'm his type though. i'm really crazy, not quiet like his ideal girl.

[OLive_aNN]

Hey,jus wanna ask, if you had the chance, would you choose Jay as your husband? :angel:

Do you think you can make a good wife for him? :wacko:

Giving up all the freedom of privacy, even going out on the street
would make you headline on the news paper jus for him? :wink2:

Do you think you can handle the street of having suh a "famous and popular" husband? :rock:

he? a good wife? maybe :happy: but i cannot cook hahahaha

GuArDiAn AnGeL.... :cry:
i knoe...10 years difference :oops:

but my jie jie (she is my aunty but i call her jie coz she is still young) is 11 years younger than her husband :happy:
she is 22 and her husband is 33 :happy:

but... i won't choose jay coz... i'm not that femimine (can't spell this)
and he is too busy...

[aina]

if we are talking about "real jay" as a musician, artist...i don't think i will choose him, like olive_ann has said, he's too busy and i think he's too shy for me..i'm not as shy as him...and his sentimental part :oops: i don't think i like that one...
but as time goes by, everything can change...who knows :laughing: :laughing: (hope too much)

[Emjay]

well, first of all, there's the age difference. look at my age! but i think that i would like jay as my husband, cos i believe that i am able to give him space for his music, tho yeah, there's all that nosy media people..jay has a really nice personality too, and i think that that will make me even more *gaga*over him. but marriage is a life-long kindof decision, but i think that he's responsible enough, so yeah, i think it's fine!

[annaitako]

Erm...
hard to say...
a lover i would be delighted to...
but a husband...
i guess..
i would rather not...
although everyone knows that he is responsible, loving and faithful..
but sumhow i felt jay is a bit "da nan ren" (the man of the house kind of guy)...
well, it could be a difficult to bear this kinda attitude..
other than that... he should be a very wonderful lover

[getsu_04]

Jay's personality (or what I know of it) appeals to me...but I'm not sure I could deal with all the publicity/traveling...I wouldn't sacrifice my career for him either...so things would be difficult.Oh yeah...there's also that lil issue of language (he don't speak no english and I speak no chinese),haha...but even so,if we could over come all that...I think he would be a very loving and caring husband.

[chriz7]

hmm.. i think he would be a really good husband.. :)
furthermore he's a basketball player.. and i'm crazy bout basketball.. mebbe sometimes i can go like "hey jay, lets have a one on one" haahaha jk.. :wink2:
i think if i really were to be his wife.. certainly i would have to bear even if it means giving up my freedom.. there's a price to pay... ya know.. :bleh:


像这样的生活 我爱你 你爱我 :love:

[w4t3r_lily]

i dunno..i want too..but..to be husband and wife u should be knowing each other and no secrets..cos marriage is one in a lifetime for me..i dunno jay in his real life..from outside he is such a great guy..can play basketball(which is my fave sport),can sing.(definitely) and love his family.such a great guy..

[xJayChoux]

If we've fallen in love together, than I probably would. Cos you can't change the love between 2 people...:love: I just have to accept that he won't be there with me everytime bcos he's busy with his work. And the fans, that's just a part of him and 'you know'...For the reporters that's also not a big deal, but they have to understand that some people may need some privacy...:dry: *Too bad they don't.*

But yah, this is how I think at the moment...

[ddooll]

If we've fallen in love together, than I probably would. Cos you can't change the love between 2 people...:love: I just have to accept that he won't be there with me everytime bcos he's busy with his work. And the fans, that's just a part of him and 'you know'...For the reporters that's also not a big deal, but they have to understand that some people may need some privacy...:dry: *Too bad they don't.*

But yah, this is how I think at the moment...

true... but if every1 in the entertainment circle need some privacy, what are u gonna see in the entertainment news section?... no offense but i think ppl who say their idol need some privacy are also the ones who complain about not seeing their idols in the news daily...

[ichigo fairy]

I'm a very childlike person. I love to be spoiled and I want all the attention from my husband. With Jay who seemed so serious in music and his career, I doubt that he can always accompany me. Besides, he says he likes to get all the attention from his girlfriend,... so we basically the same person, we can't complete each other.


ohhh, me too! i'm VERY child-like! i also love to be spoiled. hehehe^^;;; my co-workers say that i need a guy who is going to really spoil me & that i need a mature guy.

hmmm, back to the topic. ummm, i don't know if i would want jay zhou as my husband. i don't even know him personally, so i don't know his real personality. >_< IF i do get to know his real personality & i like him (and we get along), then i don't think i would mind being married to him. hehehe^^;;;

[weiwei]

well....i think that i would make a good wife. but i just don't like all the attention from reporters and all those other stuff. but i guess....i would be willing to choose him as a husband because, he is a good person, and plus........he's too sweet to refuse! and as for me, i'll be willing to give him all the attention he needs and plus, i'm not the kind of person who likes being spoiled. what more do you want....when you already have jay? but then again....it would just be a dream :sleeping: to hang on to, even though it won't actually happen. but.....who knows? :happy:

[de.men.ted*]

it'z hard to decide. i may admire his talents in music. but if i was to live with him for the rest of my life..it would b a tough decision. as we all noe..he is now a very famous singer worldwide. his schedules will be fully packed...being his wife would mean alot of tolerance and accomodation.

[gina]

:love: well of course i'd luv jay to be my husband hehehe, but yeah, i do agree with some of you guys, all the attention from the reporters will be really annoying but then again, i would never reject him cos he's such a nice guy hehehe!!! :oops:

[love_jay^^]

:happy: yeah ... if I could I would choose Jay to be my husband
cos I think he must be a good father of my babies and a good family man.

.......... I LOVE JAY CHOU :hugz: ...........

[GuArDiAn AnGeL]

the only thing that i think will stop me from liking him..is cuz of his age..and my age...the age difference...TTOTT 10 years............-_-;;; so yea....i think the personality part will be okay..and i can stand his popularity..and all that gossip.....so......i think i'll be okay ..^^

[yukiko]

i want. i won't think bout any others problem. jay is my husband, when i agree to marry him. it means im ready to be famous too. my love to jay can be a power to me to solve all that problems. such like be a headline..n get terrorr by phone...can't go anywhere with my husband. but i think i can. coz i really love jay. when i love some one...i won't think bout the bad effects. i can marry him is the happiest moment for me. god really make my praty come true. i often pray to him, lol. im so stupid. but here i am. my love can do anything for jay. :)

[E-Ping]

Well, i like Jay......i really admire his music talents...but honestly, i won't choose him as my husband. He's so popular and all the girls are going ga-ga and drool over him.I'm like the kind of person who will sometimes get jealous very easily...so i don't think i can't stand it when i see my husband (if at all Jay were my husband) being surrounded by the female fans....being touched...hugged and even..my...kissed by the fans. And most importantly..i don't think i can stand my own husband kissing other girl in his mv.Yea..i know he's just being professional...but oh well..i dunno!~ :oops: In the mean time...i'll still support him coz he's one of my idol in my top 10 list! :love:

[jess_jay]

he is so famous now,if he become my husband one day,i will feel unsecured,cos too many works for him,and rumours and news around him,as a girl,how u can bear with this kinda of news right?somemore he is a super star,just scare no private time with him....but i just say if this thing really happened~

or if he really loves me and of cos i loves him,and this will become the truth,i dun mind,ahahaa.....

this topic makes me think too much of things that can't make it real...but its better than think other bad right~~:p

[jaychous_girl_4ever]

I would definitely choose Jay as my husband. He basically meets all of my requirements for a guy...and I'm quite picky! :) I mean he's super talented in music, one thing that I can't live without in live. I mean, personally, talented guys are quite sexy! ^_^ He's also got such a great personality...kindness, healthy-ness, humor, excitement...blah blah blah. He looks HOT and I love it when he smiles - its soo uplifting! I think my heart warms just by looking at him! :excited: So yah, no matter what, I would definitely choose him as my husband.

However, I don't think he would choose me. HAHA...because you know how he likes girls who are quiet, mannered, and long hair-ed?? Well...I'm not really much like that. I'm conservative and all, but I'm also quite loud and obnoxious at times...some guys say I'm a violent girl with a tough attitude! :rifle: So I don't think Jay would like my personality tho...haha...

As with the rumors and stuff...I think I could take it. But he doesn't have very much time and privacy anymore as a star...so that WOULD be hard on a romantic relationship eh? :wink2:

[Phyxius]

Hell yeah...
that is if he choose me first... which is impossible.. haha :blush:
anyway if he announced he is getting married,
then i think a lot of fans will hate the lucky girl...
but he's gonna get married one day
and the fans jst have to get over it sooner or later.....

[bel-chan]

No. Number one, he's too old. Number two, I agree with the others that I will feel insecure because of all his female fans. Number three, I already have another crush. Though he migrated to Australia... :cry:

But I think the person Jay chooses as his wife (if he gets married) will and will not be lucky. She has Jay's love and devotion, but at the same time he has other priorities too. Like to his music, his mom, his fans, etc. It probably won't be easy for her...especially what with all the death threats she may get from fans...*looks around innocently*

[cowboy]

Well, I'm a guy so they'd have to legalize gay marriage first. Then I'd have to be gay, which I'm not, but I'd still marry him for his money. :)

[cloUdsuRFer]

Well, I'm a guy so they'd have to legalize gay marriage first. Then I'd have to be gay, which I'm not, but I'd still marry him for his money. :)

:glug: YOU GOLD DIGGER YOU!! :wink3: ...lol

hmm...if jay was who i imagined him to be, was madly in love with me.....hell yeah...why not?!?!?!?! :laughing:

[vunsin]

Well, I'm a guy so they'd have to legalize gay marriage first. Then I'd have to be gay, which I'm not, but I'd still marry him for his money. :)

You might be the "spouse" but I'll be the mistress. :wink2: And guess who normally gets all the loving? :wink2:

[Jerria]

Well, I'm a guy so they'd have to legalize gay marriage first. Then I'd have to be gay, which I'm not, but I'd still marry him for his money. :)

:glug: YOU GOLD DIGGER YOU!! :wink3: ...lol

hmm...if jay was who i imagined him to be, was madly in love with me.....hell yeah...why not?!?!?!?! :laughing:


uh yeah...and do u think Jay would be gay...? :shifty: ...hehehe
ha yes i agree wif cloudy...if Jay is madly in love wif me...of course y not...he's such a talented, cute guy..like that...ahhhh :)

[cinsin]

Well, I'm a guy so they'd have to legalize gay marriage first. Then I'd have to be gay, which I'm not, but I'd still marry him for his money. :)

Wouldn't it be great if Jay WAS gay?
I mean then I definitely wouldn't have a chance, which means less time thinking about whether I have a chance or not.
But it would still be great to marry him, if he loved me as much as I loved him that is.

[Merriana]

sure...
when he comes home i will :welcome: him at the door...
and i will serve him dinner when he wants to eat :hungry: ..
then he probably wants :censored:...:blush: haha...
wow i madly in love with him... :love:

[di`jay]

first of all..i must really know what type of a person he is..if we really can get along very very well..then i dont mind being a wife of his..but no need to really give up my freedom..cuz i mean people would focus on jay not on me..hahah yea.

[jayz_girl]

i would love to be Jays wife.. but i would be hurt that he was always away.. and i might get really sad while waiting for him :sadangel: but if im with Jay i guess i wouldnt mind much

[van91]

i gota no him well before anything. Marriage is a very important thing so we must consider carefully. :blush:
Besides,in real life, this wish wil never be granted.i m too young!! :D

[kahel]

I'd rather have a replica of him ~a guy with the talent with songwriting + the body and looks, okay and the financial stability as Cowboy pointed, hehe, but half as popular as him. It's crazy to have a husband who's popular.

I'd rather he be my boytoy and bear his lovechild. :laughing: All sizzle no fizzle. :laughing: Ooh, the excitement :blush:

[denise88]

firstly, i have to get to know jay first to see if we're really compatible. then, if i see that we are indeed compatible, i wouldn't really mind about the publicity, traveling and all that stuff coz being married means you have to give up some things, and if being with a star like jay means giving up my privacy, then it's ok as long as i'm happy with him.

secondly, i think i can be a good wife to him. i would be able to take care of him, cook for him, clean his clothes and stuff like that. :D

[archimedes]

i want to...but i think i have to know his personality more deeper such as how he treat his girlfriend, about his family, etc. Because love involve 2 person but marriage involve two family...

i don't mine being disturb by the media, since i will don't care about what they will see..i don't do bad things. i will mad if they write any bad thing that i don't do :-x i try to do household for him. :blush: i don't care about what famous that the effect of being his wife. i will go on my marriage with him and forget about the media (but also not underestimate them..) When Jay is busy with his recording maybe i will busy too with my work..with him going to a world tour or sth like that, if he want, i will but if my existence disturb him, i rather not...

but same as others, i 'm not that feminim, not quite too. a little stubborn, and miscarefull sometimes... :cry: :cry:

[mo]

of course!!! what a stupid question!! but i want to be his sister more than want to be his wife, because, he is too old, oh, well, i mean, for me, he is ten years order than me, that is not fair!!

[madison]

I dunno. First, i would have to get to know him better to see whether hes the kind of guy i like. I dont really know much about him personally so.......
ya. It would be a hard relationship to keep since there are soo many obsticals in da way.

[chichirui]

I actually don't mind being in the spotlight and all, but despite how much i like jay, it's only admiration. He's really cute... but he's waaaay out of my age range. -_-;; I'm not too good at keeping up with the shy silent type anyway... I find it hard to communicate. ^_^''

He'd make a pretty cool older brother though, don't you think? oO;;

[hanhney_bear]

I reckon the age difference won't matter much in later life. Since most of us are in a phase of development it won't seem like such a big age difference when we're in our 20s compared to J.

Personally, I'd rather have J as my husband rather than a brother. :laughing: This is mainly because I don't have a sisterly love for my own brother.

But, then, he'd be away from me, a lot of the time, to stabilize his career. :oops: Wouldn't you agree? Unless I could be famous as well. :laughing:

[GEeChou]

yeah dude in a heartbeat, but i think the real question is would he ever want me as a niang zi/wife? i think he's not that biga fan of white (looking) girls (<----see my pic) i mean lookat the only white girl ever to be in an mv was hai she you muo/black humour and we all know he didn't even touch her...owch.

[groovalicious]

YEAH OF COURSE~! :)
when it comez to love, TYPE is just so useless (as Tata on Samakom Chom Dao) itz FATE and timing that decides. Opposites CAN attract! :yeah:
i mean if i really loved jay n he lovez me, i would sacrifice my privacy for him. Dunno 'bout being a good wife, but will try my best. :oops: besides, why give a shit about other ppl b*tchn' bout you? It's J who you see, J who you sleep with...It's JAY who LOVES you. That is the ONLY thing i'll think about. :love:

[jay_fantasy8]

I don't think I will want Jay to be my husband... well if possible, I rather be his sister because if Jay's is my husband, I will feel weird about it, people will gossip about me and being his sister is great because he will care about me and treats me in a close manner...

[KaWaIINO_]

I think my answer must be "NO" I just love his talent and his kind of music

[knock]

Hmm, i rather like his character. Shy, quiet and all that.. cuz im like tt myself i guess, can be rather anti social.. but still, nah! i rather hafe him for a brother. Haha, im dreaming........... Anyway, baq to the topic.. It's really terrible handling the media.. tremendous pressure would be on us and who knows even destroy his future in his career.. so all in all, i still prefer to keep him as an idol and just love his music! [but still, a brother would be nice :(] ok, shutup knock! :|

[ange]

Hm..... dats a tough question.... can i have a trial for a dae first!! lolz... wellllll my irrational part would DEFINITELY sae yes :love: :love: :love: :love: :love: he is juz my type man... cool... caring.. nice... woaz... juz nice!!!but the rational me.. heeeheee... welll... i think i need to get to knoe him... and like wad others saed.... my god... the publicity.. i dun think i can stand those.... i mean to have ppl following u around..spreading rumors and stuff... man.. juz cant man... :dry: so yeah....... i wonder how all the famous ppl can do it... :wacko:

[KaWaIINO_]

I think to be his servant is better! Cos I don't think we could get along well.

[destined]

no i wouldn't choose jay as my husband, cos i don't know him in real life...
plus i don't know hpw to speak mand
if u were jay's wife he will spend less time with u cos hes gonna be busy, and there will be loads of critics and girls will be jealous.
and u will be famous cos ur jay's wife...

[jmin13]

I will choose Jay as my husband definitely..He is a great guy..esp tat he is

fillial to the eldery..so respectful..an ideal son-in-law..He plays basketball

n i can play with him during his free time n listen to all his songs...

somemore will be the first one to listen to.. :wink2: Maybe he will compose

a song especially about mi n him..it is like a dream.. :angel: Although he

is quiet but at least he is not like other guys who talk very loud loud one..

I will be so proud of him as i am the girl who is with her for life.. :love:

[jay_angel]

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[SnowFlakes]

definitely!! :) ...eventhough we won't get to spend so much time together...it would be nice to travel with him sometimes (altho he'll be working most of the time)...and maybe he'll even compose songs for me...

[ChoirChick212]

Oh Hell Yeah. I mean, the whole media frenzy would be tiresome, but hey - look at all of the other couples out there that are doing great. I think it would be so exciting having Jay as my husband. I'm a bit shy around the corners too, but I still know how to have fun and I think if someone is fun and exciting, but still collective and calm they can bring out a different side of Jay.

[msv]

Can I get a free trail with Jay as my hubby? Haaahaaa, forget about that, hell... I'll take Jay as my hubby any given day (heehee... the only sad thing is he's all the way on the otherside of the world so no luck for me :cry: ) Well... unless I go all the way to where he is.... he's perfect the way he is!

[joeacid]

Well... i would if i could but of course i know i can't. And i'll not consider myself good enough for Jay. As a Jay's supporter here, I want Jay of find someone who is 100% conpatible to him!! lol

[happy1004]

who wouldn't?!?!?!?!?! but i think practically speaking, that will never happen since we probably can't even understand each other. (i don't speak any chinese & i doubt that he'll speak either english or korean...) =*(
that's a sad thought, but if i can dream on, then i'll definately have him as my hubby!!! he seems soooo sweet & loving! just my type of guy!!! *^^*

[Pey-ru]

Nope..I couldn't ..althought I like him, his not the guy for me because we ahven't even met before and Jay is too old for me lol.. If I did say yes I wouldn't like him to be my husband because it would just be realli weird and strange knowing that u loved his songs and was a fan of him and now marring him...0.o that would freak me..hahaha..^^

[Dong Feng Puo]

yes in a heartbeat... okay maybe 2 xP i'm a BIG time sucker for musicians... so that's already a good enough reason... and i'm intellectually/physically attracted to him... and i like his childlike/boyish side. oh yea, he seems like the family guy type (good to his mother and all) so i'm thinking he should make a pretty good husband xP

[_jayrox_]

Of course i'll nod if he proposed the request...
But like what every one thinks... This is only a day-dream... But whatever, i'll say yes!!! (although he's busy all day long.)

[czavender]

hehehe! i always thought of it.. what if we are destined to be together..of course i would chose him if one day we'll met and falls in love with me *crosses fingers* and ask me to marry him.. but i dont think there is a chance that it wud happen...(sighs) :cry:

[rou]

i nv thot of becoming his wife... all i want is to get to noe him better n just befriend him.. well if that friendship develops into this kind of complication den it's hard to say. well come to think of this now, it's kind of impossible i must say. sob~

[jAywalkIng_xiaozhu]

haha... erm... i think i wouldnt wan2 be his wife bah... he is far too busy to be a girl's hubby... I think he still needs some settling down before he finds a wife... landy wen once said jay would lock himself away without any notice to make music... sudden disappearance, no time for me, no privacy... no thanks... unless i've realli fallen hard for him... or else, i rather just love his music as a fan... and i dont think i'm the rite girl for him, quiet? well yea, i am, but till ppl called me Blur Queen since the age of 5... no guy would want a retard for a girlfriend bah... :D

[jay_szehiu]

haha.. :) . if i have chance to be jay's girlfriend
i think i will choose jay as my husband
for me, i feel that jay would be a very good husband
and will love his wife very much
and will always do some sweet things to his wife
and will love child very much :kisschee:
and will not argue with the one he loves..
haha...
:yeah:

[jtayk]

Yeah, I would. If Jay has the gut to propose to someone like me then I won't turn him down since he is so perfect and very royal. I just do the duty of housewife, and I will also help him writing songs as well since I have the passion for this, and see wheather my song will b as hit as my husband's.

[sakikora]

well...the thought of it is WONDERFUL:love: ...but if it means giving up my privacy ...that's a different story :dry: ...although i love him and everything :blush: ...i still want to be respected and have privacy :worry: ...well...~this is REALLY HARD~ :hmm: ...you guys ask the hard questions!!!! :oops: ...i dont know... :angel: i guess i'll marry him...hehehe :laughing: ...

[weemalyn]

i don't think i will choose Jay as my husband if I have a chance. He is soooo busy, would not be able to see him very often. I think it can be quite stressful to be the wife of a hearthrob :yeah: . because people will expect that you are of certain quality and must be very goos in order for Jay to choose you as his wife. I rather be his sister or cousins, it will be better this way

[ruby_unique]

that really strucked me! both advantages and disadvantages.. :cry: advantages is that i will be able to be with the one i love...but disadvantage..maybe no sense of security coz he will always be away from me leaving me alone waiting for him! oh that sux.. :cry:

[cool181]

:glug: nice question~~
for me no....i wont choose jay as my husband & i dont think that before also~~

:rolleyes: i think me & jay are from different world......he definately not my cup of coffee & i'm also not his drink.....
only his music & talent make i admire him as idol or brother??

actually i like jay NOT love.....:happy:

[thupham]

u bet i would, but the better question is that would jay choose me as a wife for him :) hahaha
i doubt it, i am not that pretty, but my sweet personality makes up for it in some way.

[esther]

I love Jay.. But I dont think i will want Jay to be my husband. It takes alot to spend the whole life with someone. The enormous pressure and stress that we will face might end up straining the relationship and i think it will be very hard for both of us. Having no privacy is the worst part because whatever happens between us will be in the limelight. Imagine paparazis following us and snapping our photos even when we just go the park for a stroll.. no, i dont like this kind of life.

i might not make a very good jay's wife as i dont know how to cook, dont do housework, am not the type to stay at home and be very obliging towards Jay. =)

plus the fact that he needs to travel around, spend most of his time in the studio etc, ya, i might give it a miss to have jay as my husband.. hahahahaha, as if i really have a choice like this to make....=)

[Amante]

At first, if you ask me now, I don't want to be his wife. I think that I can't bear with a lot of pressure of famous. I can't read newspapers that have Jay and me's gozzips everyday. :sweat: I'm not like Patty. I think she's stronger than me. And another reason is I want my husband give his time for me. But for Jay, he must to work. Have time to work, so not have time for me. I don't want it.

But if I were his wife, I'd to accept all words that I posted above. Because I were his wife right now. I don't give up easily, I wanna try my best and I'll do everything to keep our love forever. :wink2:

[mango frappuccino]

Why not? of course! =) He would sing for me everyday!

[ask4more_jay]

ha ha. yeah!! he's so hott..........and he seems pretty nice. omg. it'd be HEAVEN!

[hYsteRicA]

i will give up anything to be his wife. of course i will choose him as my husband. he's so cool and suave. and so romantic also....... but then the privacy thing is quite irritating ah.

[DiNkY-DoNk]

ahhhhhh
this would be my dream come true!!!!!@!@!#!@!#!!!!!!!!!

*heart flutters non-stop*

i dream every night of marrying jay :love: :love: :love:

[go back to the past]

well... i will do everything for Jay .
If he is willing to marry me, of Course.
But I don't really think that I can be a good wife, cause i don't know anything about cooking and chores, so that I cannot take a well care of him.
But anywaqy, i will try my best.

[audrey_wong1019]

well..i think i won't choose him to be my husband...i still prefer those normal life where i don't have to avoid those reporters..it's kinda scary...:worry:

[zhuangzhi]

OF COURSE!!!!
I would like to have him as my husband! I hope I can meet him one day and just make him look at me for a moment, so that perhaps he might be interested in seeing me more (lol) Anyway, isn't that too much? hahaha... Nothing is ever impossible :)

LOVE,
Zhuangzhi

[jaychou_21]

I'd love to be,if I was a girl. :wink2:
But to give up my gender just for Jay...why not? :lolabove:
Just kidding! I wouldn't undergo a sex change just for him. :laughing:
I'm happy being a man. :D

[candy311]

first of all... i don't think he'll wanna marry me in the 1st place... i'm not his type... i'm very outspoken, talk back alot, spoilt... so i basically be a good wife, other than standing by him when he's in trouble or something... and look at the age difference... he's more than double my age for heaven's sakes :worry:
but if he somehow just falls for me, i'll say why not? if he's willing to sacrifice some of his work time to company me, i wouldn't mind sacrificing my privacy... and i think u'll get less privacy when u're dating compared to after you're married... :happy:

[qiuz]

as for me, i will definitely choose him as my husband :excited:
he is the type that i like, and i would be using him as the standard to find my future husband... but i know it will be hard to find 1 like him...
but i'm not his type just like candy311. cause i also talk very loud, i don't have those long silky hair.... :worry:

[go back to the past]

I would like him to be my husband. But I don't really want to be his wife... I mean, I love him, if he would like to marry me, I would like to do everything for him, But as far as I know, I can not be a good wife, I don't know how to do chores, how to cook and everything. If Jay is going to marry me, he gonna have a horrible time with me.So for him, I don't force him to marry me.

[ChuE]

well it depends on if he's really kind,first we gotta know eachother and Then if your hearts says he's good
then yes hehehe,..

[liliceprincess]

it is kinda a hard decision...he might be cute and have great music but i don't know him personally therefore i cannot give my opinion..i am sorry...but it seems that jay would be a great husband..i mean treating u right and all..i mean if he is like that to the fans what is you were his wife....i mena there are the bad parts like the privacy and always being talked about...so i don't exactly know

[jzsun]

no doi. hes so hot and HOT! lol. and it'll be so awsum to hear his voice everyday. *sigh* i get all smiley just thinkin bout it. i would do anything to be his wifey.

[becauseofYOU]

haha YES!! sure, why not? :) i mean this is just a dream right.. and in my dreams i would want to marry jay, just to see how it is :P

[-zhoujielunrocks]

i WOULD do anything to be his wife! haha! he's great, gorgeous! but as his fan, of course i would. yupp. i mean its not like i would really wanna be his wife. maybe a husband that has about the same characteristics as him! haha. that would be great (:

[esther]

yeah yeah yeah, but in my dreams.. haha.. i'll sleep a few more hours everyday so as to increase the chance of having this dream.. Haha. But sorry i wouldnt want my dream to come true in reality.. Haha.. Too stressed and too unbelieveable in real life.. =)

[jiali]

Nah.. after giving some serious thought to this, if i could choose him as my husband, i won't choose him. His life and mine is totally different. But having him as a big brother would be nice! I don't have a brother at all, so i guess i would want him as my bro instead.

[zhanzhao]

It's a no for me. I don't fancy him that way. I love his songs... and I love Jay Chou as my big brother. I don't know.. he's not my type anyway. But if I get to know him a little bit more, then MAYBE.

[Annabella]

um... really not sure... havent really thought about that question before... well... i guess it will be pretty hard... because all of a sudden... you will have a husband that millions of other people love too... and you have to sneak around like thieves because you guys dont wanna be the headlines of the newspapers... and most of all... lsoing your privacy... that will be a HUGE problem... but... since i LOVE him... im willing to give up anything and everything for him...!!!

[DragonPrince]

Well, I don't know. The Jay I know is superficial. What he is doing elsewhere is something we should know before we decide if he is an ideal guy.

[sam_ho]

no way! Jay is way too perfect and hot..and talented for some trash like me..><''

[Livlife2_fullest]

although the man is JAY:rolleyes: my answer would be NONONONO

I would hate to marry someone who is constantly away or at work...because I personally need a LOT of attention...and he has so many fans...I would be too jealous (I know...bad trait:shy: )

Plus, jay said himself that he has 大男人主义 (traditionalist husband?) and likes very passive, soft, agreeable, and extremely gentle girls...and I know that I cannot abide to everything my boyfriend/husband would say, and i am someone who has my own ideas, :angel: likes to make decisions, and would stand up headstrong to my beliefs....so, I would make a very bad wife according to Jay's standards:wacko:

[ch3rri3]

I dont know.
I guess this is a question which I can only answer after I really get to know Jay in person. For now, my feeling for him is only admiration.

[princess`bobo]

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOoOoOOOoooOOOOOoooOOOOoo....

i see jay as more of a casual partner...lol

naw i'd never want to marry Jay...hez too old for me and like livlife said, he'd want a gentle, passive, basically boring and cant think for herself type of wife....and that is so not me...

ok i admit i'm pretty blonde and i'm a bimbo most of the time but my bf and i make our decisions together and he will listen to my opinion...i'd hate to have a dominant male chauvanistic pig for a husband...even if he is as talented and cute as jay...

sorry buddy, but it just wouldn't work out

[sinyee]

haha no way. i wouldn't like to get involved with a celebrity especially an international one. there wouldn't be any privacy and any small mistakes done accidentally will definitely exaggerated in media reports. so no, i wouldn't choose Jay as my husband.

[milkee_glitz]

Hm.. If I had the chance, being a confidante would very enough..

I don't think I'll choose him as a hubby, although I really want him to be, ;p.. It's too much of a sacrifice.. Privacy.. Long distance apart.. Nope.. It won't do..

[pepprmint]

well, the biggest reason i wouldnt marry him is cuz i cant even communicate with him. he speaks only madarin, and i speak canto and english, so as awesome as he is, we couldnt talk to eachother...
another thing is im pretty quiet. so if im the quiet type, and he's the quiet type, two quiet people just dont match very well. throw in the language barier and we'll just be sitting there facing the wall and not talking..
and the whole privacy thing is a big downside too. im personally very low-key with my relationships, and im sure he tries to be too, but as much as we try, we know its not gonna be low-key. i can handle rumors and all, but itll be scary.

[jazlyn87]

i might marry jay .. it depends .. cause my mandarin is not good .. and my english is much better.. hey maybe we can teach each other some new language .. and i'm the kind of girl who likes to pamper her guy and let the guy pamper her.. of course haunted by the paparazzi isn't fun but hey , if it's love, why not?

[rockfaerie]

i would have to get to know him mucch better. set me a couple of dates with him and he'll all mine! haha. because i have my own Jay Chou, my boyfriend. He looks like Jay Choe, well abit, his eyes and jaw and he dresses like Jay Chou. R&B style.
so yeah, i dont mind of him being my hubby. miahahah

[koala--bear]

well, sometimes i have a feeling that i really know somebody even though i've never met them. but i really can't answer 'cuz i don't really know him. but if i was intimately in love with him, (which i think i am), i would give up anything to be with him.

[mei yen]

he he he...:D so big problem to answer...
how can i know he can b my husband in reality:angel: ..coze it's only fantasy...:wink2:
however is fantasy, may b i can choose him to b my husband.... ha ha ha...:excited:
o....still fantasy...wait untill i'm graduated ok..jay..only a few month more...:worry:
he he he...so crazy...(still dreaming who can b my husband coze bf don't have):wacko:

[kwonsang26]

I would definitely have to get to know the talented fine man personally first before making such a huge decision with my life.

Because once I get married,I want to stay with that one person only for the rest of my life.Not having to deal with marital issues & getting a nasty divorce.

May be living with him for several months to see how he really is & his habits.But it still would be nice to be married to someone who is idolized by millions.^^

[moemoe]

my initial reaction was NOOOO.. lol he just doesn't seem my type. i want someone i can spend time with whenever and talk to and there are gna be serious clashes in language..

no english on his part vs. no mandarin on my part (oh dear..) plus i wouldn't be good at the whole 'he's always gna be swarmed with people & paparazzi'

*sigh* so i guess Jay just isn't for me..

[joce]

being his wife is a really good idea. but to give my privacy maybe not...
i dont like to have no privacy. it is just like when you are dating outside then lots of cameramen will take your portrait everywhere...
it just really uncomfortable for me... :dry:

[ghettosushi713]

OMG I would never DREAM of being jay chou's wife
if age wasn't a matter
then most definitely I would... not
because I would never give up my own dreams
I mean I could still pursue a career in the medical field or art
but then I would be getting fame not because of what I do
but because of Jay

and another thing- Im not that photogenic so i wouldn't be good enough for jay =p

[R A I N B O W x3]

heck yesssssssss! i would love to have jay as my husband. we would be the best couples ever!

[Jay is coolest]

Of course, that would be great. I have always prayed for a man, who has a strong mind, willing hands and big heart. Jay has it all.

Sure, he'll be away and I know it would be lonely without him, but his music makes him happy! I will never ask him to change anything. He should do what makes him happy, and I'll be happy for him!

Oh, he wants feminine. I'm feminine, sweet and kind. kekekek. And when he comes home, he can get all the attention he wants from me!! Distance makes the heart fonder. My Mr works long hours and night shifts. But whenever he does something for me, I feel so loved. I always say 'hi honey' and smile when I see my Mr. I appreciate time consuming activities more than expensive gifts, because I know that money is cheap whereas time isn't!!! (well, for high powered people anyway).

Who cares about privacy? That's a sacrifice I'm willing to take for Jay! I'd love to be around to take care of him whenever he needs me. That'll be the purpose of my life!!!

[olivia_kristie]

No.. I like him just because he's so talented, but I won't take him as my husband.. I just don't love him that way.. And..he's not really my type..^_^

[belindie364]

it all depends.. I don't think things would work out if he was always on the road working. And knowing him and how ambitious he is about his career, he probably wouldn't be home very much. Also, as much as I think his shyness with girls is cute, I'm definitely drawn to guys who have stronger and more outgoing personalities.

[shadowcats2]

Well...I'm older than Jay. I'm not Chinese, and I don't speak any Mandarin. And then there is the small problem of my current husband to consider...LOL

Otherwise, you bet I'd marry Jay!! I have a feeling he could be a real gem underneath the rough edges. Hope he finds someone who can make him happy!

[mei yen]

wah:-)..why not:glug:...as long as he can take responsibility be a husband and his work..i think it's not problem...hahaha...mery xmas...:wave:

[ignatian0607]

i would if:

only we weren't ages away...
he's not that busy anymore...

the more I'd say yes if:

he'd write songs for me...
play basketball with me...
just have fun...with me...

he's a really good & talented guy...but when he gets married hopefully he'll really give time for his family...

[ryanjayfan]

suree ^^..if only i was the..opposite gender XD..

[ask4more_jay]

uhhh....
havent you heard?
he IS my husband =D

[x_Rachel_x]

if i gotto know jay and really fell in lovewith him i would marryhim.
would the constant media and non pivacything effect me? well if i really loved jay i would put up with it even if i didn't like it because if you love him u would do and go through any thing for him.

**but obviously this is what i think, but if i was really in the situation maybe it will be different**

[shuyu]

If he asks me, I'll say I do...!!!!! :D
He is so nice to his mom and grandma..
I'm sure he'll make a nice hubby too :angel:

[ckhang]

uhhh....
havent you heard?
he IS my husband =D
LOL
um hummmmm~ no i can't just CHOOSE i gotta get to know the guy...so it all depends on how compaitible we are! Cuz if you just choose the guy, then you might have made a mistake...love hate relationship you know?
i totally agree and i was surprised to see many "no"s. unfortunately, I'd have to say no because I don't know him personally. however, I think and talk about him like he's my bf to my friends. When it comes to marriage, you just have to know the other person whether they're rich or poor, famous or low, and so on.

Of course, he has all the great husband qualities I'd want in a man.

[mei yen]

ehm:wink2:...if he propose me... :shy:n i will....:brows:nothing to be afraid..:-)

[lovejaykeai]

ehm:wink2:...if he propose me... :shy:n i will....:brows:nothing to be afraid..:-)

definitely say yes lol!
i dun care if i dunno know him much!
even if he then divorce me still
i'll b so proud 2 b his ex-wife!

[jazlyn87]

well it depends if i'm madly in love with him in person cause right now i'm in love with his music ..

unless he's willing to sing to me every morning :D

[Wendy]

The question is "if i will choose him as a husband?" The answer is a definite YES! He is one of the most eligible bachelor in the whole universe..

But sadly.. the cruel reality is that who HE chooses as his wife.. :cry:

[alisadorsey@yahoo.co]

Well husband. HMMMM!Well like any guy that I would choose as a husband prospect, Jay even though popular and of course has more money than me would have to meet my expectations and requirements. I would definitely have to get to know him better, and go from there. I could not at this time tell you that I would marry him, only because I am only going by what others tell me who he is. Not that I know him personally. He does have a kind heart and is very giving, but I would have to see him interact with others and myself of course, before I could honestly answer that question. On the money hand, he is famous and all the perks come with that title. So if you can handle that kind of exposure, then you may be right to marry Jay.

[lovejaykeai]

the real question is did jay want to pick me as his wife rather than me picking him as my husband!

me n jay~~~~ well so wo bu pei (not worthy) 2 have him as my husband! so i don't dare saying i won't pick him.

[jayloverUK]

Without knowing Jay it is impossible to say yes or No. I defaintly would not rule him out though. He sounds like he would make a wonderful husband. Yes there would be a lot of sacrifices but if you truely love someone, is that not what it is about? Making sacrifices and accepting them the way they are, thier life circumstances.... everything.
Doubt Jay would want a woman with six tattos though lol!!

[foxy]

wouldn't choose Jay as my husband hahahah i'd rather to be his best friend like Geng Hong or maybe his younger sister (sibling). that would be better. as if i am his wife, we may have quarrell or something like that. yet, if i am his sister, he'd love me so much..like he loves his mother and his grandma hahaha xD

[Onigiri]

hahah this discussion is quite cute :D
I've always really, reall appreciated Jay because hes so talented in so many ways!! I think guys with musical talent are ultra sexy and Jay's changed so much in the years it would be cool to have a boyfriend with his style. so in many ways I'd choose a guy like Jay to be my hubby :happy:

[iiws]

I wanna be his douther more than his wife^^
hahaha
I think he's warm when he stay with kids.
and I will be his good kid^3^

[StupiakLil]

Haha. If I was given the chance, I doubt I'll choose him as my husband. But I don't think he'll choose me either :D

But having a husband that can sing your favourite song everyday to you ain't that bad either.

[BabyAngel]

yea yea ... i totally wan him to be my husband (always dreamdreaming about it) a good husband with the ability in music field ) he can sing it to me whenever i need it ^^v

[jazlyn87]

i won't mind jay being my husband although i would have to share him with millions other girls who are oogling him as well

and also i would be a target of hate club .. hehe but as long as we love each other, i think it would be worth it

plus, i bet he would be a good father too .. that's very important